Dating: Who’s in the wrong?

He confirmed when he said he'd meet her there. She doing too much.

I think if you need confirmation then you should confirm. A simple “we still on for tonight?” text before canceling.

It’s about being an adult and communicating. Plans were made. Plans were confirmed. If she wanted a reconfirmation she could have sent a text. It’s giving entitled. Men aren’t mind readers. Communicate and have a great date.

This is so silly, I confirm, but I’m not gonna assume something isn’t happening because it’s not confirmed lol

Both should have confirmed day of.

She’s in the wrong. I 100% understand wanting confirmation day of considering people are flaky or forgetful and it can make one anxious. I would be anxious myself so I can empathize. But that could have been communicated by her. The whole “you should’ve been so excited that you confirmed” is dead wrong and lacks reciprocity. The dating climate is hell

A lot of women who be online or watching those tiktoks get caught up in letting people tell them what they "deserve" making little things a big deal because of EGO! It's nothing for her to send a confirmation text if she's worried about it and they go on and have a nice date.

Do people not use calendars? Once I confirm something with someone once, it's in my calendar and I'm there. No need to double confirm. Have an expectation that people I'll follow through on their word.

I'm definitely staying single. I mean damn bruh

I used to be on the “once we make the plans, they’re set and I’ll meet you there” person. I confirm now, usually the day before because people are forgetful, but I don’t think he was wrong. “I deserve” in this context is such an odd attitude to have.