A grandmother is asking for help because her grandson’s behavior and the way he treats his mom keep getting worse by the day. “We don’t know what to do. We’ve been dealing with this for 8 years” Thoughts?

this should solve the problem overnight

The child just needs discipline. This is what happens when a parent becomes a yes parent. A good ole ass whoopin from a switch or a belt would fix it

A direct result from the Democratic Party, taking fathers out of the homes and enabling women to take government money and not have a father in the house.

Whoop his little ass, I got my ass whooped as a kid and I developed this syndrome,,,,it’s called respect

Black Queen Here! He Needs 2 b w/his Father. These Sistas think they r the mother and father. And their children end up n Prison or Dead. Black Fathers need support against the system but if your White Ass don't mind getting robbed and murdered stay on course w/Liberals and Dems

Spare the rod, spoil the child. Children crave discipline, it’s a Biblical principle that society has unfortunately abandoned for the most part. This is what you get when you don’t do things GODs way…

We could go ahead and put him in jail now. That would probably save some lives and some property.

Cease his Playstation / Tablet when he misbehaves. Cut out sugary food and review in a week, to see any difference.

Psych evaluation for ODD Opposition Defiant Disorder

Have they tried this?

Pop the kid. Fighting a parent is a no no. Show him that you are restraining yourself.

This is what he needs

He might be autistic or in the spectrum ? Get him medically evaluated. Pray 🙏

Two or three years in Dagestan should do the trick.

If you are serious and want a way out of this, then I would recommend any of Dr. James Dobson's books. Dare to Discipline and The Strong-Willed Child saved me an immense amount of grief when mine were that size.

Don't worry, in 8 more years, the State will take over his care, clothes and three hots and a cot. That's the course the little brother is on.

What does his father have to say?

His felony record is right around the corner. Keep listening to thug a$$ rap music... keep feeding his mind with a ghetto lifestyle.

Probably should have a dad in the picture, but obviously doesn't. It's a real tragedy what has happened to blacks. What's even sadder is they allow it to happen and do nothing to prevent it (ie dont have unprotected sex with men who won't be a father). Muh welfare and sheeeiiiit

this is why you need a man in your life to snatch these lil fuckers bald headed and put them in their place

He’s already got his prison entry haircut to go along with his shitty attitude ..he will be doing hard time before he’s 20 !!!

A father figure would help immensely

You let him get away with this for 8 years 😳You should put him in check at 3 years old

Of course "gentle parenting" is the preferred method, but there has to be a backup plan. Might I suggest the following...😆

My thoughts? Juvy. Juvenile detention. He is far past the mother being able to correct that. All that's left is scaring the piss out of him and letting him sit with the consequences of his actions.

My father would have my ass glowing so red it would be seen by the space station at night.

You know things went south with this punk as soon as they agreed to get cornrows.

Where's the dad?

Send him to Nigeria or Ghana for a day or two and let him be disciplined there. Job done.

Ummm yeah. Raise that voice and put the fear of God in that child.

Where is his father.

Tell his father to handle it = if you know who he is and can find him...

It is true for that for every loving family that tries to do their best, there are a few kids that are incorrigible. For every horrible family that raises children in nearly impossible circumstances, there are a few kids who rise above. Both are outliers. Normal, stable families usually raise normal, stable children.