Char
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burası kanada değil, burası mardin | cw: #uzakşehir #cihal
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"don't act as if you're nothing to me"... i've been waiting for this line ever since she hopped on that truck to kidnap deniz. i mentioned it before, but it's like she's treated him as a non-existent part of their lives ever since. look, she needs to protect her son, we get it, as she should, that's her job as a mother. nobody is telling her not to. but she never once acknowledged that her actions made cihan feel like he didn't matter, or like he wasn't truly a part of the family. it's been so frustrating to watch bc alya, by nature, isn't someone who makes others feel excluded or invisible. she's been acting ooc for quite a while now, and you could see it was wearing on cihan. he didn't express it right away, maybe to keep the peace or maybe because he hoped she'd just snap out of it on her own, but she just kept doing the same thing. loving someone and being all in with them means actually including them. it's about being a team. i love how they portrayed that exactly by showing how zombie took advantage of cihan not telling her about meryem. it made her feel worse about the situation bc it gave the pislik more munitions to shoot, which she was doing all along as well by obeying his commands and making him feel superior and as if he had the power to separate them bc they're not a team. her outrage about cihan hiding for this same reason was therefore double standards, if you ask me. which brings us to the next line: "i acted without asking you. it felt like i was ignoring you, like i made a decision despite you."... now she's furious that he didn't tell her about meryem. and again, olsun, she has a point. he should've known better than to let her find out from someone else. but here is where we see the real difference in their current dynamic. cihan actually acknowledges the exclusion. he admits that leaving her out of the loop was a mistake and, more importantly, that it hurt him personally to do it. he isn't just sorry for/about the secret, he's sad that they aren't "them" anymore. while alya is out here playing the lone wolf in "mom mode," cihan is the one trying to fix the bridge between them. he's showing a level of self-awareness that she's currently lacking. he knows that making a choice despite her messed up the already fragile bond they currently have. imo, these are good lines, that shows the double standard they live rn. he's feeling the guilt, while she's still got her walls up. it makes you wonder when she'll finally realize that her behavior and silence wasn't and isn't just protecting deniz (which it didn't anyway since it backfired on her each time), it's actually hurting the one person who has had her back through it all. he's not asking for permission or her blessing to help meryem here, he's asking for his place back in her/their life. he's asking to be part of her life, a real part, not one you just let others manipulate you into abandoning them cuz that's exactly what brought them into the situation of living under different roofs, not the woman who appeared two seconds ago. for me, this cycle started the moment she let herself be manipulated by sadakat and tried to kidnap deniz. not only did she give sadakat the impression to have that power over her, but she also gave boran the impression that they're in fact separable. that you just have to push her buttons and she would leave him without even a word or acknowledging that she did wrong. this is why they lost their magic imo, they don't stand as a team like they did before after he just woke up. and i don't think no matter how much gulizar will try to put the pieces back together or copying the season one plots that the audience enjoyed, e.g. uğur and now bringing the chief, the magic won't magically reappear as long as accountability of hurting each other's feelings is just a one sided thing and the others flaws are covered by just moving forward (which was also done by bringing boran right after mine btw🤦🏻♀️)
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hiç ayrılmadık seninle değil bir sene, bir gün bile...💔 #şahnar #uzakşehir
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fcking finally, nobody can hurt alya (or any women) like this, he deserved much more than this #cihal — #uzakşehir
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#UzakŞehir | episode 59, fragman 3 / with english subtitles “loving you so much was was my choice...” #CihAl
Char12,863 Aufrufe • vor 1 Monat
#UzakŞehir | episode 39, fragman 2 / with english subtitles “I LOVE CIHAN!” #CihAl
Char 🪁29,094 Aufrufe • vor 6 Monaten
#UzakŞehir | episode 39, fragman 1 / with english subtitles “i will never stop loving alya.” #CihAl
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#UzakŞehir | episode 33 | fragman 2 / with english subtitles "choose your side, make your decision..."
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"i wish i didn't love you this much... you are my greatest helplessness, my greatest unknown..." #cihal — #uzakşehir
Char27,957 Aufrufe • vor 8 Monaten
she's so much stronger than me cuz i would have left that man long time ago for him
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