Am I tempting men to cheat?

She has a lot of interesting points, women dressed in whatever can cause a man to lust. That is not the womans fault.

If a man wears a speedo at the beach is he tempting women to cheat? Creating lust in homosexuals? 🤔

I’m in bed, next to my sleeping wife, looking at your cleavage. The sound is off. I didn’t feel I was cheating until the words came up, (right BELOW your cleavage) and your logic about the slippery slope of lust entered my brain. I’m now in love with you and must get a divorce.

Matthew 5:29–30: And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out. It's about taking personal accountability. Which is something that a lot of religious people forget when they have the ability to Target someone else for what they do

Jesus agreed. He said if your right eye causes you to sin, you should tear it out and throw it away. Not that they should cover up. Lust is the fault of the lustee, not lusted.

I think anyone making that claim is fragile when it comes to commitment.

She’s so obnoxious

The Bible very clearly says that if your eye causes your to lust after someone you shouldn't, to pluck it out. But Christians don't read their Bible. 🙄🙄🙄

Could wear a zipped up sleeping bag to the beach and somebody would still think it's sexually attractive ffs

Yes you are, you crave the attention of men

You said once that you would let men run a train on you if only you weren't surrounded on all sides by bums. Hypergamy. You must know well by now that male sexuality and female sexuality operate very differently. Correct me if I'm wrong, but a woman isn't often turned on just by the appearance of a man who has the kind of physique she likes. Maybe I've got that wrong, but it seems like women often want to know more about him first. We men aren't like that. It literally just takes the sight of fulsome cleavage to get us going. Granted, this also isn't absolute even for us. It varies with our moods and hormones, but we don't need to know what a woman's character is like in order to want her body. This must seem as alien to a woman as a woman's sexuality is to a man, but it is how it is, on both sides, and it isn't going to change, so the question is, given these circumstances, how can men and women coexist harmoniously? Frankly, I wish our sexuality was more integrated like yours is, but unfortunately it isn't so. What is relatively easy for you is quite challenging, at least in my case (I'm aware some men don't struggle much in this regard). The bottom line to me is this shouldn't be an either-or proposition, and in Catholicism, it isn't. Both sexes bear responsibility. As a man, for the sake of my own salvation, I cannot allow the choices that others make determine whether I acquiesce to sin. When I was younger, I found that frustrating, even angering, but the Lord doesn't guarantee anybody an easy ride. A woman, for her part, should seek, out of charity, to dress with a kind and degree of modesty that is appropriate to the environment. You say that in some societies, showing one's ankles is pushing the limit. But in ours, revealing one's cleavage, though it's not uncommon, is still considered to cross the line. For men to demand women stop being women because many of us find it so easy to want a woman's body is obviously not acceptable. There are men who are lost to sexual sin and they sometimes make it painfully obvious. On the other hand, women just giving up on modesty altogether on the mistaken notion that there's no point trying at all is also not acceptable. It ignores the fact that many men, I would say most, do care and don't believe their sexual attraction must be a woman's problem. We're not going to get anywhere throwing up dual blazing middle fingers at each other all day.