Dealing with s*xual rejection in marriage

Yea, I’m gonna call shenanigans here. This is another woke message guised in “faith” for women to justify them not fulfilling their duty as a partner. Notice the power dynamic here. Don’t fall for this woke bs. Next this woman will tell you take her last name. Hard pass.

🤣‼️ Advice to man Just have a side piece ……. You don’t need this psychological manipulation and emasculation 🤣‼️🤷‍♂️

This helps husbands out, not at all. You've just relabeled a problem and given no actionable solution.

Oh please 🙄. Yet another dose of performative “woke” culture creeping into Christian life. Let’s be honest: if a man voiced the same sentiment, many would rush to accuse him of cheating or entertaining someone else. The double standard is loud, and it’s exhausting. If you don’t want the man again, say it and everyone moves on with life. Is not that difficult.

1 Corinthians 7:3–5 (ESV): “The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”

This is a lot of words to say, “You’re not hot enough for me to want to fuck you.”

I’ll just drop this

Women are so manipulative and this is abuse.

If she's tired, polygamy solves it If she's not in the mood, polygamy solves it If she has low libido, polygamy solves it If she's unavailable, polygamy solves it If she's on her period, polygamy solves it If she's in postpartum, polygamy solves it If she's acting funny & trying to deny you sex, polygamy solves it If she won't cook/wants to starve you, polygamy solves it If she's getting complacent, polygamy puts her on her toes If she's unsubmissive, polygamy puts her in her place Polygamy solves everything. You just haven't realised yet. Polygamy is the future. Embrace it.

just jerk him off and stfu we dont wanna go to your mothers' or go pumpkin picking during college football saturdays but we do that bullshit

No. This is some woke shit propaganda, want more “connection”? Have more sex not less.

Is this video supposed to make men want to get married? This is the longhouse in action. What man wants to out up with this garbage?

🙄 Rejection is a great way to foster resentment. “Connected” is such a vague term that could change like the wind. Men don’t have a lot of needs to fill. Intimacy IS a connection for men so if you keep rejecting like this, it will lead to separation & ultimately divorce

This isn't wrong, but it's dangerously incomplete. Once you accept the frame that sex can only happen when her subjective needs are met then you are a hostage to her whims. Few women operate generously for long with this kind of power dynamic. There will be only marginal improvement at best. The reality is his needs matter too. Sure she wants connection, but what if sex is how *he* connects with her? Does that not matter? Yet somehow you rarely see counselors ever mention this side of the equation. He should fulfill what she requests, but she also needs to agree to a reasonable frequency. If she won't or low balls ridiculously then his correct response is not to "try harder" but to withdraw attention from her. Tired of seeing advice telling guys to bend over for women who are not operating in good faith. It doesn't make anyone in a marriage happy - neither the women not the men.

another reason why women are absolutely evil

🔥 🔥 ‼️ THIS IS EASY: HONOUR YOUR MAN, AND HE WILL HONOUR YOU. DISRESPECT HIM, AND HE MAY START LIVING A LIFE THAT NO LONGER INCLUDES YOU. When a man commits to a woman, when he chooses her above all others and asks for her hand in marriage that is not a small gesture . It is the ULTIMATE act of devotion. A promise. A vow to protect, provide, and stand by her side. In return, what most men crave isn’t perfection, ITS RESPECT, RECOGNITION & LOVE. To feel valued in their role as a partner, a builder, a protector. That’s why the strongest marriages are built on mutual honour. When a woman remembers to show her devotion, her belief in him, her respect it fuels a man in a way that nothing else can. 🔥 A MAN WHO FEELS HONOURED WILL BUILD A DUCKING RMPIRE FOR THEIR WOMAN!! 🔥 
He will go to war with the world, just to bring peace to her doorstep. It’s not complicated. It’s not a game. It’s not manipulation.
It’s reciprocity. But if you’ve honoured him, stood beside him, loved and respected him—and still he chooses to dishonour you, to betray or neglect you? Then walk away. Not from your worth, but towards it.

She's banging some dude from the office.

Y’all females need to stop complicating life and creating rules out of nowhere…

Problem solved.

How about mens ability to provide depends on me not being tired and connected. Power got disconnected? Too damn bad cuz just like the power I don't feel connected. Mortgage went unpaid? Sorry, I'm tired. Oh someone is breaking into our house with guns? I have a headache!

Women are retarded, jesus

Fuck that you took vows do your wifely duties or you're out. Birth rates and marriages are falling because of this non sense.

BULLSHIT. This is merely what she’s capable of understanding Men HAVE sex. Women USE sex. They use it to attain or retain something they value She already has him. There’s no risk. No competition anxiety. Just a dilution of unsexy comfort

"Babe, when will you take out the trash, it's been 3 days" "I don't feel connected"

Let a man have more than one woman. Life’s too short to argue when someone’s not in the mood! A balanced man needs three women: one for love, one for debate, and one who’s actually in the mood.

"I don't feel connected" is so funny to me because having sex is a great way to reconnect lol. I bet she'd feel close again if she f*cked him more

Women love saying “they need emotional connection” before sex. But they purposely leave out what a man needs… sex to feel emotionally connected. When sex only happens on her terms, it’s not love it’s leverage. That’s not intimacy that’s control.

Let me translate this bullcrap. Women often feel more “connected” when you pick up more than your fair share, do it with a smile, and never act physically about it. For many many women the imbalance grows larger and larger over time. Nothing you “do for them” will ever make them feel more sexually attracted to you. Because “you aren’t the problem”. Hormonal imbalances, pre-menopause, and a wildly distorted addiction to social media leave many women searching for something they’ll never find. The answer is in fact, that they need to change, they need to seek help, but they rarely do. They chalk it up to aging or natural changes. And they think men are dogs for being attracted to women half their age. Of course men know these women are usually air headed bomb shells. But it’s not the beauty men are as attracted to. ITS THE ATTITUDE. Why do so many older men wind up with really young women? Because their attitudes are better. It’s not just rejection, it’s the fact you have to “work for it at all”. That’s not marriage, that’s a reward for a wildly unbalanced act of loyalty and even loyal men have a breaking point.

Women just make up shit to justify their shitty behavior. Top tier men don’t have this problem because their women are afraid of losing him. It’s that simple

Nothing is as unattractive as a man guilting you into sex. How about be desirable?

That’s why this sort of Macron marriage age gap is untenable. This elderly woman has gone through menopause while her husband is still young & virile.

High body-count women can't pair bond. this whole argument is irrelevant.

This isn’t dealing with it this is just a bitch crying and giving the excuses. Fuck your man or he’ll go elsewhere

How about fuck off and get the hell out of my house