As a dad you gotta be the bad guy sometimes. 💯‼️

@moe4dem The baby will understand dad is raising him well

🫡 good

@moe4dem The boy is still small; she should be able to discipline him. Fathers should be careful about doing most of the discipline, and should balance discipline with play/affection. Otherwise it sets them up for the mother to manipulate the children against them, if she ever decides to.

@moe4dem How all this oyibo people take dey raise pikin sef? How pikin go beat im mama. In Africa, to even think of it is an abomination

lol do u get You can’t try it in Africa cuz body go tell u

@moe4dem word of wisdom

From a good dad

@moe4dem I sure made him know he can’t even think of it in my house…

@moe4dem Oh sharp 🔥👏

@moe4dem His cooperation is built off of fear not respect that’s the problem

@moe4dem You no lie

@moe4dem bingo.

@moe4dem Fr

@moe4dem Very deep

@moe4dem Why will you even want to hit your mum in the first place

@moe4dem I don't want to be

@moe4dem I understand

@moe4dem He’s real for this

@moe4dem My mum throws slippers, slaps and all that , but my dad only beat me twice ... I was hospitalised those twice . He got me gifts and all after , but the message was clear

@moe4dem It is what it is

@moe4dem And that's how it's done. 🚫"No"🚫 is a powerful and loving word. It teaches us structure, empowerment, limits, and the ability to provide protection/safety. So use it with positive intent, explanation & instruction.

@moe4dem Deep Message

@moe4dem We all grow up to realize dad was right. Be the bad guy. Kids don’t stay kids forever

@moe4dem Your wife has to help you too bud. Discipline is enforced as a unit

@moe4dem He was preaching

@moe4dem If you don’t discipline your child a stranger will.

@moe4dem you just have to

@moe4dem A strong dad