Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri
@ronkecarew • 15,536 subscribers
RN, BSc (Hon) Renal Nursing , MSc Public Health, Healthy lifestyle activists, CEO https://t.co/w7SSZMKGsY, Muslimah, Break-up and Divorce Coach, Mum and Wife
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I saw a post recently about a man who was removed from his UK visa sponsorship by his wife, the same woman he supported through her master’s, had children with, and built a life beside. Now he’s back in Nigeria, separated from his kids, and completely displaced. And while I don’t know the full story, one thing kept echoing in my heart: When relationships end, don’t let pain turn into punishment. Yes, people hurt us. Yes, trust gets broken. Yes, some divorces are ugly and necessary. But destroying your ex-partner’s future, especially where kids are involved, is not empowerment, t’s collateral damage. You may be walking away from the marriage, and that’s okay. You have every right to protect your peace. But if your next step becomes about vengeance, deportation, job loss, public disgrace, ask yourself: Who really wins? When we tear down someone we once loved (or once loved us), we often forget that children are watching. That same man or woman you're determined to ruin may be the parent your child still needs. The story isn’t always as simple as “he deserved it” or “she had it coming.” Life evolves. The tables turn. And tomorrow has a way of humbling us all. You don’t have to stay, and you probably shouldn't stay, after all I didn't too But please, Walk away with your dignity. Make decisions that align with wisdom, not just wounded emotions. Think of the long-term emotional health of your children, not just today’s pain. You're not being too soft, or stupid by not destroying them , you’re being wise and compassionate, and that’s powerful I say this as someone who has been through betrayal, loss, and rebuilding. And yet I chose healing, not bitterness. Growth, not vengeance. Peace, not petty punishment. Because in the end, destroying your ex doesn’t heal you. It may destroy you too. Let’s do better, for our children. For our peace. For our future. When relationships end, let wisdom leads not Revenge #HealingNotHatred #DivorcedButNotBitter #WalkAwayWithGrace #ProtectTheChildren
Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri49,175 次观看 • 1 年前
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