#mentalload
You can’t manipulate your partner into respecting you #patriarchy #relationships #marriage #women #mentalload
loudly.leo504,100 просмотров • 2 дней назад
there's a difference between being a single parent and being a solo parent. a single parent might not have a partner, but they may still have someone to split the weekends with. someone to call when the fever won't break. someone to help make the hard decisions. i don't have that. i'm 100% solo. every decision is mine. every appointment, every bill, every hard conversation, every "mom, i need you." all of it. and when i get something wrong, there's nobody to talk it through with at the end of the night. people see the physical work, but nobody sees the mental load. it's carrying the whole family in your head, all the time, with no one to hand any of it to. even when the house is finally quiet, your brain isn't. and honestly? it can be really lonely. i love my kids more than anything, and i'd still choose them every time. but i don't know very many people who truly get what this feels like. so if you're a solo parent too, i want to know you. come say hi in the comments or send me a message. i'd really love to talk to someone who gets it. #soloparent #solomom #singlemom #mentalload #momlife
randi__neal108,100 просмотров • 8 дней назад
That’s a no for me dawg #relationships #patriarchy #men #marriage #mentalload
loudly.leo48,500 просмотров • 4 дней назад
So why do we call it a sacrifice? #mentalload #motherhood #marriage
Paige55,500 просмотров • 8 дней назад
My husband cooks dinner every night and sometimes people make comments about that. They often wonder what I’m doing while he’s cooking dinner. If you know anything about managing a house, there is always something to be done. ##domesticlabor##dinner##mentalload##motherhood##marriageadvice##equalpartnership##defaultparent##greenflags
Paige116,000 просмотров • 1 год назад











