
JADE tea room ☕️
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All of the JADE tea, with a drop of Little Mix and a spoonful of Perrie and Leigh-Anne. ☕️ (Taking anonymous tips via DM. Tips aren’t guaranteed to be posted.)
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Asked about her “toxic” relationship and “hellish” breakup with Zayn, Perrie sheds some light on what she went through but stresses there’s still “so much” she’ll never share: “I need to be careful how I say this, but… Let’s just say there was… There was a bit of an overlap. When you’re the one left behind, it’s hard. Because it’s like, ‘Shit, they’ve left me for someone more beautiful than me, someone better than me…’ That’s how it felt at the time. Then you have a song they’ve written about you, but then someone else is in the video… It was one thing after the other after the other. I remember finding out about that. I’d just moved into my little bungalow in Surrey because I was trying to get as far away as I could, and I just remember finding out about that. I thought, ‘This is all getting a bit much…’, and then I started crying my eyes out. And then my dad started crying and he was like, ‘I don’t know how I can take this pain away,’ and I’m like, ‘Nobody can! This is hellish! Like… What is going on?!” It was really one thing after the other. And there’s so much that people don’t know about that I would never say, even though I just spilled some beans. But there’s so much that went into it [and] that I went through that I would never talk about, and it was real hard. So that’s probably why I get a bit frustrated at times [when people tell her not to talk about her experience].”
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When asked if she thinks she’ll ever rekindle her friendship with Jesy, Perrie says she’ll “always love her” but no longer wants to reconcile after feeling hurt by her documentary: “If I’m being completely transparent, part of me wanted to… until her documentary. Then part of me withdrew again. This is the thing: I’m not a horrible person, I haven’t got a [malicious] bone in my body, but I can cut you off. [Laughs] If you upset me and hurt me in a way [where] there’s not really any going back, I can forgive, but I don’t want you in my space. This is what I’m learning in therapy: there’s capability and there’s capacity. I only have a certain amount that I can cram in – I have my career, my relationship, my friends, things going on… personal things, public things, everything. I don’t have the capacity for somebody like that in my life anymore. That might make me sound like a bitch, but I just don’t have the energy for it. As much as I will always love her, I don’t think I can hack that energy in my space. You can’t fix people. They’re set in their ways – and clearly they don’t think there’s anything wrong with [those ways] – so you think, ‘Okay! You do you and I’ll do me and that’s that.’”
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Perrie says she’s “sad” she couldn’t enjoy her pregnancy with Alanis because she was too “on edge” following her two miscarriages: “When I was pregnant with Alanis, I was just on edge the whole time. All I did was eat. I gained 4.5 stone of comfort food. Every appointment, my stomach felt like it was doing somersaults. Every appointment wasn’t enjoyable. And that upsets me, because I love being pregnant. I love the feeling of it, I love carrying a baby. I feel powerful, I feel untouchable. It’s wild how you feel. I’m sad that during the pregnancy, I didn’t get to enjoy it fully until the very end, because I was just always on edge.“
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Perrie admits she’s “frustrated” by how Jesy Nelson has portrayed the breakdown of her relationship with Little Mix, adding that she feels the group consistently tried supporting Jesy at the cost of their own mental health, and that accountability should be taken on all sides: “Sometimes you just won’t win with people. And what annoys me the most… I have to be careful how I say this because I don’t want to seem like a bitch… But what upsets me the most when situations like this happen is when the other person doesn’t take any accountability. That boils my blood. I’m not blaming everything on you [Jesy]. I’m not saying, ‘She’s this fucking monster and everything was her fault’ and blah blah blah. But take some accountability for your actions and realise you were difficult. You did have difficult moments. Granted, there were reasons for those moments... but you can only pick somebody up so many fucking times before you start losing track of your own sanity. You want to be there for that person, but if they can’t accept the help and they can’t accept the love you’re trying to show, how do you win? You can’t. I hate that. I don’t like putting the blame on people. Don’t put the blame on me and make me out to be something that I’m not. Yes, I’m not perfect. I might not have been there enough, or I could have done better I suppose… but I thought what I was doing was enough. I thought I’d tried everything. So to then sit there in further interviews and discuss it publicly and be like, ‘I wasn’t supported’… You were, though. You were. So just take some accountability and I’ll feel better about it. I’d say [I’m] more frustrated than angry, because I don’t like being painted into a person that I’m not. Because I’m an open book, I have to be real. It exhausts me when I see people that I know inside and out not being genuine. It frustrates me.”
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Perrie is asked about reaching out to Jesy Nelson following her twins’ SMA diagnosis: “I think [after] everything we’ve been through as a group, even though it ended in ways I wouldn’t have wanted and we’re not that close anymore and not in each other’s lives, we’ll always have that weird connection. Seeing Jesy go through that… it broke me. As much as we’ve got our issues, I don’t want to see her go through that. I don’t want to see her hurting. I don’t want to see any of that. It’s heartbreaking.”
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Perrie says the end of her friendship with Jesy felt “just as hard as a breakup” because she got no closure: “It is just as hard as a breakup. Especially when you don’t get closure. When that’s it, it’s done, and you’ve got no say in it anymore. I can’t move on without closure.”
