“A man is your friend because he doesn’t think he has a chance…” 👇

Who tf made this nigga the spokesman for men? Nigga just be saying anything to them women 😭

That lady missed the fact that she admitted this man of hers also has several other friends that are women.

I’m very worried, how is she 22?

This is what we keep telling them. No man is your friend. You can’t keep a relationship and have opposite sex friends. A woman can be just friends, but for men, their only thought whenever they are with you is how to sleep with you.🤣🤣🤣

She made this whole story in her head lmao den she’s lying about her age aint no way in hell shes 22 probably 29-31

Nope. You can be friends with the other gender and not have romantic feelings or intentions.

She’s 22 my ass, that whole 35 years old woman. With a full made up story 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

What Steve is saying is whack and toxic. I have plenty of friends that are just women. And have no intention of dating them.

I’m sure this guy thinks he’s being funny here but it’s reductive, utter bullsh*t to say people can’t just be friends - they can.

This is fact! Only that it's not always the man wanting a relationship but surely one of you wants it, sometimes it is the lady wanting it while the man is indifferent. This is 💯 fact!

The niggas saying any female friend they tryna crack just shows your a weirdo guys can be platonic I’ve had platonic female friends I never tried to crack it’s a thing y’all just horny ass weirdos

Steve does not speak for us. I had a girl that was a friend and she was interested in me and I didn’t cross the line. Steve full of shit. He cheated on his wife with a mistress

I’ve had a female friend for 6 years and I never had a intention than just being friends…. 🤷‍♂️

making ppl believe opposing genders cannot be friend is toxic and yes certain bonds develop when we cross boundaries. we can be friends, i have women friend… many of them are ppl i wouldn’t sleep with

I know it is possible to have an opposite sex friends without having any sexual feelings towards them. I have a few female friends I’ve known for about three decades and I never thought of anything sexual towards them. We all got married we maintained family friendships till now.

I’ll be seeing her on the Jerry springers show next year.😂

That doesn’t make sense. She said I’ve never seen him that way and I never will/never could. So why can’t she answer the question of if she will date him?

He doesn’t represent all men. His logic aligns with what women think already because that is his perspective. Men and women can be platonic friends. Those that can’t have no self control and that’s best to not be friends with the opposite sex.

Her Big Ass a Damn Lie

That line sounds clever, but it reduces people to hidden motives they may not even have. Friendship isn’t always strategy or competition sometimes it’s just comfort, shared values, timing, or genuine connection without hidden calculations. Not every man is waiting for “a chance,” just like not every kindness is a disguised agenda. It’s healthier to judge people by their actions over time, not by cynical one-liners that assume the worst in everyone.

THATS A SNAKEY FRIEND RIGHT THERE SHE COULDNT REMAIN FRIENDS AND FIND HER SELF A MAN WHO HAD NO RELATION TO THIS COUPLE SHE WAS FRIENDS WITH SHE HAD TO DATE HER FRIENDS MAN AFTER THEY DONE THE RELATIONSHIP NOW THATS SNAKEY INDEED

That’s not true Ive been best friends with a girl since we were 18 still just friends had plenty of opportunities and have remained good friends through it all

So true

He’s definitely speaking only from his perspective and the CREEP he’s been all his life. I PROMISE my females are ONLY my friends and I’ve even introduced them to my other male friends so they could date them. Trust me ladies all men aren’t like Steve (The Creep) Harvey.

What complete bullshit. Women do the SAME thing. Grow up… Women should be wary of guys Offering gratuitous self-serving “answers” which serve the same purpose as “circling like a buzzard” everybody KNOWS it…

I employ a girl for over a decade. We laugh, joke and flirt. But nothing comes of it. We have both thought about it though. She’s told me she’s has dreams about me. But she’s got kinda fat now. So definitely not now. We still laugh joke though…

He is saying the truth

I don’t understand her point and what she wants advice about?

Stop talking girllllll, you are not listening to Uncle Steve.

I disagree with the host ! We all have good or rather great lady friends without any hidden agendas! This host is a numbskull! Belittling men same time with women

The same way she got him will be the same way she loses him 💯

I agree with Steve 100% if you are against ho ahead and let your wife have a guy best friend and let your husband have an attractive best female friend and see what happens.

22? 🧐