Approaching a Dominant Online -- Do's and Don'ts Check out "What Makes a Good Submissive" on my YouTube channel

💯 and also don’t talk about sessions on our paid platforms.

Yes! In terms of session booking (not ever on fan sites, it's not allowed) let us know what you are writing about, in the initial contact, to avoid looking like a time-waster. Don't (unless perhaps on a paid text per chat platform): - "Can I ask you a question?" You just did. - "Hi" - "You available?" Do -"I just wanted to compliment you on _____." Thank you, that made my day and is very kind. -"Hello, I was wondering about finding out more about ____." Sure, happy to help. -"I'm wondering if you have availability ___ and ____. I'm in town and looking to see you for a ____type of scene, possibly for ___ hours in length. Mistresses _____ and ______ I see regularly." Some of you feel that contact forms are impersonal, but this is why we had to implement them. 99% of "Hi" and "You available?" don't lead to any actual booking, so we automatically do not take those seriously, and don't reply.

Approaching a Domme through a paid platform to discuss real life sessions puts her account at risk. The golden rule of Onlyfans is to not discuss real life meets. Your video summary includes both "online and in-person dominance".......

@LewisTania12 This is an excerpt from a longer video and cut down to be consumed by the 5 second attention span of social media. I can't go into every single specific thing and hold the attention span of the target audience. See also: we say this all the time and 99% do not read. ;)

To your point: I received an email today from someone I don’t know wanting to know if they can send me a message on FetLife (free not paid platform, yes they EMAILED me a message to ask if they can SEND me a message) to talk to me about a situation that happened them when they were new in the scene, wanting me to provide guidance on how they could have handled it differently. No offer to compensate my time or consideration. A shining example of the types of messages that we get and the types of messages that go unanswered.

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Great advice from a seasoned professional!

Very well said and easy to understand for any enquiring sub

Why is it all about giving women money. If dominant. They will simply enjoy the play and interacting

You must be new here to comment this on a professional account. And, many of us are both.. Lifestyle Doms receive 100x more messages than pros do, because there's substantially less of us than there are of you. You still have to put the work in to build rapport and relationships, we don't just sext with you for nothing.. lifestyle or pro. I get you want free interactions with dominant women but it doesn't work like that.