All of this:

Or you have the narcissist who always needs you to apologize? Everything is a slight, an offense? Always a victim. Not as simple as that, but interesting.

- All I Knew

I’d say it still depends on the people. “You hurt me by not making something special for me like you did for celiacs and cardiacs” for example still exposes a narcissist, but not the way she means.

Fair assessment

Ooof 🎯

So all women are narcissist? Good to know.

That's not a narcissist, that's a psychopath

The unwillingness to improve themselves as people, the constant need for attention and pushing blame outwards. The suicidal thoughts they can’t stop talking about because it’s a form of manipulation even if it’s genuine. The biggest red flag is moving fast in a relationship.

Yup it’s a telltale sign.

Context matters and it sounds like you're speaking from a bias experience. Sometimes what you think is someone being dismissing of your feelings is in reality a role reversal. The person pretending to be victimized is the narcisist and they would rather play victim than talk.

Except for the narcissist who pulls that exact play.