The Rizz Report
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Dating intel by 2 guys who actually approach women IRL. Curating the web's best advice + critiquing the worst. Check pinned for 10-pt-thread ↓
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Cold approaching and IG closing a Swedish model: Opening vibe is great. Assertive, uninhibited, curious tone. The way he asks his question has more power than people’s statements. “How tall are you” “Where are you from” Very basic questions but good energy. Next thread: “You model right?” “Definitely” Lots of people might think this is “simping” but no. The way the thread is transitioned - “Well nice to meet you I’m UV” and doesn’t linger is great. (There was a cut in the clip so we can only assume lol) Signals that his question is more curiosity connected to her height rather than pedestalization (I think he is a model too). Continues assertion. “EMMA” voice spike no need. “Let me see the eyes” - good instruction. Issue assertiveness when you have good compliance, which he has. Otherwise your assertiveness will be a minus rather than a plus. Guessing game comes next. The premise is good as it’s a fun encouragement for investment, rather than simply answering. But doesn’t work great as he’s repeating himself. Neutral. Afterwards Repeats the introduction. Symptom of nervousness and perhaps why his vibe is always “on”. Notice he’s excitable throughout most of the interaction. Maybe that’s how he is, but can come across performative if overdone. That kind of energy is actually a superpower to have, but when you can’t mellow out in balance, It doesn’t feel real. More so like a presentation. And then he prematurely closes IG for coffee. No reason to do that. Is it possible that he could get her out? Yeah if good text game/IG/attraction. Now maybe there was more to the conversation that was clipped out, But on the merits of what was visible, it is less likely. Lots left on the table: Rapport, knowing her more (blueprint), emotional resonance, romantic intrigue, evaluations etc. She was most excited at the start - great beginning but no follow through. But by the end of it she could have taken or left it.
The Rizz Report68,755 次观看 • 1 个月前
How to build chemistry in seconds: This is a great example of challenging, What challenging does is maintain the tension, it’s “fighting for position” Which really, what you’re avoiding is collapsing into her frame. She is trying to prize frame herself. “You wish you had this number” A lot of guys either collapse into her frame “Yeah I do, what’s your number” Or they just outright deny “No I don’t” Both suboptimal. You want to deny without qualifying yourself. Tease her back - “You’re mumbling I can’t even understand you” “Numbah?” “What’s a numbah?” Misinterpret “What you said you want my number? You can’t have it yet” Reframing the interaction knocks her off the pedestal without triggering her, or coming across try hard. What he did was perfect. Next, “Why are you getting so close to me” He’s challenging her prize frame, starting shit for more tension. “I didn’t give you permission. Stop touching my titties” Guys are gonna be like wtf is wrong with his voice But the intent and frame of your words matter more than the base. (Though a good voice still helps) “You like me already” Prize framing himself. But it’s also just him expressing his observation. “Yeah you wish I liked you” The girl now challenging the prize frame. And instead of going back and forth, another thing you can do is just call her bluff. He moved in closer to her and she broke instantly, wanting to kiss him. “I can’t kiss you right now” The only reason she didn’t was most likely a logistics issue. (Notice her looking over, checking who’s still around) He continues the challenging “Get out of here” “No you get out of here” Again - it’s more bluffing and calling out the frame He wants to stamp the fact that she likes him although it’s bit of an overextension. She’s starting to get tired of it and needs the interaction to move forward. “You want this or not because if not we’re gonna go home” The thing is he keeps playing around the “do you like me” frame Which is good to keep up the tension (which this girl likes) but it also keeps the interaction at a standstill. And eventually it will stall out and break. At this point - the opposition frame hurts your outcome more than it benefits. A better path forward is either to lead - pull her, help her with her logistics, move her away from friends, etc Or at the very least, instead of fighting for position, provoke escalation. “You can’t handle me ;)” “No you can’t handle me” Get her to challenge you and you can call her bluff to escalate like what happened earlier when he walked towards her. “Stop looking at me like I won’t do something to you right now ;)” Provoke, challenge her to set up the escalation window and it breaks the dancing around of who likes who while still maintaining tension. But bottom line, this interaction is a great example. Challenging = chemistry.
The Rizz Report36,696 次观看 • 23 天前
This is how to compliment without simping. And why all the traditional never-validate advice is incomplete. Notice how there’s really zero repression, he’s very liberal with complimenting. “You are so cute” “I’m so serious” “You have such a cool look to you” If he feels like saying it, he says it. And he doesn’t come across like a fan at all. Reason why is because of the back and forth energy balance. Yes he compliments and validates, but he also takes away validation too. By: Giving her shit - “Yes you, not the person behind you” “I love how you’re so taken aback, as if this is not happening to you all day” By evaluating her - “… all black, I had to come see what’s happening” His entire demeanor throughout the interaction is a give and take. And so no matter how much he compliments, The balance remains even as he equally breaks rapport just as much if not more. “You speak good English right?” “Omg you’re unbelievable” “You’re kidding” Interrupting her and changing threads, Leading the conversation. What’s being communicated is: “Yes I am interested but I’m not a pushover” The interest comes not from pedeatalization but from expressing purely what’s on his mind. Both the positive and the negative. And that’s what works.
The Rizz Report39,286 次观看 • 1 个月前
How to sexualize under the radar: Lots of guys find sexualizing a bit tricky to do throughout an entire date. This guy does it within a minute of meeting a girl. Totally calibrated - girl acknowledged the sexual frame and didn’t deny it. And perhaps this was unintentional but the reason it works is because the dynamic was reversed. Most of the time girls are accusing guys of getting sexual and they’re playing defense. Which makes a guys sexualization come across more needy and thirsty. …and if the girl accepts his advances she’ll feel too easy. But this time it was the opposite. The guy accuses her of sexualizing instead. She’s the one that’s trying to do something spicy, not him. So even though the topic is now on sex, it doesn’t feel like the guy is aggressively pursuing her. This bypasses the anti slut radar and allows her to engage with the premise positively instead of feeling creeped out. Resulting effect is that sex and kinks is now an appropriate topic to talk about and the conversation just got spicy. Now, there’s going to be a sexual undertone to the interaction. The purpose of them getting to know each other no longer solely to be friends.
The Rizz Report20,817 次观看 • 1 个月前
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