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Adam Carolla says when I was doing The Tonight Show, I was making $30 million a year, which was ridiculous." "Okay, and NBC said, 'Well, we're going to have to cut half the crew.'" "You know, so we had a big meeting and I said, 'All right, by show of hands, how many feel I should take a 50% pay cut so we can keep everybody?' Well, I got outvoted. Well, I got screwed on that one." "But really, I already have $15 million. I'm doing pretty good. You know, I never thought I'd get this far." "And you know something? They were the best crew for the rest of the days. You know, everything was always terrific. It was a union crew. Everybody made a good living." "You know, guys would come up and show me the car they bought or the house they got around the corner or whatever it might be. And it didn't cost me anything, really, because I had plenty of money. I was making plenty of money."
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I WAS FIRED FOR S*XUAL HARASSMENT. A MAN REPORT A SINGLE MOTHER TO HR. Woman: "I just got fired... at my job... for s*xually harassing someone. You know how many men I work with that make s*xual jokes, and I happen to be a part of one? And some young kid, 'cause I made a comment he didn't like that was not s*xual, I offended him. He went to HR and said that I sexually harassed him, I won't leave him alone. I'm serious, like, I cannot make this shit up. I'm a single mom... I don't get child support right now... And the thing that sucks... I didn't do anything wrong. It's a dumb kid that. I made a comment about his girlfriend not making his lunch. It was a joke. Mind you, this kid who's a f*cking weirdo, by the way always trying to be around me, always trying to talk to me. I never said anything sexual to him at all. That's... that's number one. But, I made a comment one day because we went back and forth, like, joking about stuff. I made a comment about how he... he has this little lunch box, and I didn't say he was gay or anything like that. It wasn't a sexual or a derogatory thing. I just said, 'So who... who makes your lunch? Does your girlfriend make your lunch?' And he goes, 'No.' And I like, made a face, like, I'm... I'm joking around. And he got really offended, and he... and he goes, 'My girlfriend has a master's degree, and you're making it sound like her not making my lunch means that she's not adequate.' And I go, 'Woah,' 'cause I didn't mean it that way. It was a joke. And mind you, we've been joking for like a month and a half now about different things." Anton Daniels: "Let this be a lesson, y'all. Right? Because the first lesson is, this is the environment that y'all created."
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"THE CHILD ISN'T MINE" STEPFATHER REFUSES TO SIGN CHILD SUPPORT PAPERS AFTER WOMAN FILED FOR DIVORCE. Man: "I'm not signing no papers, man. That's not my daughter. I'm not paying child support. We can divorce, right? It's not my daughter biologically." Judge: "You signed these adoption papers, giving this child the same biological rights as a child who is your own. Man: "But I didn't sign the birth certificate... where did I sign them at?" Woman: "I got the papers." Man: "Okay, you got the papers, you ain't got no papers." Judge: "Did he sign the birth certificate?" Woman: "No, he didn't sign." Man: "I didn't sign a birth certificate, that's what I'm saying. That's not my daughter biologically." Woman: "But you was there since she was born." Man: "Okay, what that mean?" Woman: "You adopted her, though. I got the adoption papers." Man: "Okay, but what that mean? I'm not paying child support..." Woman: "We were married for seven years..." Judge: "Just pull up the birth certificate..." Man: "It don't really matter if we was married or not... that's not my daughter. I'm not about to pay child support. You move on, meet somebody else, then he taking care of you and your daughter, you getting double benefits. How do that sound?" Judge: "Once you adopt this child, it becomes yours in the same..." Man: "Where the papers at? I don't understand. Do you have the papers?" Anton Daniels: "Yo, your first mistake... I just do not understand these guys for the life of me. I don't know where y'all from and how it is that y'all move. You know what the funny part about it is? I see some simps online making videos reacting to the things that I'm saying as though it's not logical. They really fans, but they doing the same thing pandering to the women, not understanding that women are not going to get a better situation as a result of it. All they doing is using men." Anton Daniels: "What this results in is more broken families that's even more broken as a result of them not making the right decision for the person they wind up having children with in the first place. Then we want to sit there and say somebody else is supposed to come in and take care of your children."
