After watching them I’m good on marriage for a while😅

Naaa this shit is his fault. This girl wasn’t fulfilling all ur boxes, u tell her then or she can leave & find someone else U don’t marry her & then bitch about shit u already knew she can’t do lol

The unmarried don’t realise that they are communicating and this is healthy

Girl, leave this man! He's for the streetz! If you can't handle that women have lower sex drives than men, or better yet, work with her to match your energy with patience and love. But getting on a podcast to blast her for something so intimate is disgusting.

Sound like his definition of monogamy is 24/7 access

I’m only one minute in and all ima say is nigga you didn’t have to marry her, you didn’t have to dk anything you didn’t want to. He sounds unhappy and she should leave. Bye

Her not really wanting to be sexual with him is a sign that he is not meeting her needs completely, and she’s not speaking the truth and actually telling him why her sex drive is not that with him.

Lol imagine signing up to legally be psychologically abused by a crazy person everyday 😂😂😂😂

Podcasts are the devil's work. Why tell all your business to the world 🙄

Sex is always an issue in marriages, how much sex do men need exactly? 🤔

Imagine you had a grueling workday and all you want to do is shower, order some take out, crawl into bed and relax, then here comes a stupid ass man and his nasty ass hands, who then guilt tripping you by saying ‘well you wanted monogamy’ when you say no! oh my god I’d Kermit!

So he wasn't acting in that series after all. He was playing himself.

Maybe the fact that he cheated on her do many times would be one of the reasons she doesn't feel the sexual attraction anymore.

You know what's funny? he meant forced monogamy in one way, if she had a higher drive than him he wouldn't feel the same that's how I know he is full of sh**..

He acting like Zach in real life 😂

if a man telling me after we’re already married he felt pressured to marry me i would have divorce papers written up the next day.

Sexual compatibility leads to this. I have heard similar situations where women start cheating in marriage because they realised they aren’t getting the sexual satisfaction they thought they will once married and living together. If you can’t figure these things out while dating, you will not succeed once married.

You should never base your real life goals off of anyone else’s life but your own

This is old, they still have a podcast and they have a great marriage…. A beautiful marriage, actually. Two adults that put in the real work every single day.

It’s only pressure because he wanted to be with her. If he didn’t he would have left and thought nothing of it.

He is basing his need to be intimate with other women on her. A woman would never turn down having sex with her partner unless if he is not fulfilling his other duties. He probably doesnt even take her out but always trying to have sex, it's exhausting.

In reality it don’t matter how much fornicating you’re doin it’ll never be enough. Men seem to forget how exhausting life itself is then to have to turn around and be hunching all the time, they literally have multiple kids caring for all those ppl working etc it’s alot

I love these conversations, both points are very valid and I’m glad they are having the conversation instead of bottling up resentment. What’s the name of the podcast?

If he didn’t want these things that felt like “pressure” then why did he marry her? Plus he doesn’t seem to care that many things have affected her sex drive, he’s so hell-bent on their sex life not giving any more meanwhile he knows that wasn’t the case when they were dating.

Buddy avoiding accountability. If you didn’t want marriage you could’ve just broke up w shorty. But instead of that you married her and committed to the relationship even further. Then say you got pressured. Man cmon nah 😭

Those weren’t her giving him pressure she was telling him what she wanted and he chose to continue. He seems resentful because it seems he wants more sex than he is getting and trying to make this a general statement when it’s about him wanting 2 step out cause she ain’t keepn up

I’m not arguing about accountability in marriage. And she clearly lacks a lot of it

using your marriage as social media content is toxic asf - they seem so harmful to each other.

Ok she keep saying 26 Kadem but now since you realize he needs a apology and a real mindset change to validate what she put him thru in her ignorance and lack of understanding what she needed to do as a wife. He’s 10 years over due. Accountability.

When and how did they get here?? There were a happy satisfied couple the last time I saw him on a podcast fgs!

I think you can avoid your marriage turning out like this lol

he keeps saying that she “forced him” into monogamy and that’s just not true. he wanted her, she set the boundary for what she wanted, and he obliged. she didn’t sign up to be a sexbot for whenever he wants sex and it seems that’s all he wanted was pussy he could fuck whenever.

wtf makes men thing their wives are robots to mend to their whole being?! lol like what

He starting to smell himself

They never loved eachother they settled. But outside of even couples like them I’m just cool on the whole marriage thing

Every man agrees with him. Men are naturally non-monogamous and want to have several wives/women. However, women always want men to sacrifice their own nature while they get their needs met in the relationship. As men we suffer because of it.