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I’ve been seeing these painful videos of the owner of Giwa Gardens in series of rants about his employees and how his businesses are badly managed by the people he put in charge, and then calling Nigerian youths lazy. I beg to disagree very strongly. Western youths are generally more lazy than Africans and that's why you see immigrants doing lots of the hard work abroad. The difference is that the west invests in systems and processes to ensure that things work. Watched one of the CEO's videos saying he "trusts" his GM to do the work but he doesn't. Trust is good, but control is better. This is a multimillion naira business and something is fundamentally wrong with the systems and processes if a business of this size requires the owner to physically shout and be there before things get done. Many Other companies use activation agents and they deliver. I understand how tiring running a business is, especially the people management part, but this one has to be a systems and structure issue. Even the best high flyers may not give as best as they should if they find themselves in an environment that accommodates nonchalance. Business leaders need to know that investing in a business is not just by spending millions or billions on the infrastructure and salaries. You have to also invest significantly in the systems that will make it run. But many times, entrepreneurs believe they understand it better than the consultant who can help them design it. And don't just stop at design, get them to support with implementation. I've had several clients in this same situation in the past that we helped solve it by building and implementing systems that work. It starts with you telling yourself the truth, not by blaming it on Nigerian youths. We all don't know it all. You'll even often hear some say consultants only speak English. Clearly this frustration and all that's been said in his videos reiterates a lack of working systems and reflects more on the business owner than the employees.

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This story and my message is for MEN ONLY. It applies to women too but I am not a woman and do not live in their reality. Neither am I a content creator that set ring light to discuss women issues. I am a man and have lived realities as a man so I will only address men. Yesterday, I stumbled upon this incredibly profound video by David Depiero and reshared it on Instagram, and got a few responses from people who could relate with it. But one call from a friend particularly stood out. And I told him I had to share this for others to learn. A bit of a long story. Anyways, my friend (let’s call him Jabi) got separated a few years ago and divorced thereafter. After Jabi separated, a friend (let’s call his friend Ogidi) reached out to him that he noticed Jabi shared same surname with someone he knows on IG but had recently stopped and also no longer followed each other. Jabi then mentioned that they were married and now divorced. Then Jabi got a shocking story - Ogidi confessed to him that Jabi’s ex wife was actually his own ex girlfriend/fiance. He was madly in love with her while she was in final year while he had graduated, and was already planning to marry her when his family friend, who was hostel mates with this lady, called him and vehemently opposed the idea and narrated to him how terribly toxic the lady is. How she is very active in fellowships, very religious, but very stingy and toxic to her room mates and hostel mates to the point of violence and tantrums and smashing things. Amongst the many other things she told him, she insisted it was going to be a mistake and convinced him to reconsider. She then went the extra mile to tell his mum and dad and fought hard to ensure he reconsidered. Ofcourse, the toxic lady then met my friend Jabi very shortly afterwards and got married to him. My friend in turn fell in love with the active fellowship shy girl and never bothered to check her background. He invested everything in her and supported her in every way from when they met till they separated. Turned out a total mistake of his life. Toxic, ungrateful, narcissistic and violent. Worse, she came from a terrible family with opposite family love and values from his. He eventually ran away from the house to avoid domestic scandals that will ruin his career and life - because as a man, you can never win in the court of public opinion. This video is so profound especially for young men. Please and please, keep building your life till you find your purpose. Keep grinding. Don’t succumb to society to pressure you to marry just because it’s another thing to do. As you build, painstakingly also develop a mental or written checklist of the type of woman you want that aligns with your purpose and journey. PRAY. FLEE from toxic women. Flee from entitled and ungrateful women. The choice of a life partner may be the single most important decision of your life, do not gamble recklessly with it. Men who had their lives so good have lost their life’s work, gotten poorer, committed suicide, become a shadow of themselves, and thousands of other things just by marrying toxic and selfish women. Ofcourse this is not talking to irresponsible men. A man can't be perfect but I am addressing ambitious, responsible, family oriented and naturally generous men. You’ll only keep pouring into a basket and never get anything back. Don't choose a loser. Don’t waste your life with women who dont align with your purpose and only want to take from you. Save this video, share it, ponder on it and make it your mantra to ensure you dont do more due diligence in choosing a business partner or buying a television than you spend choosing a life partner. It may be leading you into a voluntary life of toxicity that will change the course of your life for worse, forever.

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