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Dr. Tara: So, how big is your penis? Matt Barr: Soft, more like 10 and a half, and then 14 and a half erect. Dr. Tara: 14.5 inches erect? Matt Barr: Yeah, sometimes a little smaller, like 14, 14 and a half. Dr. Tara: That's like this? (demonstrates with hands) Matt Barr: It's a bit bigger than that, I think. Dr. Tara: This? Matt Barr: Yeah, probably like that. Dr. Tara: Your penis is like this? Matt Barr: Yeah. We've done the research, that should be a known fact by now. Dr. Tara: So 14.5 inches... did you grow into this? What was it like when you came out of the womb with it? Matt Barr: It didn't come out of the womb with me, no! Dr. Tara: (Laughs) You came out of the womb with a 14-inch... bigger than your body! So what happened, like how did you get to this point? Matt Barr: I had a lot of small growth spurts, and they kept happening and happening. I had one when I was about 13 or 14, then another one later on, later on, later on, and so on, until my mid-to-late 20s. Dr. Tara: There needs to be a lot of blood going to your penis in order to get an erection, especially with that much meat. Do you have problems with erections? Matt Barr: It takes a long time to get erections, as opposed to having problems. I do get erect, fully erect, but it does take time. When I got measured the last time, they did an intracavernosal shot, so they inject you with something that makes you aroused. Dr. Tara: Oh, like Viagra? Matt Barr: It's basically stronger than Viagra, because it's directly into the... Dr. Tara: So that you can have a really hard erection for a long time? Matt Barr: It's what they often do for studies, because that way everyone's... you know, it would be strange to go through a room and say like, "do this to yourself until you're ready for the study." Dr. Tara: So everyone's at their max size! Matt Barr: Basically, that's the point of doing that kind of study. Dr. Tara: So who verified you? Matt Barr: It was an NHS-affiliated study. But there's no official study in terms of Guinness World Records, because they don't do it, so I'm not claiming a Guinness record or anything like that. It's just been various studies throughout the time. Dr. Tara: Wow! So, with, you know, having a penis so big, I have to imagine that dating is a little bit difficult?
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Will Lavine: ...because one person. Dr. Tara: Were you not tired? Will Lavine: No, I wanted to keep going and she wanted to f*ck. (Laughter and sigh) Dr. Tara: Okay. You literally are an award-winning p*ssy eater. Give us the tips. Like, not... not me personally, but the men out there. I have a lot of men watching and listening to my show. So, and a lot of them, I'm sure, uh... can... can improve. Will Lavine: I've... I've been told. Dr. Tara: Or... or they're young and they don't know what to do and they're not super confident in giving head to... to women. Um, can you give them three, let's say three tips for pussy eating? From an award-winning pussy eater. Will Lavine: The... the very first thing is patience. Guys, stop trying to rush this because you want to get your dick sucked. It needs to not be a chore. The reason I believe I am good at it is because I fucking love it. Like, I love it. I am orally fixated. Like, you... there's nothing you can tell me that would make me stop eating p*ssy. And the thing is, what I find when I speak to some women is that guys are just... they... meh, two seconds, and then they're like, "Now you do me." Take your time. And it's all about foreplay. Tease the erogenous zones behind the ear, behind the knee cap, armpits, like everything and just make it an experience. And then the waterworks start, and then go down and do it like you really want to fucking do it. Don't do it because you're like, "Ah, you know, I'm doing it because she wants it." Learn to love it. Because I tell you something, if you get it right, you will get anything and everything that you want, right? So, patience is one thing. I think another thing is... don't get deterred if the person isn't coming straight away, right? Every woman is different. Every woman's vagina is different. Dr. Tara: It can still be pleasurable when we're not coming. Will Lavine: Exactly! Well, that's one of the other points it's a journey. It shouldn't just be, like, the end goal, right? Just enjoy the actual journey aspect. But I would say, so if it's not happening straight away, try things, right? Try using your fingers. And maybe even just do some Googling. Like, most men know about the G-spot, but they don't know about the A-spot, right? The A-spot is a... is a, like, a game-changer. And like, maybe go side-to-side as opposed to front-to-back. On the clit, go left-to-right, go around. You don't always have to go straight for the clit. Try licking the hood. Try maybe using your teeth, but not hard like a brush. Come back every so often and admire the pussy that you're looking at. Blow on it. Like, there's all these little things, but... Dr. Tara: Blow on it! Will Lavine: Every... every woman reacts differently to different things. Listen to your partner.
