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⚠️ Content warning: This post discusses domestic abuse and includes released CCTV footage of violence. It may be triggering for survivors. Please skip if you need to. ⚠️ Liz Shanks fitted cameras in her home to watch her dog who struggled when she left for work, and to deter anyone from targeting her older cars. Those same cameras later recorded what her partner was doing when no one else was there. People who met Chris thought he was polite, well-mannered and the kind of man you'd trust. Liz says he knew how to switch depending on who was watching. That public version of him was not the one she lived with. They met around 2014 as lorry drivers and started a relationship in early 2015. After she joined the fire service in 2016 she says the control began quietly. He tried to talk her out of the job, making it feel like a choice between him and her career. The first time he grabbed her by the throat was in 2017, after an argument at home. The violence continued on and off after that. In 2020 it got much worse. One night he tore the headboard off the bed and threw it across the room, then forced her against a wall and stuffed banknotes into her mouth. On another occasion he gripped her neck so tightly she could barely make a sound. That was when she understood he might one day choke her until she couldn't breathe at all. Some of the footage that has been released comes from the camera she bought for her dog. It shows them sitting on the sofa. He stands up, climbs on top of her, pins her down and strangles her while shouting that she is going to die in his hands. He knew the cameras were there and could open the app. Liz does not believe he ever expected her to use what they captured against him. By then she had, like many survivors, started to treat it as normal. "You desensitise it," she said. "It was all I knew." In 2020 she showed him some of the clips. He said the right things and talked about getting help. She didn't trust it. What stayed with her was the fear that if he met someone else, someone without evidence - he might kill her. That is why she went to the police that September and handed over the videos. Officers were so shaken by what they saw that they sat in their car for several minutes before they left. For Liz, the recordings meant it was no longer her word against his. He pleaded guilty to abusing her between July 2017 and August 2020. He served just 13½ months. Liz has spoken since about feeling let down by the sentence and by charges dropped in a plea deal. She has called for change in how these cases are handled. Speaking out matters. Men who present as charming in public can still be a serious risk behind closed doors. Naming that pattern and sharing evidence when it is safe to do so can help protect the next person who might otherwise walk into the same danger without knowing. 🦋
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⚠️ Content warning: This post discusses domestic abuse and includes released CCTV footage of violence. It may be triggering for survivors. Please skip if you need to. ⚠️ Liz Shanks fitted cameras in her home to watch her dog who struggled when she left for work, and to deter anyone from targeting her older cars. Those same cameras later recorded what her partner was doing when no one else was there. People who met Chris thought he was polite, well-mannered and the kind of man you'd trust. Liz says he knew how to switch depending on who was watching. That public version of him was not the one she lived with. They met around 2014 as lorry drivers and started a relationship in early 2015. After she joined the fire service in 2016 she says the control began quietly. He tried to talk her out of the job, making it feel like a choice between him and her career. The first time he grabbed her by the throat was in 2017, after an argument at home. The violence continued on and off after that. In 2020 it got much worse. One night he tore the headboard off the bed and threw it across the room, then forced her against a wall and stuffed banknotes into her mouth. On another occasion he gripped her neck so tightly she could barely make a sound. That was when she understood he might one day choke her until she couldn't breathe at all. Some of the footage that has been released comes from the camera she bought for her dog. It shows them sitting on the sofa. He stands up, climbs on top of her, pins her down and strangles her while shouting that she is going to die in his hands. He knew the cameras were there and could open the app. Liz does not believe he ever expected her to use what they captured against him. By then she had, like many survivors, started to treat it as normal. "You desensitise it," she said. "It was all I knew." In 2020 she showed him some of the clips. He said the right things and talked about getting help. She didn't trust it. What stayed with her was the fear that if he met someone else, someone without evidence - he might kill her. That is why she went to the police that September and handed over the videos. Officers were so shaken by what they saw that they sat in their car for several minutes before they left. For Liz, the recordings meant it was no longer her word against his. He pleaded guilty to abusing her between July 2017 and August 2020. He served just 13½ months. Liz has spoken since about feeling let down by the sentence and by charges dropped in a plea deal. She has called for change in how these cases are handled. Speaking out matters. Men who present as charming in public can still be a serious risk behind closed doors. Naming that pattern and sharing evidence when it is safe to do so can help protect the next person who might otherwise walk into the same danger without knowing. 🦋

