Also this..

They will see this and still find a way to blame women.

Absolutely true! Males (young and old) have adopted such toxic beliefs about themselves and about women, which only serve to degrade them as men. Boys need leadership, which unfortunately cannot be provided by women, but is a great big gap from men. Thanks for sharing this!

This is nonsense. These boys are raised by single-mothers, let's not pass the buck.

The society has truly done injustice to the boy child 😞 couldn’t agree more. So many expectations from the boy child, if you how vulnerability it’s gay so toughen up, any sign of weakness it’s wrong. 😢

Things taught by adult males

@ntsikimazwai Imagine generalising the plight of men to them not going to therapy or to some ‘self help’ event. It’s deeper than that and it’s systematic.

What is emotional literacy?, boys struggle in feminized environments, school is feminized, therapy is feminized, and work place is feminized

@ntsikimazwai When do we attribute societal problems to society at large? Genderising societal issues will never get us anywhere. The old divide and conquer still reigns supreme. A divided society is rich fodder to propaganda machinery.

Men are living the boy child behind

Our government, for some reason, gave the girl child an advantage over boys in many areas. The women’s response, when the boy child is left behind, is to blame the boy child and men. No humility and sympathy, just gloating and blaming 😏

Ndidikwa kwazezi conversations zokuba they are left behind, njani na? So girls are raised by perfect moms or females in their lives? We know our grandmoms and moms didn't have the knowledge and resources hence they made certain choices but we know as women to seek help

This is systemic and trying to ferminize a boy child is no solution. We look up to the western nations too much. Why are we not looking places like China where the boy child is being thought how to have skills so they can look after themselves.

Words frm ill informed sneaky fucker devoured by ESTROGEN, LOGIC GONE🪟 KANJE🌬️ 🤷‍♂️ MEN hv always been shamed 4 voicing out their problems by society, u cn even see it on the plain sight that NO 1 GIVES A FUCK ABT MEN, MEN AR ANIMALS IN THE EYES OF SOCIETY

The system is pushing the girl child instead of pushing all kids why categories?Wonen rights where is man rights,womens day when is mens day?man dint need help but every human being must be given opportunity and rights,GBV is a case to protect women not man too

This is so true .. I hope this lands on one or two men .. it’s will have an impact on at least 8 boy children if understood and applied. I pray for a change in our society for men!!!

"Boys imitate the men in their lives , that's who they emulate "

Yeah let’s blame black men again for the problem they’re facing and we move. Yeah problem solved. It’s very easy to fix black men’s problems.

the men in his life left .

How do we expect the boy child to become his best version when the men who are supposed to guide him are absent, while the systems around him have not created enough intentional spaces for him to be mentored?

And this is why a 14 year old boy raped and murdered a 10 year old girl 💔.

These boys are raised by single mothers who made their husbands and teachers arrested when they tried to discipline the boy child. They are raised by mothers who divorced their husbands and now drink and bring different boyfriends at home. These women say men are TRASH

The boy child loses his virginity to an adult female and no one sees a problem with it.

fotshek we don’t care

If we are to be honest about imitation and what not, name calling, false categorisation will have this discussion disntergrate When you flip a coin and it falls on heads every time doesn't mean tails doesn't exist and it having a tails don't mean it's not a coin

At times no1 is leaving the boy child behind cause the man has never been in the child's life & we than have women trying to teach a boy on how to be a man. Therefore the boy child is an experiment throughout his childhood until he grasps onto whatever he believes is Manhood

Good morning beautiful 💕

It’s literally a man’s world.

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Every boy needs a father Unfortunately in South Africa 90% of the boys grow up without a father

This is the best take I've heard. Gave me chills as a mother to a son. Wow

Boy child are no longer raised by father's

Is there a man in his life in the 1st place? Most house holds don't have three generations of men. inception of migrant labour cut knowledge transfer between generations of men in family. At which age and $ amount should a man start a family?

This guy is right but it's only one side of the issue. The other side is that this issue systematically being done. It's to deliberately cripple their improvement so that control over society can be easy.

Men are emotionally stunted, and the cycle is perpertual, and only going to get worse. They are the only group why clear red flags and failures and everyone just 👁 and say🚮. Boys and men are in a spiral pit. What we see now is only gping to get worse.

@NolwAzi_Tusini My question would be, does this include YT boys or only directed to blacks boy? Angilwi 🏳️