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Interviewer: "Men cheating is way worse than women cheating." First Woman: "Men cheating is way worse than women cheating." Interviewer: "False. Why?" First Woman: "A man cheats without a reason. A woman always has a reason." Man in Mesh Top: "When a man cheats, it's because he's thinking about one thing and that's all it is. A woman has to be fed up, tired, done, before she emotionally even gets close enough to a man for her to want to cheat with him." Third Speaker (Guy in street): "Men and women cheat for different reasons. Men cheat because they're impulsive James J. Sexton: "I mean, I got to tell you, I don't like the phrasing of it, but I can't argue with the concept." Host: "Really? I thought you were going to disagree with that one. James J. Sexton: "No, I mean, look, I don't think the way they parsed it is correct, which is that women never like, men, it's always an impulsive act, and women, it's never an impulsive act. Because I think sometimes alcohol gets involved, and sometimes people make bad decisions. But I will say that, yeah, I mean, I have had a lot more women I've dealt with a lot of, I've had a lot of clients that have cheated that were male, a lot of clients that have cheated that were women, okay? And have been caught, or who left for the paramour or whatever it might be. So I've seen this from every angle. I represent the cheater and the cheated-on. I've really been through all of the permutations of this." "A lot of the men, by an order of magnitude, say, 'Yeah, this had nothing to do with my wife. This was just like, yeah, I was just distracted. It was like a shiny object and I went after it. Like it really was like a moment of weakness.' Or it was like, 'Yeah, I just like, I don't know, I wasn't getting enough s*x, and I didn't have the courage to have the conversation about that, so I just ended up meeting my needs outside of...' Host: "But isn't that a reason?" James J. Sexton: "Of course! I mean, there's a chapter in my book called 'Go Without or Go Elsewhere.'" Host: "Yeah." James J. Sexton: "Which basically says like, if your partner's not meeting your needs sexually, you either have to go without which no one likes or go elsewhere, which always ends in bad things. So the goal should be to try to keep your relationship in a place where you don't ever have to go without or go elsewhere, where you can share with your partner what it is that you need s*xually, and openly and honestly have discussions about how you can meet each other's sexual needs, especially if you've decided, 'We are going to only sleep with each other'bwhich you don't have to decide! But you've decided that. So if you've decided that, and you've said, 'You're the only person allowed to do this job,' then take the job seriously and try to be good at it. Because if you're the only person if you're saying to me,'The only person I'm allowed to sleep with is you,' then you have to sleep with me. That's how that works! Because otherwise, we're going to delegate that responsibility to somebody else. Because the other option is just 'go without,' and nobody wants to go without."
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Laura Wasser says I'm shocked that anyone looks at that. First of all, this is a successful marriage in an industry where there is no such thing. I have done a lot of actor divorces, and believe me, they suck at being married. And so, this is a successful, happy marriage that produced children, that has... it is a long marriage. Now, I will tell you, like, I don't know these two people, that is still a very beautiful woman. Okay, she's gained weight. Chris Williamson: Pierce Brosnan's gained gray! Laura Wasser: Right, okay, but this is a stunningly beautiful woman. And this is a woman who is aging appropriately, right? So she's not trying to do 50 million things... Chris Williamson: Aging better than appropriately, but yeah. Laura Wasser: 100%. But I'm saying she's not trying to undo the inevitable. And the truth is, if you're with a partner long-term, you don't always see those changes as much. Just like you don't notice in yourself that you've gained or lost weight until stuff feels tight. Chris Williamson: How old do you think your mum sees you when she looks at you? You're still 12. Laura Wasser: Right! And so, isn't that a beautiful expression of love? Like I always tell people when they talk about this sort of like, "Oh well you're going to age, and when someone ages...", okay. I have a dog that is 16 years old. I got that dog when the dog was 4 months old. What do you think the dog is now deaf, gets up every morning tail wagging, can't wait to eat breakfast, got a great quality of life. When he no longer has a great quality of life, I will do the thing you need to do, which is the brave and difficult choice. But he wakes up every day tail wagging, has to get carried up and down the stairs. But once he's there, can't wait to eat his meal, can't wait to do his thing. So he's a happy dog. Do you think I look at that dog deaf, has to be carried up and down the stairs and go, "Dude, I got to get a puppy. Look at this fucking dog. Look at this old ass dog, can't even hear anything." Puppies can chase balls! This kid dog used to chase balls, he was so fun, he used to run like the wind, I got videos of it on my phone. Now look at him, he's like a broken little thing. The opposite. The opposite! I love that dog more and more. I know I'm in the bonus rounds, I know I don't have all that much time, and I have to tell you, I fucking love that dog. How do you know that those people don't look at each other and just go, "Look at us. Look at that photo of us when we were fucking kids, and we didn't know what it was going to be, and we were so scared."
