A video has emerged showing a woman clapping her partner after he allegedly took her car without her permission. The man, who remained calm, simply responded, “Nkosikazi, you won’t like it.” The incident has sparked discussion about how some men also experience mistreatment in relationships but often stay silent... due to fear, stigma, or embarrassment.show more

“mistreatment” call it as it is, that’s GBV

When the victim is a man, they call it mistreatment, but when it’s a woman, it’s GBV

Lol why are you calling it mistreatment instead of abuse or gender based violence?

watching this video makes me sad, because had it been the male…it would be a different chat. how oblivious are people?

Purple gang feminists and truck mileage advocates will definitely mize this one

In the video, the woman physically attacking her partner because he allegedly took her car without permission is wrong on every level. Even if she was angry or felt disrespected, violence is never the right response. What stands out even more is the man’s calm reaction “Nkosikazi, you won’t like it.” That sentence says a lot. It shows a man who is aware that if he retaliates, even verbally, the situation could easily be twisted against him. Many men know that if they raise their voice or defend themselves, society will quickly label them as the aggressor.

If the roles were reversed it would be raining purple Coochies all weekend

"Mistreatment" 😂😂😂 words have a way of minimising the situation.

Why do you call it a mistreatment instead of GBV? Is it because the victim is a man and the perpetrator a woman?Where are the GBV activists?

In summary.

If the roles were reversed he'd already be cancelled and in cuffs. Y'all fake as fuck - arrest that bitch today.

So GBV only applies when a woman is one the other side in this country 🤔 ?

This is a gender based violence, she needs to be arrested.

Fuck this GBV Scam. When it's man being abused is not GBV.

Does this count as GBV?

Bro to bro: Never drive your woman's car. Damaged women are violent. They don't see any value in a man who isn't rich. To them, such men are mere placeholders who will be replaced with their spec. In the meantime, respect yourself and act accordingly!

𝐆𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐚𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐧𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐞𝐬. Is there many who ever think or say… ‘𝗪𝗲𝗹𝗹, 𝗯𝗮𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿, 𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗜’𝗺 𝗲𝘅𝗲𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘃𝗶𝗼𝗹𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗮𝗴𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂.’ It’s usually anger, toxic lovers fighting, jealous people, the criminals people date for money, traumatised people, evil people also exist, unstable relationships, money stress (…) broke brothers can be really violent when they see that nigga with a BMW M5 drop you off, childhood trauma, alcohol, drugs, people who never learned emotional control, hurt people like those who get a beating coz they took a woman’s car without prior consent or those who make a man raise 3 children from another man’s sperm etc. 𝘾𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙩 ‘𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙖𝙨𝙚𝙙’ 𝙝𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡 𝙨𝙤𝙘𝙞𝙤 𝙥𝙨𝙮𝙘𝙝𝙤 𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙤𝙢𝙞𝙘 𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚𝙨. Or maybe i am too stupid to get it.

Where’s Women for Change? 👀

Mistreatment se gaat Equal rights equal lefts

Mistreatment?? This is GBV and had it been a woman….the purple gang would be furious spitting fire on the TL, mxmm

Waze wanginyanyisa lona ,umshayelani omunye umntwana,akaphume lobhuti kule relationship,ngoba lobhuti uzoboshwa one day ngalosisi,he must save himself and walk away from this toxic relationship

Where is this aunty?

Women bullying husbands in many households is more prevalent than is spoken of. Lack of respect for men. On the other hand alcohol plays a part. Men who drink abuse or get abused. The man gets drunk and now cannot stand up to this abuse

Men keep quiet about their abuse because they fear being laughed at by other men. So….

Does this qualify as GBV?👇

South African men don't have rights

We don’t want to talk but we are coming from there, one day I was angry that I almost hit her back and I remember I have kids I might end up in jail and there will be no mercy for me😢

Man are going through so much. Hope abenesibindi to walk away from that relationship.

Men always blame the victims, they always have advice for the victims instead of addressing the perpetrators. There is no shame in speaking out as a victim! Men should dismantle the victim blame tactics so they can understand that shame belongs to the perpetrators not the victim

Proper GBV no excuses!

He will eventually unalive her if she continues. People are just taking videos of it was the other way round someone would have already intervened

Mistreatment?? You mean domestic violence? Look at your choice of words because it’s a man who is at the receiving end. The wordings in this post are absurd and that is me trying to use the mildest word I can find to show my utmost displeasure.

But naye,he is wrong because why would you take your partner’s car without permission if that’s not how you do things in that particular relationship