Joel Lopez | Save Your Marriage
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Married 20+ years, 6 kids. I help disrespected husbands win back respect & desire. Start with God & yourself. The marriage follows. DM me "NOW" to work with me.
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Problems in the bedroom aren’t problems in the bedroom. They’re symptoms. It’s a sign of something going on outside of it. This woman called in because her libido was turned "off." She wanted it turned "on" for herself and for her husband. Once John asked a few questions, he discovered something deeper. She had traumatic events from her past. She had shared some of it with her husband. But not all. She was afraid to tell him everything, so she held it inside. That fear, that holding back, was showing up in the bedroom. We often think intimacy is just the physical act. But intimacy is bringing yourself, all the vulnerable, hidden parts, and letting your spouse see it. When your naked you are exposed and vulnerable. One part of the interview stood out. She had mentioned therapy before. Her husband told her it was a waste of time. If you wife has an issue and she's coming to you providing a potential solution you should pay attention. The message she got from her husband even though he was probably trying to help is either he doesn't hear me, or I'm being dismissed. Your wife needs to know that she can be vulnerable with you and show you what hurts her and not feel like she's going to be dismissed. You want to be a safe place she can run to, not a place she feels she needs to hide from.
Joel Lopez | Save Your Marriage20,917 views • 9 months ago
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