Balancing Parenting-Marriage dynamics

These are the type of people who have children for social status and send them to daycare at 4 weeks. You’ll be lucky to have any relationship with your kids when they grow up. Hope the intimacy at night was worth it.

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Married 44 years and counting. 8 Christian, well adjusted adult children. 20 grandchildren. Frequently their was one of our small children in bed with is. My advice to you. Please wait until you have more learned life experience before you go around passing out advice.

I would go into my parents bed sometimes when I had nightmares as a kid It’s the safest I’ve ever felt in my entire life Imagine taking that from your kids Setting them up for a lifetime of anxiety, ie future ssri users Give your kids comfort when they’re young, life is rough

Every single animal In the history of the world Sleeps with their children Except… Humans in the last 500 years Y’all are dead wrong

Get a life I have 8 kids and every one of took turns when they were afraid. Don’t be so cold Your kid should always know that the parents will always be there for them no matter what . Just like when Peter was walking on the water and when he slipped into the water and yelled help to Jesus, and he reached out his hand and grabbed Peter by the hand and pulled him up out of the water and put them back in the boat

Man, there's a lot to unpack here. None of it positive.

What ages?

Lol, get out of here. Kids come first. If you didn't find someone who agrees, you shouldn't have had kids.

Kids always come 1st. All of children slept in bed with my wife and I. We now have a 7 month old who does the same. We have been married for 24 years and have a daughter graduating HS & the other graduating MS. make time for each other. Your kids come 1st it's called management

This is correct. But not in the way you’re upset about. For a time, sharing a sleeping space is normal. We are protectors of what we created. BUT, the spouse was there before the child. That person, is over the children . Not loved over kids, not pushing kids to the side, an equal love equal devotion. But never choosing a child over your spouse. Unless something is wrong. Abuse, neglect, etc. in a healthy environment You teach your children to respect others by putting the spouse first. You teach them by having a healthy marriage, and how to have a healthy marriage. Parents that place one another first, have a lasting, functional, healthy environment and home.