
divya venn
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i write in hope some of you will execute my good ideas better than me
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what makes you irreplaceable to someone is how much shame you free them from - NOT what you do for them, but who you allow them to be. This is why shame is the true currency of power in interpersonal relationships. revelations in my personal life entirely due to a VERY interesting 5 hour long convo w danny
divya venn39,704 次观看 • 8 个月前

How to win friends and influence people is a great book if you don’t take it literally (as autists and aspies are prone to do unfort) For most, the root of social anxiety + shit social skills is actually self centeredness As in u think a lot about how people perceive you instead of THEM and how they feel. Even with the best intentions, this clouds ur discernment and makes u give off suss vibes Best thing you can do is approach every convo with the aim of making the other person feel interesting and relaxed
divya venn42,411 次观看 • 11 个月前
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