@DlaminiLusiwe Robust conversations with our elders are crucial, often providing valuable guidance for our actions and decisions.

I met her when she was 6 months pregnant. She told me baby daddy was married and he dumped her when she refused to terminate. I took care of her until she gave birth. I paid thousands for her to give birth at a private hospital. She has been staying with me and I take care of her and the baby. The baby is one now and out of the blue the baby daddy wants to be part of the baby's life. I was not comfortable with it but I understand he's the father. Last month she told me she still loves the guy and she's leaving me for him. Basically, she dumped me, a guy who took care of her and busy saving money for lobola, to be a side chick again to someone who dumped her when she needed him the most. I don't want to lie, I'm more disappointed than hurt. We made so many plans for the future and I was looking forward to spending the rest of my life with her. At this stage I doubt I'll ever be with another woman.

@DlaminiLusiwe 8ys ago I took an advice from 1 of the Uncle I was working with.. Dated a lady who had a child, that Uncle said to me,if he was my father he wouldn't advice me to be in relationship with that lady.. I took his advice I met my wife at the age of 34 with no kid, we happy married

This is the most important interview of all time, it solves the human condition, ends the turmoil & suffering in the world & finally makes sense of our lives.

@DlaminiLusiwe I said this years ago that there is no way I am going to marry someone who had a child when I had none. I met my now wife who had no children. 18 years later, we have 3 boys together. No outside children

@DlaminiLusiwe That’s proper advice from a true OG, these man of today are simps, they are weak.

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@DlaminiLusiwe Lmao, this is not always true.

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