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🗣️ Caller 1: Why is it that when Adeboye defended the administration, The presidency did not release statement 🗣️ Caller 2: If I come to your house and have a conversation with you, then you tell the public everything we discussed, how would you feel? On Morning Crossfire, callers...

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Caller: So I have made a horrible mistake and about two months ago, I found myself in an unhealthy relationship with someone at the gym. Um, I... John: What does that mean? What does it mean? Caller: I... John: Wait, back up. Are you married? Are you married? Caller: Yes, I am married. That’s the key. That’s the key problem. John: How long? Caller: Um, we have been married for about five years. About five years. John: Any kids? Caller: Two children, two and four. John: Okay. Caller: Um, so I wanted to do a fitness competition and I found myself at the gym a lot, and there was a guy there, a trainer. And basically started, you know, helping me out with some workouts. We started talking, and it went too far. Um, my husband knows... John: What does that mean? Caller: Um, well, he started talking to me, we met for coffee, and then the part... John: Did you sleep with him? Caller: We actually ended up sleeping together, yes. Which is the part that my husband doesn't know. He knows everything except for that because, immediately, I just feared risking... like, I was scared of losing everyone and I was so stupid, and I was like, just scared, so I immediately lied. And blocked him from everything. I have not communicated with him since then. It's been over two months, but now I’m like, well great, when it was all horrible, I lied. And now I’m like, to move forward, I need to know whether or not I should tell him. John: The fact that you're calling tells me that you know the answer to this.

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