Came across this post, it had over 16k comments with different opinion. Some are saying why did he start what he can not finish. Some are saying she should go and meet the boy's father to make an effort too. This situation is crazy. Did you think the man... handled it well⁉️show more

My own opinion is no matter what you do for woman they will always ask you what have you done.

Hmm. So he was actually sending the child before but decided to stop coz maybe he no get much again

With all that the lady still tell him he’s selfish smh because he couldn’t afford to pay for her pikin school fees again! As a man no Dey do pass yourself

Marry single mother at your own risk

Hmm

The annoying thing there is so when the child want to graduate now and the guy ask for is biological father. It's actually simple. What if the lady is also collecting the money and be chopping it from start lol 😆 Girls will be girls.

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Well whether we like it or not he's not wrong sadly, she should call that child's father to actually be a father to his child. He has already done so much for that child in the absence of his own father, she should contact his father to be there for his child it's that simple!

@Uyaimmaa Hmm true

There is an adage that says if we are crying, we can still see. A step father is at best a step father, same thing with a step mum Even when people adopt a child, they still prioritise children of their body when resources cannot go round. The prayer is to have enough resources and allocate it wisely. The lady also is not a wise wife, you do not claim right of care for your child with a man that is not the father, she lacks emotional intelligence.

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She should put pressure on the real father first. But he also shouldn’t have acted like a full partner if he wasn’t ready

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Bro should have just not married a single mother.

Hm

Even the fact that i did not watch up to 30s of the video, the guy don fuck up already, u agree to marry her with the child, automaticaly the child is urs, so whatever treatment ur child is getting hers should be getting too, reason why i can't settle with a single mother,

My opinion he didn’t Handle it well but he’s so right if I have money for one child it’s my child 🤷‍♀️

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The fact that the child’s father is still alive puts a limit to the responsibility. The father can come anytime to take the boy. Since the father is alive, what is his own contribution? What is the woman contributing also to this home? It seems the woman is jobless

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Single mother's should atleast be responsible enough to take care of their child needs separately away from whatever help the man can provide. That's fair enough.

Avoid single mothers! Part of their game plan is to look for who will provide for her and kid together Like she actually feels it’s their entitlement

Even my dad couldn’t afford all of us in a private school and only my first born go and we didn’t complain. Brother shits happen. Na the woman wan turn am to something else.

the girl don’t know how to talk

Hmm

How dare you try to be logical with a woman??? That gender NEVER understand logic. Her memory too full to grab simple details the bros dey talk. Na wa o... At least notify the pikin papa first, ahh. This na wahala promax!

What you guys don’t get is that he said the only reason he’s not sending her child to private school is because he doesn’t have enough doesn’t mean if he had he won’t do it he is working according to his pocket and she not Evening saying she would help na Fuck up

Na d man fuck up 1) why he Dey marry single mother 2)why he Dey argue with woman Just say what you have say and let her fight herself

@joylasts What's wrong with public school? Why can't both children go to public school to avoid preferential treatment? The man is wrong

@joylasts Wahala

Well, marrying a single mother is quite tough. And no matter what you do for the step child, in most cases the child will never accept you as he/she biological father. And in most cases, the mother will always support the child.

What have you done for me? Did I send you to do it? You started doing it so you cannot finish doing it even if you’re broke?

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Confirm movie they here, if youre ever in doubt of a movie to watch. This one. Not one ogun owo wey odunlade deu run, or all this disappearing movie. Pls it's not healthy. They are promoting fear in your children. Teach your children the right thing before it's too late. Thanks

As a guy never marry a single mother, no matter how much you spend on the child you will never be the father of the real father is still alive.

Weren't they told not to marry single mothers? Are they no more single ladies out there? If the child's father sends school fee, and the step father feeds, and house, who will the mother say is financially responsible for the child tomorrow? If only men will listen and think.

The man handed it well 💯. When he told him the wife that he can’t afford to send both kids to private school now. 1. The woman didn’t try to bring a solution rather she brought fight. If she should’ve suggested for the man to share the other child school bills. Or maybe she can pay it for sometime till the man is okay to pay all. The man would agree to that . 2: the woman didn’t try to understand the husband as wife. She showed the man how entitled , ungrateful and lack of understanding she was . 3: even if the woman don’t have any to support her other child to prevent school. She should call the father of the other child . 4 : is the woman jobless? why can’t she handle the school fees since the husband is footing every other bills for the child

Never marry a single mother, everything here wil happen to u. Even that same child will probably go back to the real father

Never marry a single mother if you have no prior marriage or child experience.

What are the women purpose to this very life ?

You go still marry single mother make your eye pill🤣🤣

Reasons I will never understand their situation,, every conversation circles around her child, I didn't brew my strength for stuffs like that

What a st00pid man, marrying a single mother is the most useless thing a man shud ever do or think, let alone taking responsibility for anoda mans child what a f00l

How is the man even sure that his so called child is His. Single mothers and paternity fraud na 5&6....

Baba don fuck up. First he did not handle d situation well bcos u promised to tk her nd her child so why bck out now? Secondly u should not sound dt way like d child is not a human irrespective of d condition ur own child 2moro might also be under d mercy of another man u know.

All I've got to say is Okay na

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What stops her from sending her child to private school too? Why is she demanding from a man what she can not do? Why the entitlement and ingratitude? If anyone married a single parent, they did them favour that should never be trivialised. Single father or single mother. It is not easy to carry another person's burden, sow where you likely will never reap. She should get out jo.