Dear mothers, Please listen 👇

Radical idea: instead of asking mothers to lie to their sons, how about men be good people, good citizens, and good fathers?

One of the most important things a mother can do for her kids is to love and respect their father.

and most importantly have an active father present who has good morals, ethics, values and principles.

Thank you for posting this! Many women want to know what we can do to help support good men and ensure there are more of them.

And it can’t stop happening. We have more broken homes, damaged people, bad divorces and single damaged parents and guardians. Boys who are supposed to be men are becoming feminized and turning LGBT.

This is really deep and profound. Emotional castration... Give him a spine or he the reason he hides it. Being their first teacher, women has work on their hands. We need to share this.

If all women accept this ideology, we will have a safe society and community where love replaces fear, and strength replaces wickedness.

@LyndaSangster2 Grandmother raising g'kids. I tell my male teen every day how great it feels to finally have a man in the house again - even a young one. Tell him his masculinity is needed for balance. Bought him weights. Ask him to lift, carry & keep an eye on his grandmother. Best I can do.

Great share. And equally important is the need for men to avoid behaviours that tend to perpetuate such negative narratives.

God punish your useless mother.

Most reasons we have broken homes today are because women or mothers failed to inculcate these things into their sons. Will the women/ladies do better? We wish they would!!!

Men really are the problem. I know, because I am a man. We are broken and the onus to fix our relationships falls on us. Cheaters, liars, misogynists, violent, abusive and all other men that expect women to do things for them or for the household - are the problem.

Go lecture the misogynist wankers about how they talk about women and how they encourage rape and violence towards women. My sons know how to be decent people and they know I don't hate all men just the abusive ones.

Women should not be single mothers unless they are widows. What happened to the nuclear family concept? Too much feminism, toxic women.

This is profound

This is a deep and uncomfortable truth &it has contributed to many broken homes. Poor emotional upbringing has left many men confused,emotionally weak & lacking direction. Mothers need to do more so their sons can grow into men with standards,confidence with a sense of identity.

It's amazing to me that we never hear any of this lecturing towards fathers & daughters. Men DO mock women, speak of women as "the problem", roll their eyes at girlish traits, etc. Why don't we ever hear about this phenomenon & the harm it causes, that it has always caused?

100% agree with every word. I once was at the home of an acquaintance, she was pregnant &her 3 little boys were clinging. Asked how she was doing; upset, she said she’d just had an ultrasound &it was “another one of THESE” with huge disgust it was another boy. I was aghast.

Stfu. When my dad called women whores I knew he wasn't talking about the type of woman I was going to grow up to be. When a father points out the difference between dressing modestly and dressing like a street walker men don't say hey watch how you talk about women.

Even for mothers of daughters it holds equally valuable advice, because it's the mother who teaches how the daughters understand men as. They might resent, be scared of, disrespect or dehumanise men if the mother wants it.

Thanks for sharing sir. This is a hard truth, but a necessary one. Boys don’t need to be shamed out of their masculinity; they need to be guided into it with wisdom and love. A mother’s influence is powerful her words can either build confidence or plant lifelong doubt. Correction without contempt, strength without cruelty, love without fear. What we speak into our sons today becomes the voice they live with tomorrow.

“boys don’t need their power crushed, they need it trained. they need boundaries, not disgust; guidance, not fear” 🙏

I've have said that all along; Single Divorced Mother Bashing and Criticizing Fathers have taken the Masculine out of GenZ's there in lies the Problem..

What happens if your son doesn’t treat women well. Should we remain silent?

A'hooo There is no job more sacred than motherhood and fatherhood.

men need standards not shame 💯

Agba you have been saying this but will some women listen?

The comments are showing me how easily manipulated people are!

A mother raising a son should guide him toward healthy masculinity, responsibility, and confidence suppressing his emotions. Boys should be encouraged to express feelings, make decisions, and take risks, learning that true masculinity includes empathy, integrity, and resilience.

I am telling you. Even if you separate from his father. Make sure you never speak ill about their father. Because, you will raise extremes. It takes discipline. During those formative, you take a lot of stuff by the face value.

Wise words. I wish women will know the importance of roles they play in the lives of their children. There is nothing like toxic masculinity. Allow men to be men. We only have good/bad men.

Why is this only on mothers? Boys also learn how to be men from a father’s example.

......He will carry your voice inside of him for the rest of his life. True, so true...