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A long-distance relationship is never easy when both people have their own lives in different countries. But I believe distance alone isn't the problem. When there is enough love, determination, and courage, you can find a way.

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In the end, it depends on the place that person holds in your life — but you should always put yourself first. On the contrary, sometimes distance can even make things better if you know how to handle it. You stay focused on your work, but you still have your moments

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where you talk to your partner. And when you finally see each other, it feels even more special because time has passed and you have an even stronger desire to enjoy every moment together.”

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What matters is how you are in that relationship with that person even if it’s from afar. In the end, it’s not about the distance, but about the relationship itself: How do you feel with that person? How do they make you feel? And what do you feel for that person?

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