Do you think couples who separate for a while in marriage and later come back together can build a better relationship than they had before, or does it usually go back to the same old problems unless real change has happened? 🤷‍♂️

No, the real story is, she separated from her husband because she was bored with her life and she thought she could monkey branch to a more dynamic and exciting man and when she realized that it’s just another man, no matter how exciting they seem to be she realize she fucked up because life without her boring structured husband was harder than she thought it would be, and when she tried to go back, the guy gave it another try, but couldn’t forgive the fact that she lost interest/love for him, and was willing to trash at all, and so he could not accept her back the wholeheartedly and that’s why they split up again. I guarantee you that’s the truth.

She left him, coaxed him into taking her back, then decided she didn’t want him AGAIN.

So she was getting some D from someone else (or there would be nothing for him to forgive) he got a girlfriend and she couldn’t stand to see him happy and couldn’t handle life so she decided to fuck him over again? Real classy bitch

After 6 months she's been railed out by every rando she met. Never accept disrespect from a worthless cheating 304! Better to walk away and move on to a better, younger woman!

Listened to everything she said and it was all about her. Not her husband or kids her whole motiviation was herself

No. Never go back and pick through the garbage, the neighbors see you do it and it’s always soiled

She said it took him a long time to forgive her. So she cheated. They separated. She slept with other men. He met a new woman. She got jealous and destroyed his new relationship, moved back in. Got bored again, probably cheated again and left him.

FINAL ANSWER: For various reasons, some people are simply NOT meant to be married. Period. End of conversation. So they should not ever get married. But they do - and it causes great pain and chaos across the planet for almost everyone else.

Never, never give some woman a second bullet to shoot you.

healthy people can rebuild healthy relationships. Unchanged people usually recreate old patterns even after reconciliation.

I think the key phrase she said was something about him forgiving her. So she did something terrible, and is trying to get sympathy for being the “new version of her’.”

Sounds like you took crazy back a second time.

Confidently stating why you're delusional and needy psychiatric care. How can you destroy something, work "effortlessly" to regain "normalcy" for it then destroy it again? I feel sorry for the man that went through this. That's more than enough drama for a life time

Never take a woman back… Never let her back in the door

Glad she was able to circle back and make sure she made him miserable twice. Unreal. What a creature.

He made a mistake. God knows how many guys she banged while they were separated. Almost guaranteed she asked for the separation so she could fuck her ex, her PT, her shrink, her boss, the barrista at her cafe, the uber driver and her college football team.

he was an idiot,.. the moment he let her push him off his own base she lost all respect for him... again...

What I heard was, she doesn't want him. But she doesn't want him to be happy either

Separation is just a prelude to divorce. It's an excuse to find a landing spot for when the divorce is filed. Maybe think about who you're marrying BEFORE you get married. It would save a lot of heartache and stress.

So she broke his heart, then lied her way back giving him hope, then shattered that hope. Now that he's miserable again she can thrive. And women will say men are cruel...

She got slammed by a lotta dudes in those 6 months and the husband decided to take her back? Never do this. If your woman leaves, she leaves once. Done.

She was never yours. It was just your turn. Classic Marriage 2.0 script. Never take her back after disrespect. Hold frame or next her the first time. The new version of me is just hamster rationalization for zero accountability

What a crock! You were the cause of the problem and still refused to take accountability…

I love when they videotape them “hitting the wall! “

Never go back depending on who left who don’t ever go back it will only make one person live in sadness

So…she ruined his life twice. Western women are broken if they think this is progress.

I only had 2 rules when I was dating ..... (1) Only ask a girl/woman out once, if she says "no", respect that and move on. (2) If you split up from someone, never go back. There was obviously a flaw in the relationship, and that will still be there.

She forgets the increase on her body count during those 6 months, and by that means he no longer loves her and he will never will be able to do so, cause she belongs to the streets.

It’s all about her, me me me me ….

Tough one honestly

So she basically begged to come back just to realize she still not the person she needs to be so she basically wasted that man time twice

When the trash takes it's self out. Leave it a the curb where it belongs. Possibly what happened is the guy she thought was her next man. Played her. Or just kicked her to the curb. She needed a space to regroup. And get her next new man.

If only going back would work out, life would be perfect. If everyone could just start over and build love again instead of harboring on the past. Women want their man. That’s all.

Not if it’s betrayal. Once trust is broken, it’s hard to get back.