Day 32.5 - A no is a test or a hurdle

All these mental gymnastics are exhausting

Fuck off with your games. I'm not playing them. If someone says "no," I'm taking it as a "no." If they "didn't mean it," that's their problem.

i treat it as a verdict because it is. no mean no end of story. i respect people's boundaries and if a women wants to play these games im out i want a partner that wants me not one that makes me jump through hoops.

Any effort past a woman's "no" is grape now. I won't be playing this game.

99% of all the nonsense you said the guy did, he did not do. We live in 2026. No is a no. Period. Thats it. Nobody is doing all this BS you just put in this video. If someone tells me later that their "no" actually meant "yes" with lies, I would tell them to go play in traffic.

Miss me with the rape culture tests. I'm not trying to catch a charge from Miss Changed-Her-Mind later. Give me the women who want to say YES to me.

nah. no take backs. ladies pushed "no means no", they dont get to reverse course when we take it seriously.

Women, if you use "no" as a "maybe" (which is what this video is implying), you're attracting men who don't take "no" for an answer. Which is fine and all, but... just don't fucking complain afterwards about how it's "all men", or that none of it is ever your fault.

This video was obsolete 25 years ago, but it is dangerously wrong today. Any flirtation after “no,” even if followed by “yes,” that leads to intimacy is rape. Even if she never said no and only said yes, she can change her mind afterward (no expiration) and call it rape. Rape is not an act. Rape is a feeling, specifically how a woman feels about the intimacy. Women’s feelings are constantly changing. One act can be lovemaking one week, rape the next, and return to lovemaking two years later, and on and on it goes.

This is dumb. She says no… say ok and move onto to the other 4 billion women on planet earth.

Some great work man, keep it up.

at the present if the woman says so i would just back away because a no may means yes, no, maybe, or get away i am calling the cops 🤣🤣🤣 men today has no patience and energy to engage with this shit.

When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time

Ummmm achuaxty that’s rape…

If she's attracted to you, no = yes. If not, no = no If she willingly has sex with you and later regrets it, you raped her If she is self sufficient, she's empowered. If you are, it's the bare minimum She can have standards. Yours are misogynist The modern woman is not worth it

Too bad women Over-Value themselves... thus making almost every day a hurdle

but the women do this when they actualy have no worth at all.

Tfw a man takes his advice irl:

Yeah, I learned this is true with a couple of girls ... AND IT WAS TOTALLY NOT WORTH IT

Unfortunately, misogyny has completely destroyed the previous approach to dating. How misogynistic our society has become is best seen in AI. When asked "would you kill to save all of humanity," the answer is different depending on gender. A woman? No. A man? Yes, absolutely!

it always comes back to "dont listen to women"

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So I had the courage to ask you out but because you said no and I accepted that left means I have no worth or courage at all. Make it make sense.

That is complete bs! I don't waste my time with uncertain people.

After not taking no as no, you'll be standing in court facing jail

I feel like this is what a majority of men already believe and are very wrong about.

In 2026 even a YES can mean a NO years later.

DON'T EVER treat a "no" as a yes. Never ever!

Ms. Schrodinger's "No". You don't know if your chance is dead or alive. Now days, any further pursuit is risking your reputation, career and freedom. The stakes are just too high.

Even if this is true, it’s not worth the bullshit if you’re wrong

Few dudes learn this. The ones that do absolutely dominate the dating scene

If she says no but wants you to push through for a yes... it's also her setting the tone that she will make the decisions and you will have to fight to be heard. If she says no, accept it, and know you dodged a bullet

what happened to 10 years campaign of "no means no"?? they ditch it?