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A young woman has raised a serious concern about how some values and protective practices in Hausa-Fulani society may be changing. She reflected on how, at 12 or 13, her mother still helped her bathe because she was considered a child. Yet today, a girl of the same age...

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Abdulrahman M Svor 21 Tagen

If we have a working system many people will be banned from giving birth and marrying additional wife …

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Sulaiman Uwaisu Idrisvor 21 Tagen

😆, yes. Is factor too.

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omo shanonovor 19 Tagen

gaskiya ne Ameen

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aminu idrisvor 21 Tagen

Gaskiya najidadi wannan bayani naki allah kashiryama yayamu.

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Sulaiman Uwaisu Idrisvor 21 Tagen

Ameen Ya Allah

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So touching wlhy

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Ibrahim shehuvor 18 Tagen

Allah yatsremuna xuriar mu

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Yazid Aliyu marnonavor 19 Tagen

Honestly speaking you have said right sister, as young as this girl concern running into prostitution is totally unacceptable, infact human rights supposed to intevern in this case as matter of she is underage.

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Arewanistan

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Explain to me.

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Haifosu kawai akeyi yanzu haka may be her first challenge daga rashin space din wajen kwana ne Allah ya shirya

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DONT IGNORE!! At approximately 1:50am past midnight, a 9-year-old child was spotted outside Quickmart Supermarket in Kilimani near Hurlingham, being used by an adult woman to beg for money from members of the public. I approached them with the intention of rescuing the child and taking her to a children’s home for safety. However, the woman-whom the child refers to as her “auntie” quickly lied to her, telling the young girl that I am a bad person. The child, confused and frightened, ran away with her before any help could reach her. Moments earlier, a man had approached us and appeared to have harassed the child earlier , causing her to break down in tears. This is extremely disturbing. No 9-year-old should be exposed to such danger, especially in the middle of the night. This is not ordinary begging. This is child exploitation and endangerment happening openly under our watch. If anyone knows the parents or guardians of this child, please inform them that she is being used to beg for money in Kilimani near Hurlingham, outside Quickmart, late into the night. I urgently call upon the Children protection unit, law enforcement agencies, and all relevant authorities to intervene immediately and secure this child and any other children who may be facing similar abuse. A child belongs in a safe home, in school, and under protection not on the streets at 1:50am begging for survival. This matter requires urgent attention. Let us not look away.
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