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![Caller (Lori): So a couple weeks ago, my husband and I discovered that our 15-year-old daughter was sneaking her boyfriend into our home in the middle of the night through her bedroom window. Dr. John Delony: Oh man.. Lori: And as the story unraveled that weekend, we found out that this isn't the first time, and that they have been s*xually active in her bedroom across the hall from our room, on multiple occasions. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Lori: So my husband and I are obviously dealing with this a little bit differently. Um, you know, we've doled out the consequences for her actions and Dr. John Delony: What are those consequences? What did y'all do? Did y'all go scorched earth? Lori: Well, we didn't burn the bed yet. Um, so she was five days away from turning 16. Um, obviously driving privileges have not been given to her, so she is riding the big yellow school bus to and from school. Uh, her cell phone has been taken away. She no longer has a bedroom door, and she cannot participate in any after-school extracurricular activities for the rest of the year Dr. John Delony: [Sighs] Big, big consequences, yes. And of course, she doesn't feels those are too extreme. So let me ask you this... this is just adult-to-adult. Um, you're a parent of a daughter, I'm a parent of a daughter. Lori: Uh-huh. Dr. John Delony: Taking away her cell phone, taking her door off, taking away her privacy. Taking away any after-school connection with kids, taking away her ability to be with her friends. What is that draw me connect that to underage s*xual activity. Lori: we made those consequences before we found out that she had been sexually active. Um, and I think the majority of the reason for those consequences is because throughout the weekend, we got different iterations of lies. So, we tried to at least open up a space so that she could just kind of tell us what was happening. When we found out this was happening, we saw, we woke up one morning to a fresh Michigan snow and saw footprints down our sidewalk, all the way down the driveway to the road, which is how we Dr. John Delony: Oh man, that's like a horror movie. Lori: just how we found this out. Um Dr. John Delony: Okay, can I cut to the chase? And I'm going to say something direct, and I'm saying this to my friend, not to at you, okay? I'm just with you on this one. Lori: Yeah.](https://image.24vids.com/tw-2078479809995227499/amplify_video_thumb/2078479335585923072/img/t_s0ypI56ryMtd9b.jpg)
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Caller (Lori): So a couple weeks ago, my husband and I discovered that our 15-year-old daughter was sneaking her boyfriend into our home in the middle of the night through her bedroom window. Dr. John Delony: Oh man.. Lori: And as the story unraveled that weekend, we found out that this isn't the first time, and that they have been s*xually active in her bedroom across the hall from our room, on multiple occasions. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Lori: So my husband and I are obviously dealing with this a little bit differently. Um, you know, we've doled out the consequences for her actions and Dr. John Delony: What are those consequences? What did y'all do? Did y'all go scorched earth? Lori: Well, we didn't burn the bed yet. Um, so she was five days away from turning 16. Um, obviously driving privileges have not been given to her, so she is riding the big yellow school bus to and from school. Uh, her cell phone has been taken away. She no longer has a bedroom door, and she cannot participate in any after-school extracurricular activities for the rest of the year Dr. John Delony: [Sighs] Big, big consequences, yes. And of course, she doesn't feels those are too extreme. So let me ask you this... this is just adult-to-adult. Um, you're a parent of a daughter, I'm a parent of a daughter. Lori: Uh-huh. Dr. John Delony: Taking away her cell phone, taking her door off, taking away her privacy. Taking away any after-school connection with kids, taking away her ability to be with her friends. What is that draw me connect that to underage s*xual activity. Lori: we made those consequences before we found out that she had been sexually active. Um, and I think the majority of the reason for those consequences is because throughout the weekend, we got different iterations of lies. So, we tried to at least open up a space so that she could just kind of tell us what was happening. When we found out this was happening, we saw, we woke up one morning to a fresh Michigan snow and saw footprints down our sidewalk, all the way down the driveway to the road, which is how we Dr. John Delony: Oh man, that's like a horror movie. Lori: just how we found this out. Um Dr. John Delony: Okay, can I cut to the chase? And I'm going to say something direct, and I'm saying this to my friend, not to at you, okay? I'm just with you on this one. Lori: Yeah.
