All the red flags!

This is an extremely warped way of looking at everything. Trust isn't built by making someone relieved that you don't kill them when they're around you.

Big red flag. Such person doesn't deserve any woman in his life.

What did he just say?? Most guys do not size up their partners for a deathmatch.

Why would you trust someone who is constantly evaluating whether or not he could kill you, and is upset if the answer's "no"???

I know that I am always thinking about if people are going to pick me up and throw me through a wall randomly "if they wanted to".

Yeah, that would make me feel super safe and loved! Totally not threatening in the slightest. I’m gonna order some food, anyone else want anything?

I guess I'm glad being a woman who matches the average height of US males and the weight of the slimmer ones has kept me safer from this kind of predator? Sisters who don't are welcome to come stand here by me and my resting murder face.

I do not trust anyone who's first thought upon looking at me is "can I throw her into a wall?"