Am I wrong for refusing to pay for my girlfriend’s return flight after she decided to extend her trip without me?

She want to find herself. Translation. She found Fabio.

She really planned on "finding herself", on his dime, with another man?!

Before you “find yourself” You need to find some money

Her new mans can buy the ticket

he pays for the trip, and because he stayed in one night, she goes out, meets someone else, then she decides to extend her trip just so she can fuck the dude, and expects her bf to cover the costs. When he says no she tries to manipulate him. The audacity of women is BAFFLING.

So she wanted to chit, but couldn’t afford to 😂😆

Yes, she behaved poorly. Best to move on.

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She needs to pay for it herself. Dude she is a user you’re dodging a bullet just by leaving her there

I had a feeling finding "herself" would include someone else

They are consequences for decisions. Let her pay for hers

Exactly my point

Two years monogamous…as far as he knows. I’m willing to bet she’s been ‘finding herself’ for much longer than just that trip to Italy.

30 seconds in, I can tell you exactly what happened on that trip. Don’t even need the full video. She met someone, wanted to have fun and “find herself”. She’s a cheating whore.

Yup she met someone

She met a dude .. how tf is this dude that oblivious

Discover my self

She definitely found mystery dick somewhere at that hotel/resort

Definitely 📌

This isn’t the first time that this has happened. You’re in a two year relationship go on a vacation and some random guy suddenly catches her eye. Nope. Other guys caught her eye while you were in the relationship and she slept with them. Plus she wasn’t really interested in you in the first place. That’s why she needs to “ find her self “.

Exactly I wonder what took him time to notice

Yall dont think some of these are fake?

Some probably

Lol...... You dodged a few bullets

so he has friends that think hes in the wrong? so basically everyone he associates with him dont respect him

Maybe they are not really his friends or are people who always parrot the position/ opinion of of women. You choose to play in the face of your spouse but expect them to keep their end of the bargain 🤷🙆. That's hyper entitlement

She wanted to fuck niggas and make him pay for it 😭😭😭😭😭

I don’t even have to right word to call this

This is a made up story. Reddit it full of them. Pure rage bait.

How sure are you about this?

She for sure found sumbody on the trip.. No woman is gonnna say sumthing like that on a trip wit her partner that she actually enjoys to be wit😂

Let her keep the ticket & make sure she has the funds to exchange it for another flight. (This can be a loan, but) when you take someone somewhere, you MUST ensure they can get home, not leave them stranded away from home with uncertain resources. This is a firm rule.

I strongly disagree with you on this

@CrankyOtter She broke the contract when she decided to stay longer. That’s on her

@CrankyOtter That’s on her

The guy does sound like a bit of a soft cuk. When he was sick and his Mrs went out with out him rather than stay back and look after him that was the red flag.

She kicked herself to the curb. Leave her there to figure her own life out.

Yup

It won’t be easy for him to move on without a proper closure

He should have just left her there and never spoken to her again. If she is willing to risk throwing away your years long relationship for someone she just met. Just imagine what she’s been up to at home.

Exactly might have even done worse

She needs more time to find herself translates to she found an Italian stallion.

She can fuck right off.

She fucking someone else

Thank GOD she revealed herself. RUN RUN RUN!!

So, lemme understand this. You and your boyfriend went on a trip to a foreign country, which he paid for. On the last day of a trip, you switched on him and told him you wanna stay longer to discover yourself. And, somehow, you didn't make provision for yourself? She's a sick wmn

No, you’re not you are used bud. She wasn’t there with you. She was there for her. She used you. You did the right thing. She don’t wanna come home with you. Cash out her ticket and go home. That’s what I would’ve done.

Me too I would have done the same

I don’t understand the issue here. Sounds pretty cut & dry.

Anyone who says they need time to “Find themselves”means they are moving on without you.

It's all there... She found someone ND u paid 4 that nonsense

Translation: Dumb bitch overplays her hand and fucks up her perfect life. The end.

I can’t stand when people give their “friends” power to even speak on their relationship.

You have to remember: For black and white boys on average close to half grew up with divorced or unmarried parents and limited access to their fathers. So they are raised by women and taught by women at school. That's why men are so susceptible to this nonsense.