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Lisa Ann expresses strong disapproval of someone who faked their HIV test results and continued filming, calling it "unforgivable" because it puts performers' health at risk and leaves production companies liable. After returning to the industry in 2005 as an agent, she noted some positive changes like better testing, but overall saw more negative developments. She highlights how pop culture popularized the industry, leading thousands of young women to join each year. Most are forgotten, spend their money quickly, and struggle to manage the long-term impacts on their personal lives and relationships To help these performers, she and a friend started a consulting business to teach newcomers essential skills, such as financial planning, staying organized, and navigating the long-term realities of the industry.
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Constance Wu says an Asian actor she thought was her align sent me some DMs shaming me to the point of me thinking that I needed to end my own life." Juju Chang: "What was it that cut so deep for you?" Constance Wu: "She basically said I had become a blight on the Asian American community and nothing I could ever do would make up for the damage I'd done to the community, that I was like a disgrace. And it made me feel like Asian Americans feel like it would be better if I just didn't exist." Wu says she was in so much pain, she considered the unthinkable and wound up in a psychiatric ER." Constance Wu: "I was lucky enough that a friend who had access to my apartment had come to check up on me. I mean, I pulled myself over the balcony of my apartment building, you know, and I was going to jump. It's like talking about it now makes my palms itch because I remember holding onto it. But ultimately, it ended up being something helpful because it made me get help." Juju Chang: "What did that help look like?" Constance Wu: "It was professional help. So, like, I was in therapy every day for a while. It looked like me completely unplugging from social media and sort of re-evaluating what mattered to me in life and why it mattered to me."
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A 66year old construction worker calls Dave after successfully building a $1.7 million nest egg over a 35year marriage. He said he worked as an electrician while his wife worked in the insurance business, noting that she actually saved even more than him by consistently maxing out her 401(k) Dave praises him as a classic example of an everyday American millionaire but notes that after decades of strict saving, he now struggles with the psychological barrier of spending his wealth. Dave challenges him to intentionally overspend on a vacation. When he admits a $4,000 cruise would make him uncomfortable, Dave gives him an "assignment" to plan an $8,000 cruise instead. Dave reassures him that mathematically, spending $8,000 won't even scratch the interest on $1.7 million, emphasizing that learning to enjoy retirement requires practice just like saving did.
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Caller: "Okay. So, I've been with my wife for, we've been together since we were 14, for 14 years. I'm 32, I met her when I was 19, we had a child at 20. And, um, I've always just kind of been a butthead to her, to be honest. Every now and then I would demean her or make little comments, and I would say it started to really get bad about six weeks ago. Um, we were doing some work in the yard, and I really just blew up on her over the stupidest little thing. And then about a week later, we're just constantly arguing and dividing from each other. And then about a week or two later, she told me that she thought she was falling out of love with me. And it just really crushed me. I never would have thought that those words could come out of her mouth, and she told me that the way I treat her is, I'm not treating her the right way. And I completely owned it. I mean, I said everything you said is absolutely correct. You know, and I said, 'I don't want my son, our son growing up thinking that this is how you're supposed to treat women.' And, I mean, since that day, I have treated her like an angel. I mean, I've done everything and just constantly telling her I love her, giving her hugs, kisses. Um, but that was a Saturday night, and then Monday night she ended up telling me that she was, um, in communication with a guy she met on TikTok. And she told me she broke it off with him, and I asked her, What was the subjects about?' And she said it was just somebody to talk to about what I'm going through, my mental, you know, health. And she said it was never anything flirtatious or anything like that. She said it was just a stranger that I could talk to, but she said, 'I broke it off with him, and I'm gonna focus on us. And I said, 'I'm all in with you, let's rebuild this.' And we went about two weeks and it was just absolute honeymoon phase. I mean, we were just, never it was great. And then I went through her phone two weeks after that and found that she was on Snapchat with the guy. And I confronted her about it, and she said, 'Okay, well, I didn't think you were really gonna change, and I wanted to keep this friendship with the guy.' And she said, 'I'll break it off with him.' And I'm like, 'Okay, I guess I'll give you a second chance. I'm kind of heartbroken again that you would keep this from me. And then about a week and a half later, which was just yesterday, I went through the call logs on which, I feel bad because I'm constantly digging at all this, but every time I dig, I find something. And I confronted her yesterday that she's been talking to this guy for 30, 40, 50 minutes a day, um, the last week and a half, after she told me a third time that she was breaking it off with him. And I'm just super confused. I don't really know how to handle this. Now she's saying that she's all done talking to him, and I'm like, 'Well, how do I trust you now? You've been lying to me for the past three weeks about this.' So, that's really all I got." John Delony: "So for 14 years... you belittled your wife. She got the clear message she was beneath you. You're the smart one, you're the fast one, you're the quick one. You are the provider, you're the all this stuff." Caller: "Mhm. I always thought she was beneath me." John Delony: "Yeah, you did. And she's got that message for, for a decade and a half.
