Dear men, Is he speaking your minds?

Coping mechanism. It’s a way of coping with hurt, rejection, or disappointment by focusing on the other person’s flaws.

I love gathering of men like this expecially when egboooo, food and drinks dey.. A lot of life discussions and things to pick from are always top on the agenda if u are smart and can listen

I have never seen a woman that agreed that her last breakup was her fault since I was born

He's not only speaking my mind. He's speaking the truth. A friend of mine was simping for a woman who doesn't like him. The girl was telling my guy that earns 90k to be giving her 50k monthly for her upkeep and skincare ( I doubt if she knows how much the guy earns though). And the guy was angry but agreed to it because he doesn't want to lose the girl. I tried talking to him as a friend, he no hear I tried as a pastor, my guy begin see me as devil. I tried as a street guy, my guy begin avoid me. People of God, this guy open mouth talk say " he's doing everything to the girl so that the girl no go talk bad about him to another person if they eventually break up, and the girl go see say she no go get another person like him". I nearly pour that idiot spit.

Haha lol... Women only remember two things inside relationship lol... Things u didn't do for her & things she did for u lol... They'll never be at fault for any reasons... Na their ex and men are always the fault... If u like, let woman gaslight u & make a fool out of u lol...

Lol, in as much as I never had any Ex but I have had it from people's ex girlfriend telling me the same 😂

😂 If woman wan cheat with you, he go first condemn his guy completely, those of us that have been with many women that have a boyfriend that you are aware of can relate very well As I dey like this, nothing wey woman go tell me over the phone wey I no go subject to verification

I've heard breakup stories, but I'm not sure I've heard any woman say it was her fault. They don’t take accountability. No sentiments here.

Man dey always dey at fault in any woman breakup story No be today nah

Woman no de ever fuck up in a relationship when a relationship and marriage ends na man always

When I heard “he’s nonchalant”. I just believed him 💯 Obinrin. Obinrin

A lady with 3kids around me says he can nevr trust a man, bt when I looked closely his 2nd and 3rd child are barely 2yrs apart. She left the father of the 1st & 2nd boy (her story) but how? calculating the age, she got pregnant while with the first man and left or was chased out

A married ex that left after she got pregnant for her now husband is in my DM with - "I don't do sex anymore with my husband". And "I've not had sex for 6 months." A married woman staying under the same roof with her husband. And this is a marriage of less than 2 years Women

He's actually speaking the truth, the woman has never been the problem when there is a breakup. A cheat will always find a way to paint themselves as a saint, that's why women are tagged as snakes as they are deceitful. And this said gender knows how to blackmail emotionally.

Na there way, den too de manipulative. Na narcissist den be

Normally, I still told a fried this same thing yesterday, at the end of the day do not always be in a haste to completely believe whatever a girl you are just meeting tells you about her ex 😂

This guy has a PhD in Womaniology. 😂 He's speaking nothing but the truth. Only those who don't understand women will disagree. Once the enjoyment or relationship is over, they'll paint you as the villain to the next lover, as if you were the worst person on earth. Obinrin. 😂

E fit be Agbafian sef😁😂😂😂😂😂 Women don show am small shege😂😂😂😂

Women and accountability are enemies

Hes right. The only power we women get na manipulation. If they can't manipulate you they won't stay. So u as man we u believe se wetin woman tell you about her ex na true just one ur eye down u go see all her lies

They never have any good thing to say about the ex but would still go back to them given any little chance.

Na who speak up be victim naw And women are always the victim unless we hear the man’s side of the story, else he is the problem 😆

Women and accountability no dey follow one road.

Wait for it 😂

Very true!!! No accountability. But my ex outrightly said the only I am good at was knackiology lol🤣. He come be like say na bad thing!!!

Omo you are talking from experience 😹 no woman would ever say her ex is a good person

@SodiqStijani42 What he said is just the simple truth😄😄 But what did he say women cannot take again?😂

😂😂😂

If you want to have a peaceful relationship with women, always be the problem

He no lie

Sam col Baba

As the first child even when my Mom called me crying on phone that one of my siblings did this & that - I go still dey doubt that gender. 😂😂

Nah so girl wey I Dey knack she Dey grap bedsheet tight beg me to stop say I be five minutes man when i serve her breakfast because of her bad character 😂😂

Na only Dj cuppy don ever admit say na she fuck up her past relationship for the whole of Nigeria women