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Ray Alex Williams

@RayAlexWilliams • 8,035 subscribers

Philosopher. Writer. Detransitioner. Retransitioner. YouTuber. Dilettante. Genderbender. Opinions my own.

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The world wasn’t ready to hear her message 😔

The world wasn’t ready to hear her message 😔

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There’s a sincere part of me that wants to dive back into the warm, welcoming embrace of a radically trans inclusive worldview

There’s a sincere part of me that wants to dive back into the warm, welcoming embrace of a radically trans inclusive worldview

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And is it any surprise that his family doesn’t see him as a real woman and feels uncomfortable about him bringing his crossdressing fetish out of the bedroom and into social reality when he still dresses like an AGP crossdresser who only cares about being validated as “hot.”

And is it any surprise that his family doesn’t see him as a real woman and feels uncomfortable about him bringing his crossdressing fetish out of the bedroom and into social reality when he still dresses like an AGP crossdresser who only cares about being validated as “hot.”

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Sometimes a trans person gets so close to understanding the gender critical perspective but then just like that the key insight slips from their grasp.

Sometimes a trans person gets so close to understanding the gender critical perspective but then just like that the key insight slips from their grasp.

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Heterosexual crossdresser with a secret stash of women’s clothes comes out as trans to his wife, who immediately (and rightly) suspects it’s a fetish (AGP), divorces him, and he has the GALL to say HE’S the victim because she was looking for an “easy way out” of the marriage.

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Heterosexual crossdresser with a secret stash of women’s clothes comes out as trans to his wife, who immediately (and rightly) suspects it’s a fetish (AGP), divorces him, and he has the GALL to say HE’S the victim because she was looking for an “easy way out” of the marriage.

Ray Alex Williams

734,089 views • 9 months ago

This guy’s story is almost identical to mine. He started as a crossdresser and it escalated into full blown transition late in life. And rather than transition improving his mental health, it’s made him an emotional neurotic mess who’s more dysphoric than ever and constantly self-conscious about whether he passes as a woman. Moreover, this lifestyle choice destroyed his relationship with his family because he’s predicated his happiness on convincing his family that he is something he’s not. This is not a recipe for “authenticity.” This is not “lifesaving healthcare.” Literally the only benefit he’s gotten from transition is that when he’s all dolled up and looks in the mirror he feels a rush of euphoria at how “hot” he looks. Fellas with AGP, I can tell you that rush of euphoria is not worth destroying your life and making you a neurotic mess.

This guy’s story is almost identical to mine. He started as a crossdresser and it escalated into full blown transition late in life. And rather than transition improving his mental health, it’s made him an emotional neurotic mess who’s more dysphoric than ever and constantly self-conscious about whether he passes as a woman. Moreover, this lifestyle choice destroyed his relationship with his family because he’s predicated his happiness on convincing his family that he is something he’s not. This is not a recipe for “authenticity.” This is not “lifesaving healthcare.” Literally the only benefit he’s gotten from transition is that when he’s all dolled up and looks in the mirror he feels a rush of euphoria at how “hot” he looks. Fellas with AGP, I can tell you that rush of euphoria is not worth destroying your life and making you a neurotic mess.

Ray Alex Williams

498,682 views • 9 months ago

Blanchard’s two-type typology is clearly not a complete theory. Foxy Alex (who I love, btw) is a very HSTS-coded femboy who nevertheless identifies as straight and likes women. AGP vs HSTS is mostly likely a spectrum not a categorical difference.

Blanchard’s two-type typology is clearly not a complete theory. Foxy Alex (who I love, btw) is a very HSTS-coded femboy who nevertheless identifies as straight and likes women. AGP vs HSTS is mostly likely a spectrum not a categorical difference.

Ray Alex Williams

225,511 views • 4 months ago

I wish I had the confidence of a genderfucker and just totally rock being a man with tits

I wish I had the confidence of a genderfucker and just totally rock being a man with tits

Ray Alex Williams

22,984 views • 1 month ago

One of the biggest autogynephilic copes for trans women who straight up just sound like your average man is that “some women have deeper voices than me” No. False. That is a cope. Women with a low pitch still sound like women because the s*xed nature of voices is more than pitch

One of the biggest autogynephilic copes for trans women who straight up just sound like your average man is that “some women have deeper voices than me” No. False. That is a cope. Women with a low pitch still sound like women because the s*xed nature of voices is more than pitch

Ray Alex Williams

115,847 views • 1 year ago

I’m retransitioning…but have I abandoned the theory of autogynephilia?

I’m retransitioning…but have I abandoned the theory of autogynephilia?

Ray Alex Williams

14,823 views • 2 months ago

The popular gender critical strategy of painting with a broad brush to demonize ALL AGPs causes less AGPs to become self-aware *as* AGPs. This is ironic b/c Michael Bailey and phil illy have data showing self-aware AGPs are less likely to believe in trans ideology and transition.

The popular gender critical strategy of painting with a broad brush to demonize ALL AGPs causes less AGPs to become self-aware as AGPs. This is ironic b/c Michael Bailey and phil illy have data showing self-aware AGPs are less likely to believe in trans ideology and transition.

Ray(chel) Alex Williams

47,983 views • 1 year ago

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