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Caller: Explains that she and her husband have a very high net worth, but their financial advisor is suggesting they take out a HELOC (Home Equity Line of Credit) on their paid-for vacation home to supplement their income because their assets are not liquid. Dave Ramsey: Asks what their net worth is. Caller: "About 40 million." Jade Warshaw: "Oh, my word." Dave: Expresses disbelief that they don't have enough income generated from a $40 million net worth. Caller: Explains that $30 million of their net worth is tied up in her husband's business (which is a near-billion-dollar company). However, they cannot access that money freely; withdrawals are completely at the discretion of the company's board of directors, which her husband does not sit on, despite being one of the owners. Dave: Points out that even with $30 million tied up, they still have $10 million remaining, and asks if any of it is creating income. Caller: Breaks down the remaining assets: $4 million is in retirement accounts, her husband currently makes about $400,000 a year, which is 100% commission-based. Dave: Questions why they even need extra money if they are already making $400,000 a year. Caller: Explains that her husband is 56 years old and, after 26 years of intense work, wants to step back, be more present with their homeschooled children, and enjoy their vacation home. They were planning to use the HELOC to fund this lifestyle transition.
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A caller revealed that her husband of 22 years had a secret child who's only a few months younger than her youngest. After he told her heartbreaking news, we tried marriage counseling, couldn't work. Even the marriage counselor said we should get a divorce So he moved out and he moved in with his new girlfriend, who's also his boss. I've been a single mom to the kids. I have a part-time job, I make $19,000 a year. He pays the mortgage of $2,735 a month, and he gives me $1,400 every month to feed and clothe two kids After paying off her immediate bills from a court-awarded portion of her ex-husband's bonus, she has $26,000 remaining. She is unsure whether to save this money for a down payment on a new house or use it to pay back money she borrowed from family. Dave Ramsey advises her to pause all debt repayments and hoard the cash instead. Because she is currently in the middle of a "financial hurricane," keeping the money close will provide her and her children with the best options to navigate the crisis.
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Saving Myself For Marriage Was A waste. Caller (Anna): ...how can I help the bitterness and resentment that's growing in me towards my husband, I feel like he's ruining s*x for me. Dr. John Delony: How is he ruining sex for you? Caller: Okay, so background... I grew up... Dr. John Delony: (laughing) You were like, "Okay, let's do this." Caller: (laughs) I grew up very religious. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Very religious. No fun things in the bedroom until marriage. Dr. John Delony: Okay, so you didn't sleep with anybody else until you got married. Caller: Correct. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: I met my husband now, husband at 27, married at 30. So a long time. A long time. Dr. John Delony: Awesome. Caller: And while I absolutely adore him and I think he is a wonderful wonderful person when we got married, it was... it just was not at all... Dr. John Delony: What you had built it up to be? Caller: Yes, and it still isn't. I feel like... and I've... I've talked to him about it, and my thing is... our honeymoon felt like a vacation. It didn't feel like a honeymoon. Dr. John Delony: What does that mean? What does that mean? Caller: That means that I had to initiate a lot of the time. That means that he initiated maybe once in the whole honeymoon. And I feel like he was more concerned about looking pool-time and, you know, sightseeing than he was with the point of the honeymoon, in my opinion. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller (Anna): And that carried when we got home, of course, that carried on. It only kind of became a little bit more stagnant. And that aggression, that lust, that passion isn't there. And I've had to initiate a lot, way more than I really want to. And I don't feel desired anymore. And this is going to sound so stupid, but... Dr. John Delony: Nothing you're saying is stupid. Caller (Anna): I've been having these thoughts where it's like, if this was what it was going to be, I could have been having fun in my twenties. Dr. John Delony: Sure. That's not stupid at all, not even a tiny bit. Caller (Anna): Okay. Dr. John Delony: Don't beat yourself up about that. Caller (Anna): What was the point? What was the point if I was just going to have a regular, normal, boring marital s*x life, then I could have had fun while I had time, you know? And as horrible as that sounds, it's how I feel, you know? Dr. John Delony: I don't think it sounds horrible. I don't think it sounds horrible, it makes sense. But I think there's something deeper than this. Tell me if I'm crazy, okay?
