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Defense mechanism
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First: Her friend clearly knows she’s lying, and she’s using defensive mechanism to defend herself. Second: As a man, once you notice the signs, walk away. You cannot win by arguing in a situation like this, sometimes the best response is silence, setting your boundaries, and telling her to leave. Third: Never ignore this kind of behavior when choosing a partner, someone who behaves like this may try to gaslight you later, even if the guy misunderstood the situation, there was a mature and respectful way she could have handled it. Her behavior completely exposed the situation, she dey lie! Fourth: If this isn’t a skit, then the girl is clearly in the wrong, her friend also knows that she’s trying to cover up by putting up this drama.

God bless you for his👌

Yes Boss! ✌️✌️

She Dey gaslight the negga. Everything you are thinking is true. Just walk away

She's definitely cheating

Obviously

Let her go. You don't know what God is showing you.

Make this bro just leave the relationship. He doesnt need to check the phone again. Make he just take this as a big Loss but man must move

lol they don catch her…If she’s ready to lose you rather than show you what she is hiding,then it’s time for you to leave

Let her go oga, move on, she’s for the street

Weak men instead let her go you still dey follow am rubbish

All the things no dey move me shaa… emotional blackmail nor dey work on me I no dey check phones, but if I were that guy… you must open that phone or make we forget ourselves Life no hard

The ladies are very stupid Very very stupid So now throwing the phone back to the guy because u are upset so you want him to beg u for nothing? Rubbish Break up with the girl Cause she's hiding something in the phone

The way they're shouting like they can beat everybody

She is guilty asf!

The guy messed up. You don’t let a cheating woman know that you are suspecting her or you have caught her. You just keep destroying her pomo while you are gathering evidence. It’s only Mumu men that confront cheating women.

The last thing to do as a guy is to show your paranoia to a woman no matter what once you start noticing signs just end things with no explanation leave her in the dark! You don't have to go back and forth with women. With my experience being the guy cheated with, she's guilty

Box to Box DM!???? No worry experience choke, na you go carry the ball go back to meet them 🤣😅. You are in more trouble if they draw out the "Tears" card!!! That's like taking out Viera and bringing in Kante.

Some men are love, if na me I go allow you go ajeh or better still if I had plans to marry you it’s all cancelled I will date you until you’ll realize that I’m not serious with you. Even from here it shows she’s a cheat 😂🤣

I just hate girls wey like to dey shout

@__Jzzz DISRESPECT: Instead of talking plenty, just pack your bags and leave. Tell the hotel manager that you are no longer interested in the room ( they can charge you for that day alone) That phone that she dropped( if you are the one who bought it for her, carry am too) Just leave

lol 😂 as she turn am to rough run commot u go don know uno need stress urself guy 😹😂.. obirin dem go still deh gaslight u on top watin dem know say dem deh do wrong 😹💔open the phone ☎️ na why he con hard like that

It's easy to see that bro is funding a h°e,you can clearly see that he is the one that got the phone she uses to call other men. Bro will learn that once it comes to this level, you no fit do anything. Allow her go, following her is very unnecessary

The last thing she'll do is to open that phone, she will keep shouting eeh 😂😂😂, just know that there's someone else in the picture and use your head well my guy.

Abeg why Una dey follow am the guy and him friends nah mumu It is obvious what the girl is doing nah

Omo if I don’t check that phone, we are done ✅ if heaven wants to fall let it fall. Some guys sha. Ladies will deal with you when you play “Mr Nice guy”

Baba leave that hoe, e de obvious already Except na skit bit if not I no know why e de hard una to let people go, girls too plenty guy...

Bro why are you even following her allow the human being to go 😒

I no understand, re this Men or Mee why re your guys dragging yourself along with her, some Guys na dododyo pro max

Emotional gaslighting at its peak

She guilty pa !

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This guy is weak... If I follow outside make I bend.. immediately she walk out of that room door I will shot the door and rest my nerves

Gaslighting they make drama out of a situation when you catch em cheating.

Only a cheater will act like this. If na me better slap when u go take them no go tell u b4 u maintain

Whether she’s cheating or not Why not unlock the phone and give it to him? One of the things that fuels a relationship is transparency But refusing to show him the phone and still pulling all form of defense mechanisms just shows that something is off and it points to cheatin

Diz one dey cheat. 😅😂😂
