Arien Malik
@arienmalik • 147,000 subscribers
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POV: you’re talking to someone with ZERO consideration If these types of people keep showing up in your life it’s not my chance it’s a pattern. One I know all too well. I created a framework to help you recognize the pattern your in, interrupt it in real time and learn how to move in healthy dynamics. Tap the link in my profile to get started
Arien Malik181,500 görüntüleme • 3 gün önce
What it feels like talking to someone with NO emotional intelligence. It feels like you’re talking to a wall. A very angry, confused, defensive one. 🤷🏽♂️ If you want to build your emotional intelligence to become an exceptional partner, end toxic relationship patterns or get a custom video and action plan from me on exactly what you’re going through PLUS a free bonus… Tap the link in my profile!
Arien Malik537,300 görüntüleme • 1 ay önce
When the communication in your relationship is broken. On the one hand, you have a person who doesn't know how to open up and is afraid to open up and communicate effectively when they're going through something.. but then there’s the other person who feels like they're genuinely doing something healthy by asking their partner what's wrong, but they don't have the emotional intelligence to do so in a way that doesn't make their partner feel attacked. This is a dynamic that's common for what people go through on a day-to-day basis. Whose side are you on? #relationships
Arien Malik142,800 görüntüleme • 28 gün önce
What else would you add to the list? Only 10 days left for the Healthy Relationship Guide free giveaway in exchange for honest feedback before I officially launch it. Message me “GUIDE” and I’ll send it over. #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #RelationshipTips #EmotionalIntelligence #PersonalGrowth
Arien Malik278,700 görüntüleme • 4 ay önce
Emotionally immature people are immune to accountability. It triggers there inner insecurities lack of self awareness and allergy to being held responsible for someone else’s discomfort. What moment told you that you were dealing with an emotionally immature person?
Arien Malik29,400 görüntüleme • 21 gün önce
Expecting your partner to help around the house is healthy. Using the fact that you pay the bills to belittle, disrespect, or control them is not. Financial contribution doesn’t give you permission to treat your partner like they’re beneath you, especially when they’re contributing in other ways, like cooking, cleaning, and managing the household. The problem isn’t expecting help. It’s using what you provide as leverage to mistreat someone. You can be frustrated that the dishes aren’t done. You can have a conversation about responsibilities. But when paying the bills becomes a reason your partner isn’t allowed to have a bad day, express their feelings, or disagree with you, it’s no longer just about chores. It’s about power and respect. Providing for someone should never become a weapon you use against them. #RelationshipAdvice #HealthyRelationships #FinancialAbuse #RelationshipBoundaries #EmotionalAbuse
Arien Malik16,800 görüntüleme • 16 gün önce
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