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Attachment theory explains your relationship style. But Esther Perel points to a deeper reason you keep choosing people who can't love you well. 8 unconscious scripts decide who you chase, fear, and call love: 1. “Love must be earned.”

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Lorwen Harris Nagle, PhD

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