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⚠️ Viewer discretion advised/trigger warning ⚠️ A UK court has found schoolteacher Jamie Varley, 37, guilty of the sexual abuse and murder of his 13-month-old adopted son, Preston Davey. Varley, a head of year at a secondary school in Lancashire, and his partner John McGowan-Fazakerley (a financial sales manager) had adopted little Preston (birth name Elijah). Over just four months, the baby suffered unimaginable abuse: more than 40 separate injuries, routine ill-treatment, physical assaults, and sexual abuse. Disturbing evidence included videos and photos showing Preston being deliberately kept awake for amusement, with music from Moana blaring while he was visibly exhausted, along with other acts of cruelty like spinning him too hard and leaving him in dangerous positions. He died from acute upper airways obstruction, believed to be caused by smothering or objects being forced into his mouth. Varley was convicted of: ▫️Murder ▫️Multiple counts of assault by penetration and sexual assault of a child ▫️Cruelty to a child ▫️Taking and distributing indecent images His partner was found guilty of allowing the death of a child, child cruelty, and sexual assault. Prosecutors described it as one of the most shocking cases they've seen. Police called Varley a "serial manipulator and serial liar" and referred to "pure evil." Little Preston went from a happy, healthy baby to a "broken shell" in his final months. Both men will be sentenced on Thursday.

Hayley M

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🚨 Important awareness post. Please share. 🚨 Women are being covertly filmed on nights out across the UK, this is often from low angles, without their knowledge or consent. The footage is then uploaded online and monetised. This is not casual street filming. Many of these videos focus almost exclusively on women in dresses and skirts, frequently filmed from behind or at deliberately low angles. Some women only discovered they had been recorded when the videos appeared online, sometimes with millions of views. Cities including Manchester, London, Birmingham and Liverpool have been among those affected. Similar activity has been documented more widely, but the pattern in the UK is clear and very much still ongoing. This practice has already been independently investigated and formally reported to platforms and authorities. Despite this, the filming continues. Multiple channels remain active and a significant amount of this content is still online and generating revenue. While filming in public places is generally legal, this type of covert, targeted, low-angle filming of women for commercial gain sits in a legal grey area. In some cases it can amount to harassment or voyeurism, particularly where there is following, upskirting, or repeated targeting of individuals. Women, on nights out please stay aware of people holding phones or small cameras at unusually low angles - this can sometimes look like ordinary texting. Stick with friends when moving between venues and trust your instincts if something feels wrong. YouTube TeamYouTube - this has been investigated and reported. You removed a small number of accounts after being presented with clear evidence, yet large volumes of this content remain online and continue to generate revenue. Allowing covert, non-consensual filming of women to stay up and be monetised is unacceptable. What exact steps are you taking to remove the remaining channels and prevent this material from continuing to profit on your platform? Women and girls have a right to know this is happening, and a right not to have footage of them taken and sold without their consent. (My video attached is heavily blurred so no individuals are identifiable. It exists solely to show the pattern of behaviour.)

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⚠️ SERIOUS WARNING TO WOMEN – PLEASE READ AND SHARE. Particularly ESSEX & SUFFOLK. Meet Scott Coleman – a dangerous stalker of women who targets women on all platforms and may pose a real risk to vulnerable women. Scott was previously removed from all local dating sites after being caught posing as "Disco Dan." On those sites he would message women claiming to be a single dad and a widower. He is neither. He has a wife. He has been on an online group where he was claiming to be a gangster, abusing people, and even using a fake account to claim he was a murderer. He was outed for this for what he actually is. He is actually a mundane man who had a little business named Orchard cars and sells the odd car out front of his house. This is where Carla Rogers came across him and outed him and helped expose his behaviour. The stalking began toward Carla Rogers who is heard in the clips below. It got quite intense at times – he stalked her children, their homes and their jobs. This lady is hard as nails and anyone who knows her will know she can deal with these type of men, but some of the other women who contacted her about him were not so able to stand up to it. The videos below need to be watched. The one filmed across the car is only a short snippet of a full 10-minute barrage he launched after he had followed Carla almost all the way home. He shouted about caving her head in with an axe, then waited for her to approach. He is back and active on popular dating sites including Plenty of Fish and others. He also posts in the Suffolk area and Felixstowe. Because dating sites reach women all over the country, please share this widely. If you are on dating apps, local Facebook pages, or any similar platforms – look out for him and SHARE this post. He likes to use filters in his photos also. Please keep women safe and share the fuck out of this prick.
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⚠️ SERIOUS WARNING TO WOMEN – PLEASE READ AND SHARE. Particularly ESSEX & SUFFOLK. Meet Scott Coleman – a dangerous stalker of women who targets women on all platforms and may pose a real risk to vulnerable women. Scott was previously removed from all local dating sites after being caught posing as "Disco Dan." On those sites he would message women claiming to be a single dad and a widower. He is neither. He has a wife. He has been on an online group where he was claiming to be a gangster, abusing people, and even using a fake account to claim he was a murderer. He was outed for this for what he actually is. He is actually a mundane man who had a little business named Orchard cars and sells the odd car out front of his house. This is where Carla Rogers came across him and outed him and helped expose his behaviour. The stalking began toward Carla Rogers who is heard in the clips below. It got quite intense at times – he stalked her children, their homes and their jobs. This lady is hard as nails and anyone who knows her will know she can deal with these type of men, but some of the other women who contacted her about him were not so able to stand up to it. The videos below need to be watched. The one filmed across the car is only a short snippet of a full 10-minute barrage he launched after he had followed Carla almost all the way home. He shouted about caving her head in with an axe, then waited for her to approach. He is back and active on popular dating sites including Plenty of Fish and others. He also posts in the Suffolk area and Felixstowe. Because dating sites reach women all over the country, please share this widely. If you are on dating apps, local Facebook pages, or any similar platforms – look out for him and SHARE this post. He likes to use filters in his photos also. Please keep women safe and share the fuck out of this prick.