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Dave Ramsey And Dr John Delony On My Husband Committed Suicide In Our House Should I Move Out? Samantha (Caller): I just, um, lost my husband about 146 days ago. He took his life and our home. Dave Ramsey: Oh, no. Oh, no. And I... Samantha: Yes. Dave Ramsey: How old was he? Samantha: Uh, 52. Dr. John Delony: What was his name, Samantha? Samantha: John. Dr. John Delony: John. Dave Ramsey: I’m so sorry. Man. Samantha: Thank you. Dave Ramsey: Wow. You have children? Samantha: Yes. Dave Ramsey: What age? Samantha: Um, my son is 23, he’s an engineer. Um, my daughter is 25, uh, she’s a nurse. Dave Ramsey: Are they in the area? Samantha: Yes, we are all very close. Dave Ramsey: Good. Good. Dr. John Delony: I'm so sorry. Dave Ramsey: How long were you married? Samantha: Um, 26 years, together 27. Dave Ramsey: Oh my, ma'am. I can't... I'm so sorry. Wow. How can we help, darling? Samantha: Well, I am trying to, um, figure out if I am worthy enough to move. Could carry any more... if it would help me with the guilt, and if I could afford it. I think that I can. Um, I just need an outside, neutral person to walk me through it. Dr. John Delony: Tell me about the word "worthy." What do you mean? Samantha: I think anytime that someone finds their significant other or a family member, something of that nature, um, in that fashion, that there's always guilt that you that you carry with that. There's a big burden to bear. And so, you start to feel extremely stuck and you feel like if you leave the place that you were together, that you're disrespecting that person. And I've tried every day to respect him. I write to him, I sing to him, I talk to him. And so, I'm very isolated because my children panic when they come here. Yeah. My parents don't want to come here. And I have this really interesting, really relationship with my home, but I also know that I need to leave it to move forward with my life. It's just going to be so difficult.
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I Had A One-Night Stand With My Wife's Step-Mother. (How Do My Wife And I Rebuild Our Marriage?) Caller: How do me and my wife rebuild our marriage after I had a... a one-night stand, or like a hookup I guess, with her stepmother?'" let's just, as they say, back that thing up. Say what?" Dr. John Delony: "Wait, wait, wait, in all seriousness, like what... what happened? Cam: "Um, we were all drinking together. Um, we all killed a bottle of tequila, the three of us within the hour. Um, and then it was just me and her stepmom in the... in her apartment. Um, my wife went downstairs with the kids and all that good stuff, and they were swimming and..." "Um, basic... she was asleep and I was on the couch. I was going to wake her up for her work call 'cause she was like supervisor or whatever and had to... and uh like send a closing email. So I was standing there making sure she woke up to do that. And when she woke up, her uh top fell off, she was wearing a bikini, her top fell off and... put it back on, and then I kind of like pursued after that and..." Dr. John Delony: "So, your... your marriage is over. You're not going to rebuild this." Cam: "Yeah." Dr. John Delony: "Yeah. I mean, I can't think of a more egregious violation, man. I can: kids. And beyond kids, this." Cam: "Yeah, it's definitely..." Dr. John Delony: "Yeah, you've blown it up. I think the integrity thing to do is to... uh, treat your wife with dignity and respect as... y'all make... uh, I mean, I can't think of a more, like, just... uh... dishonoring thing you could do to somebody, man." Cam: "I agree. It was the most... biggest... dumbest decision I've ever made and my biggest regret, and I just..." Dr. John Delony: "How long have you been married?" Cam: "Um, this year would be 5 years." Dr. John Delony: "Were those kids yours?" Cam: "Um, it was her... one of them is, and she was with my... her uh little brother and sister as well." Dr. John Delony: "Okay, so your wife has two kids by somebody else?" Cam: "No, she... there was three down there. One... it was just one, that was our daughter, that's the only kid we have. And then the other kids were her stepmom's kids." Dr. John Delony: "Okay." Cam: "Her brother and sister." Dr. John Delony: "So, obviously you know this is... this is just like insanely sensational and it's going to make for good YouTube clips and all that. And you also know that what you did is like... it's just the lowest thing you could do to somebody." "But I... so I'm not going to kick you while you're down anymore. Like, what's the world been like since then?" Cam: "Ugh... I've just been trying to figure everything out. Um, it's been really, really hard. Um, I mean, "You know, I've been trying hard to... forgive myself and to... you know, just work on myself 'cause that's all I can do at this point. "Um, me and my wife are cohabitating right now. Um, we're... still in the same room and stuff. Um... we've been able to go and do things together, and be... be civil, and been, you know, nothing... nothing crazy. Our marriage wasn't perfect before this by any means, obviously, or this wouldn't have even been close to happening, but..." Dr. John Delony: "Does your wife want to stay married to you?" Cam: "She's in limbo right now. I mean..." Dr. John Delony: what's the limbo?" Cam: "Um, we just need to work on our... I mean, we've been attached at the hip since we were 17. Um, and really lost ourselves in our relationship. We just... um, got... you know, got together real quick and moved out of state after that real quick, and then had a baby by 18. So our whole life was just each other and baby. And then now..."
