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Dr. Taylor Burrowes

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I help successful people make high-stakes relational decisions with clarity by assessing chemistry, character, capacity, compatibility & risk.

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Me and you girl Candace Owens I drink 3x in my follicular phase and today is one of them. Go touch grass unhinged trolls. I pray for you. But also, you’re pure comedy.

Me and you girl Candace Owens I drink 3x in my follicular phase and today is one of them. Go touch grass unhinged trolls. I pray for you. But also, you’re pure comedy.

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I don’t speak for all ladies, but I want you guys to know that this is a solid body goal.

I don’t speak for all ladies, but I want you guys to know that this is a solid body goal.

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I thought this was a very interesting phenomenon to comment on, but apparently a lot of men really don’t wanna hear it. So I’m hoping that hearing it in the reverse from Pat will help to illuminate what’s going on.

I thought this was a very interesting phenomenon to comment on, but apparently a lot of men really don’t wanna hear it. So I’m hoping that hearing it in the reverse from Pat will help to illuminate what’s going on.

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There’s a lot to unpack here, but I’m hoping this will help to clarify the message.

There’s a lot to unpack here, but I’m hoping this will help to clarify the message.

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This awareness separates the wheat from the chaff. Watch who gets defensive, who makes it about ‘her tone’ and who completely misses the point because they’re too busy protecting their ego to hear what’s actually being said. That reaction is the diagnosis. It’s normal to feel stung when something lands close. A mature person feels that sting, pauses and asks whether it’s true. An immature one goes straight to war with the person who said it. And when a woman says it, the defensiveness spikes even higher. Because now it’s not just a hard truth. It’s a hard truth from someone who was supposed to manage his comfort. Feeling stung is not the same as being wronged. Someone telling you the truth did not injure you. Your resistance to it did. Now, is she perfect? No. Is she going to deliver everything with grace every time? Also no. Let’s just assume she’s acting in good faith and doing her best. But a man who can only hear scolding when feedback is packaged correctly isn’t asking for respect. He’s asking for a handler. I see this in my work too. The people most resistant to these lessons are usually the ones who need it most. Video: Alessandro Frosali on Instagram.

This awareness separates the wheat from the chaff. Watch who gets defensive, who makes it about ‘her tone’ and who completely misses the point because they’re too busy protecting their ego to hear what’s actually being said. That reaction is the diagnosis. It’s normal to feel stung when something lands close. A mature person feels that sting, pauses and asks whether it’s true. An immature one goes straight to war with the person who said it. And when a woman says it, the defensiveness spikes even higher. Because now it’s not just a hard truth. It’s a hard truth from someone who was supposed to manage his comfort. Feeling stung is not the same as being wronged. Someone telling you the truth did not injure you. Your resistance to it did. Now, is she perfect? No. Is she going to deliver everything with grace every time? Also no. Let’s just assume she’s acting in good faith and doing her best. But a man who can only hear scolding when feedback is packaged correctly isn’t asking for respect. He’s asking for a handler. I see this in my work too. The people most resistant to these lessons are usually the ones who need it most. Video: Alessandro Frosali on Instagram.

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