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198,478 просмотров • 3 месяцев назад

NO JAIL TIME FOR THIS ABSOLUTE SCUMBAG SPENCER DEAN ⚠️ Viewer discretion advised - this clip contains disturbing domestic violence footage, please SCROLL ON if you find this triggering ⚠️ Spencer Dean was sentenced at Margate Magistrates Court on 12 May 2026 after admitting to 3 counts of assault by beating, 2 counts of criminal damage and cultivating cannabis. On the recommendation of probation officers, the abuser was handed a 12-month community order. He was also given a restraining order forbidding him from contacting the victim or going near her home in Ashford for two years. The victim said she was "shocked" that Dean had not been given prison time. He had subjected her to horrific abuse inside her own home - punching, kicking, dragging her by the hair, spitting at her, and repeatedly terrorising her, at times while children were nearby. The victim secretly installed hidden cameras throughout her home and the footage captured repeated violent assaults, intimidation and abuse. She has bravely chosen to share this footage publicly to help other women suffering abuse realise they are not alone, and to encourage victims to speak out before it is too late. "If you are going through this, no matter what they say or hold against you, you can get out," she said. She emphasised the importance of gathering "as much evidence as you can", adding "please do it safely and have someone who knows what's going on". Too many victims are doubted, ignored or silenced until they end up seriously injured or worse. If ANY woman or man is living through abuse: • Keep screenshots • Save threatening messages • Record voice notes • Photograph injuries or damage • Tell trusted friends or family • Keep a written diary of incidents • and if SAFE to do so, install hidden cameras as the evidence can literally save your life. No person should ever have to secretly monitor their own home just to prove they are being abused. This is absolutely abhorrent. May it also be noted that the Magistrates were NOT shown any footage of the abuse. 📍 National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 200 0247
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NO JAIL TIME FOR THIS ABSOLUTE SCUMBAG SPENCER DEAN ⚠️ Viewer discretion advised - this clip contains disturbing domestic violence footage, please SCROLL ON if you find this triggering ⚠️ Spencer Dean was sentenced at Margate Magistrates Court on 12 May 2026 after admitting to 3 counts of assault by beating, 2 counts of criminal damage and cultivating cannabis. On the recommendation of probation officers, the abuser was handed a 12-month community order. He was also given a restraining order forbidding him from contacting the victim or going near her home in Ashford for two years. The victim said she was "shocked" that Dean had not been given prison time. He had subjected her to horrific abuse inside her own home - punching, kicking, dragging her by the hair, spitting at her, and repeatedly terrorising her, at times while children were nearby. The victim secretly installed hidden cameras throughout her home and the footage captured repeated violent assaults, intimidation and abuse. She has bravely chosen to share this footage publicly to help other women suffering abuse realise they are not alone, and to encourage victims to speak out before it is too late. "If you are going through this, no matter what they say or hold against you, you can get out," she said. She emphasised the importance of gathering "as much evidence as you can", adding "please do it safely and have someone who knows what's going on". Too many victims are doubted, ignored or silenced until they end up seriously injured or worse. If ANY woman or man is living through abuse: • Keep screenshots • Save threatening messages • Record voice notes • Photograph injuries or damage • Tell trusted friends or family • Keep a written diary of incidents • and if SAFE to do so, install hidden cameras as the evidence can literally save your life. No person should ever have to secretly monitor their own home just to prove they are being abused. This is absolutely abhorrent. May it also be noted that the Magistrates were NOT shown any footage of the abuse. 📍 National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 200 0247

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95,515 просмотров • 5 месяцев назад