Deleting messages means cheating💯

@Ayanfe_Baddo When she is ready she will definitely say the truth, you are deleting harmless chat ?

@Ayanfe_Baddo We be mumu na 😂😂😭

@Ayanfe_Baddo Make she dey lie now 😂

The rider only comes around when her husband isn’t home. He never visited while her husband was around. A married woman with children allows a rider to visit her whenever he wants. Do you really think a woman would let a man get that close if she wasn’t attracted to him? 😂😂😂😂 And then she deleted the evidence, her chats with the rider. She’s keeping the Rider for free food , money or companionship A Woman wouldn’t allow a man she’s not attracted to , to get close, chat often and visit her anytime the man likes

Which kain play cat and fish dey do? Your subconscious was easing into the cheating small small ni. Ole olojukokoro ni e

That a man had probably wanted to take a break from that marriage and he saw the situation as an opportunity and excuse to leave. There’s probably a side chick at the so called work travel.🥴. Believe it or not. 😂. Lots of you in these comments section are not familiar with this type of Men’s game. The man is the gaslighter…bad guy 😂. Just sad that she stupidly set herself up by letting her loneliness get the best of her (meanwhile her loneliness was also caused by the husband’s reduced presence in the marriage).

Any chat you know you’re going to delete later, whats the point having it in the first place?🤷🏾‍♂️ If that friendship had continued, aunty you fit spread leg las las! The rider must have had other motives, if not why making friends with a married woman? The fact these days is, it is easier to sleep with a married woman than single ladies!📌

Cheating starts from hiding things from each other.

She tried to put the blame on the man . Lol “O ma wan be for weeks” . She’s 💯 guilty .

See as everybody dey for comment section dey blame the husband instead of the woman dey entertain rider. Lmao You stay in a compound where everyone knows you’re married, to the point that they know your husband, but somehow you expect them to just keep quiet because the rider that has been visiting you constantly is your younger brother abi? Wisdom they say is profitable to direct. Actions have consequences🤌

She's not truth, how would she be closer to a random rider, then he graduated to someone coming to her street, then she started deleting messages, then he started coming into the compound, like how, a married woman

May be he don see de chat self , baba fit don clone her phone

I like a man who is very proactive. Don't waste time in taking critical decisions. Na small small these women go begin to dey test your patience and tolerance levels. If her husband had not taken the critical action he took, this woman go knack rider laslas. Nonsense.

With all your explanations you cheated..s#x is not the only way to cheat. The rider usually comes when your husband isn't home. Na from clap dance they enter.....You deleted your chats with the rider cos u knew what u were doing is wrong!.

Rider man is not just there as a friend but there waiting for an opportunity for whenever a door will open for him to fuck her brains out😂 That’s why there’s no such thing as friends between man and woman

He was already looking for a way to leave before now.

If the husband did not find out through the snitch. She go finally fu*ck the rider. Na so cheating dey start. The rider saw loophole in her marriage to exploit because he noticed she lives alone and might be lonely.

Even if you are not cheating,deleting a messages means you are cheating. Put you man in your shoes,will you believe that small amounts of stories, absolutely NO if you man is not giving you attention engage in stm different

Mistake #1: Not sharing her day-to-day life with her husband. Communication was already weak. Mistake #2: Deleting the chats. If it was completely innocent, why hide the evidence? An overthinker woman would never move like this. She would have anticipated the worst, guided against it, and over-shared everything from day one just to keep her marriage safe. But the husband suppose trust the woman wey him marry na shuoooo!

You deleted all the messages. The rider only comes when the husband is not around. You never said anything to your husband about the rider you made friends with ? Oya naau.

Cheater, giving another man attention and still deleting the chat between them, just tell your husband how far you’ve been sending your explicit image to him. Believe me that’s my thoughts i am an over thinker.

She and the delivery guy should've known better! They should've considered what is called boundaries. When a woman is married, no matter who you are as a man, other than her husband, you should give the married woman a reasonable distance to avoid misinterpretation.

The rider must find your husband's family on his own and share his perspective. Afterwards, he should have a family member call him while he's in town for a direct, man-to-man talk. Ensure he does that with his own wife and father-in-law, if possible.

Na lie she Dey lie.. I no fit ever believe woman side of a story.. I’ll never 👎 do such a thing. It’s easier for them to manipulate things. Just like verydaftman

Tell the rider to forward all the messages to you and you show him, so that you can regain your trust or the rider should meet with your husband with all the chats from the beginning you both started chatting

So rider has deleted his own messages too? Call him to show his own messages to your hubby.

Lies lol Nothing suppose concern you and ride pass Delivered Money sent Anything wey make you Dey delete chat, that’s infidelity involved.

A hard truth: Married women should avoid building close friendships with other men. Your husband should be your closest friend, your home your priority, and your marriage your responsibility. Protecting those boundaries can prevent many unnecessary problems.

The major problem is that your shenanigans were reported by your neighbors and that alone is a disgrace to your husband if he decides to forgive you. His ego as a man wouldn't allow him to forgive you. It would have been easy if he is the one who catches you by himself.

Very Big lie, the woman is 100% hiding something, if there’s nothing is the chat why deleting it, Omoh can lie fuck 😒😎

The moment u're protective of ur relationship with another man to ur husband to d extent that u're even deleting ur chats with him, that's d moment u show u're having something with him, & it's only a foolish man d@ would believe otherwise. U're not telling us d whole truth here!

But I feel that you should have told your hubby about the rider simply because you can't accept that too if it's vice versa... Going forward, At least, the rider should have the chat on his phone. And if not. Since he's your friend. He should speak to your hubby or family...

Okay we don hear Now call two of your grown male siblings explain to them and listen to their verdict Also assume it happened to them and you as an elder sister , what will your advice be for them?

I pity her! The husband was actually looking for an excuse to leave the marriage since and got the chance to do so with her mistake. I won’t even be surprised if the husband has another woman in his current location

Na small small e dey start, even if he didn’t find out, you and the rider would’ve done something eventually

Why would you allow a private chat between you and a delivery guy when you are married and your husband isn't around?? That is a red flag. They delivery guy is just waiting for the appropriate time to strike because he's not your relative. Why the unnecessary familiarity?

If you're my wife, giving another man attention ehn, you know what I'll count it as