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Dave Ramsey Expose Shaq As A "Greedy Rich Person" Dave Ramsey: "...that James our producer decided we're going to start exposing how horrible and greedy and evil they are on a pretty regular basis. So, Karissa Collins is the owner of the popular Instagram account The Collins Kids, which consists of her and her nine children. The social media influencer revealed on Tuesday that this guy with a $400 million net worth, he's kind of a short guy, and um..." Dr John Delony: "James?" Dave Ramsey: "No." Dr. John Delony: "George Kamel?" Dave Ramsey: "No, the guy with the guy with the $400 million net worth, that would not be James and that would not be George Kamel." Dr. John Delony: "Catch... Oh, that's my bad, my bad." Dave Ramsey: "Yeah, his name is Shaq. You might have heard of him." Dr. John Delony: "Shaq! Shaquille O'Neal, there we go." Dave Ramsey: "You might have heard of him, yeah. So, he took the Collins family out to dinner at Babe's Chicken. The next day he took them to the Mercedes-Benz dealer and bought them a 15-passenger van. After buying the car, they went out to dinner again at the Rainforest Cafe, where he dropped another thousand bucks with the tip on the waitress just the tip to the waitress alone. And after dinner, he noticed uh Karissa's husband's truck, which was the heat and air and the air conditioning was falling apart. You know, it was a dumpy truck, and so he took him down to the Ford dealership and bought him a new truck. Who is Shaq?" Dr. John Delony: "You know I could get Dave Ramsey: "Is he like Elvis? Buying people cars?" Dr. John Delony: "I get choked up on these things, I get choked up on these things, man." Dave Ramsey: "This is amazing!"
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A caller says he has been in a sexless relationship for 24 years now with a woman he's deeply in love woman Jone: Okay, you married? Caller: Yes. Uh, married 20 years. John: Okay. Caller: And always have been. Um... my and the crux of the question that I'm dealing with is whether she can't address this issue or she won't. John: That's not a question I can answer, brother. Caller: I understand. John: When you've asked her when you've asked her that question, what has she said? Caller: Well, that's the problem, it's not that we have not discussed this. We discuss this on average about once a year. I will not let it go, as in just not have it just sit quietly. But she continually asks for space and she needs time. And for years I've given it. John: Yeah, you gave her a quarter century. Caller: Yeah. Yes. But it's more complicated than just we're not... well, its originally starts with her childhood traumas. John: Mhm. Caller: And uh... which, shortly after we started dating, which in which time there was no sexual issues, uh her vaginismus developed. John: Sure. Caller: Which she has never been able to address. And we went about 12 years during which time we got married and had a child, because we were intermittently able to, a handful of times... John: Okay. Caller: ...uh, be together. But... Host: When you say she wasn't able to deal with it, did she go meet with physicians and doctors and psychiatrists to work through it, or when you say we weren't able to, she just said, "Hey, this is painful. I don't want to do this," and that was the end of the story? Caller: Closer to the latter. It's not that she would not, but everything she did was with extreme reluctance and with me pulling her along to move forward. John: Yeah, that's not a way to deal with vaginismus. Okay. All right. Caller: No, it is not. (laughs) But it was greatly, greatly complicated halfway through our relationship by her uh being diagnosed with bone marrow cancer. John: Good God almighty. This poor woman.
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