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This video brought joyful tears to my eyes this morning. Two years ago, my nanny decided to leave abruptly. I was rotating through general surgery with heavy patient load, frequent calls, and needed to stay in the hospital for several days during unit calls and patients that required us to operate till 2am. My husband had just closed for the year. So I had to drop our 10-month-old with him for about 3 weeks before I got another nanny. He bathed her. Fed her. Washed her hair. Spent quality time with her while I was at work. I didn't have to choose between my career and my child because he stepped up. This morning, that little girl, now 3 years old, knocked on my door and said: "Mummy, open the door. I want to greet you and Daddy." Oh, my word! Fully cohesive. Fully intentional. I can't believe how much she's grown. People talk about "having it all" like it's something you do alone. It's not. You can be an excellent surgeon AND an excellent mother, but not without a strong support system. Who you marry matters because they hold the line when you can't. I'm grateful for this man. And for the bond he built with our daughter when I couldn't be there. I can't even be jealous. Partnership isn't about splitting tasks 50/50.It's about stepping in 100% when your partner needs you to. Enjoy your weekend 😘

This video brought joyful tears to my eyes this morning. Two years ago, my nanny decided to leave abruptly. I was rotating through general surgery with heavy patient load, frequent calls, and needed to stay in the hospital for several days during unit calls and patients that required us to operate till 2am. My husband had just closed for the year. So I had to drop our 10-month-old with him for about 3 weeks before I got another nanny. He bathed her. Fed her. Washed her hair. Spent quality time with her while I was at work. I didn't have to choose between my career and my child because he stepped up. This morning, that little girl, now 3 years old, knocked on my door and said: "Mummy, open the door. I want to greet you and Daddy." Oh, my word! Fully cohesive. Fully intentional. I can't believe how much she's grown. People talk about "having it all" like it's something you do alone. It's not. You can be an excellent surgeon AND an excellent mother, but not without a strong support system. Who you marry matters because they hold the line when you can't. I'm grateful for this man. And for the bond he built with our daughter when I couldn't be there. I can't even be jealous. Partnership isn't about splitting tasks 50/50.It's about stepping in 100% when your partner needs you to. Enjoy your weekend 😘

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Finally got an opportunity to post this. One thing about long distance relationship is that you will do all kinds of videos. Cute videos😍 Praying videos 💡 Goofing videos 😜 I did all sorts when my husband was stationed in the north. If you laugh? 😄 🤣 😂 😆

Finally got an opportunity to post this. One thing about long distance relationship is that you will do all kinds of videos. Cute videos😍 Praying videos 💡 Goofing videos 😜 I did all sorts when my husband was stationed in the north. If you laugh? 😄 🤣 😂 😆

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Compare and contrast these two scenario. Same location Same denominator Different response Clearly the lady is confident and that can be useful in banking, but there is confidence and there is rudeness and sometimes, the line may be blurred. Confidence and Deference can coexist and I hope that people would learn from her. The first attempt to pronounce "Tony" actually formed a lump in the lady's throat and that's why she had to clear the throat well and still repeated it. If I were the one, I'd have changed my approach immediately, and I'd have apologised before moving on

Compare and contrast these two scenario. Same location Same denominator Different response Clearly the lady is confident and that can be useful in banking, but there is confidence and there is rudeness and sometimes, the line may be blurred. Confidence and Deference can coexist and I hope that people would learn from her. The first attempt to pronounce "Tony" actually formed a lump in the lady's throat and that's why she had to clear the throat well and still repeated it. If I were the one, I'd have changed my approach immediately, and I'd have apologised before moving on

Diary of a Female Surgery Resident

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Sis to Bro: I usually prefer to write to you in the evenings, but this is important; Make sure the women around you get help in the first 12 months of their babies lives when there is almost 100 percent dependent on their mum. Once you get back from work, especially if you have a "stay at home" wife, I know you're tired and all that, but please take over childcare for a few hours and let her get some rest. Don't join those who are saying "what have you done since morning. Isn't it only childcare?". Motherhood and Childcare is a lot.

Sis to Bro: I usually prefer to write to you in the evenings, but this is important; Make sure the women around you get help in the first 12 months of their babies lives when there is almost 100 percent dependent on their mum. Once you get back from work, especially if you have a "stay at home" wife, I know you're tired and all that, but please take over childcare for a few hours and let her get some rest. Don't join those who are saying "what have you done since morning. Isn't it only childcare?". Motherhood and Childcare is a lot.

Diary of a Female Surgery Resident

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I saw this video yesterday and I couldn't look away. If you don't watch till the end, you won't know what I am talking about. She looks like Half mexican Half African. I absolutely cannot believe that a baby bloomer pulled that off 😳😄 😂

I saw this video yesterday and I couldn't look away. If you don't watch till the end, you won't know what I am talking about. She looks like Half mexican Half African. I absolutely cannot believe that a baby bloomer pulled that off 😳😄 😂

Diary of a Female Surgery Resident

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In case you're looking for an excuse not to pursue your dream, here's one.

In case you're looking for an excuse not to pursue your dream, here's one.

Diary of a Female Surgery Resident

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Me: Girls??? Girls: Yes??? Michy: Yes, Mummay? 😄(because she has to be extra) Me: Tomorrow is Father's Day. Michy: Father's Day? Baby K: babbles enthusiastically Me: Yes. Father's Day. Michy: For Dhadhy? Me: Yes. For Daddy. Michy: Yay! 🎉 😃 Baby K: Yay yay! 😃 🎉 They love their daddy like that. And honestly, so do I. One of the things motherhood has taught me is that children don't just need provision. They need presence. And over the years, I've watched you build a relationship with our daughters that goes far beyond being their father. You're their safe space. Their playmate. Their storyteller. Their biggest cheerleader. The person they look for when they have met a new milestone, a new friend, a new experience. And sometimes, the person in whose arms they squeeze at 3am when they've abandoned their own beds. 😭😂 Thank you for showing up. Thank you for loving them so intentionally. Thank you for giving them memories that will shape how they see themselves and the world. Happy Father's Day to a wonderful husband and an even better dad. We love you Dada ❤️ So many other things that I could say but I'll let this video do all the talking.

Me: Girls??? Girls: Yes??? Michy: Yes, Mummay? 😄(because she has to be extra) Me: Tomorrow is Father's Day. Michy: Father's Day? Baby K: babbles enthusiastically Me: Yes. Father's Day. Michy: For Dhadhy? Me: Yes. For Daddy. Michy: Yay! 🎉 😃 Baby K: Yay yay! 😃 🎉 They love their daddy like that. And honestly, so do I. One of the things motherhood has taught me is that children don't just need provision. They need presence. And over the years, I've watched you build a relationship with our daughters that goes far beyond being their father. You're their safe space. Their playmate. Their storyteller. Their biggest cheerleader. The person they look for when they have met a new milestone, a new friend, a new experience. And sometimes, the person in whose arms they squeeze at 3am when they've abandoned their own beds. 😭😂 Thank you for showing up. Thank you for loving them so intentionally. Thank you for giving them memories that will shape how they see themselves and the world. Happy Father's Day to a wonderful husband and an even better dad. We love you Dada ❤️ So many other things that I could say but I'll let this video do all the talking.

Diary of a Female Surgery Resident

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