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Perrie is asked if there’s a “competitive” nature to Little Mix’s solo careers: “Not between us. We love each other so much. If I see the girls doing well, I feel like I'm winning because I love them that much. Whereas everybody else compares us all the time. It is draining.”
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Perrie says her current relationship is “the reverse” of her previous relationship, as they “very rarely argue” and she no longer feels like she has to “walk on eggshells”: “Little things might happen and I’d think, ‘Oh no, he’s gonna kick off.’ One point, my ex reached out, and I didn’t know how to the handle the situation cause I’d been with Alex for like, a year-and-a-half/two years. I remember sweating and panicking, thinking, ‘I’ve got to tell him that I spoke to him’, and I remember being terrified. I told him everything and he was like, ‘Okay, well I really appreciate you telling me. Thank you for letting me know. That’s fine.’ And that was it. He’s always been like that, and I think I needed that.”
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Perrie is asked when she “realistically” thinks Little Mix will reunite: “That’s what I keep asking the girls! We’re all excited for that to happen one day. Not to blow our own trumpet – but, y’know, toot toot! – we were SO good. Sorry, we were! The songs, the vibes, the choreo, the performances – we just threw everything at it. And I feel like, because we have such a core fanbase, we can just, in a few years’ time be like, ‘Why not [reunite]?!’”
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Perrie discusses ‘Gabriela’ by KATSEYE: “You know that was meant to be a Little Mix song? I was obsessed with it. And we passed on it. Well… one of us did. Not me, not JADE, not Leigh-Anne… But [KATSEYE] smash it, I’m glad they got it! But we loved that song so much.”
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Perrie reposted on Instagram (18/05/2026): “I’m not angry, I’m not bitter, I’m not holding a grudge. I’d just rather protect my peace than perform a reunion that I don’t feel. You can be forgiven and still not be welcome. I’m not even being cold – that’s just clarity. […] I forgave you; I just don’t want you near me anymore… People confuse forgiveness with reconciliation. They think because you let it go, you should let them back in. Forgiveness is access that has to be earned. Just because I released the anger, doesn’t mean I forgot what you showed me. I can forgive you and still not trust you. I can wish you well and still not want you in my space. I can pray for you and still keep the door locked… Those things aren’t contradictions; they’re wisdom. People who get upset when you forgive but don’t restore access didn’t want your forgiveness – they wanted their position back. They wanted to skip the accountability and go straight back to proximity. But proximity without change is just a second opportunity to do the same thing.”
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JADE performing her new single ‘Church’ on The Graham Norton Show
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🔊 JADE’s boyfriend (Rizzle Kicks’s Jordan Stephens) defends Harry Styles’s BRITs performance, pushing back at claims that Harry lacks authenticity with the genres he’s exploring: “This is proximity bias, I promise you. [People are] unable to detach themselves from the memory of a young Harry Styles. If Harry had mystery… he doesn't have that in the UK. I live through the same issue with people. He has lived a life that you don't know about. He didn't even do anything [in the public eye] for an entire year. He wasn't even around. You don't know what he did; you’ve got no idea where he was. If no one knew who Harry Styles was and that was the first performance [they saw], why are you questioning whether or not he went to a fucking club? Just listen to the song. Do you know why I loved Harry's performance? I loved Harry’s performance because – and I mean this – when I was away in Canada, I saw JADE perform twice… and I genuinely, in my heart of hearts, don't think there's a better all-round [pop] performer than JADE in the UK. And I'm not even trying to say this as some lovey-dovey bullshit, I swear to fuck I'm not. I mean this as objectively as possible. Not everyone's going to love pop. But Jade does full choreo, full live vocal, she does full stage design… The amount she puts into a live show, you have to – l have to – respect it. I have to go, ‘Whoa, that is incredible.’ When I look at men who are pop-adjacent, it is fucking barren. Just seeing a solo male artist on stage doing any kind of dance routine – while singing, with a dope set, with a choir, and he's doing these little moves… I want that. I need pop-adjacent artists to get it. For me, my journey with music or movement has developed throughout my life. And actually, oddly, my relationship to techno or club or that kind of rhythm – that energy has come out in me since becoming sober. Since I stopped drinking, I actually want to engage with that club culture more, because the music brings me a sense of escape. And I see that in Harry. My point is, I can understand why a person can be taken into a place of connection to that style of music without trying to *be* anything. Dancing isn't owned by anybody. If anyone wants to dance, they can dance.”
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Perrie opens up for the first time about experiencing two miscarriages and losing a baby 6 months into pregnancy: “The first time it happened, I think because it was so early, I was like, ‘Aw, that's sad’. But I think when you're fully carrying and you’re 24 weeks and you've planned out that room and all these things, it's really hard. I’ve never spoken about it before because I end up a wreck. Nobody knows other than immediate friends and family. And I remember shortly after, friends would message and be like, ‘How's bump?’ And I'd be like, ‘There isn’t one.’ It was just a lot.”
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