Don't get married until you've gone through this checklist💯💯

The real sign of being well raised by your parents is being a wonderful spouse; not the university you attended.

Sex addiction, casino addiction, drugs and alcohol- no marriage could survive that - if you are not a smoker, you can’t go out and marry a smoker - you can’t fix their addiction- so don’t even bother

I am bored with the thought 💭 of marriage . I don’t need a burden of man, and ain’t interesting baby-sitting a man-child. Single life is better, some days it may get a bit weird but it’s otherwise quite sorted! ✔️

11) if you can't have your own bank account DO NOT GET MARRIED.

Most importantly: Check first if you are up to your own standards. Especially check your bank accounts presentability and addictive behaviour, like shopping or social media. Otherwise, you do not get married! ;o)

Women need to stop aiming for marriage & strive for personal success. Money will never cheat on you.

Most of those are simply relationship red flags and no go’s . Don’t be with people who can’t respect you and others and who’s resent you for your victories or if you change and get older. Like those people are not worth your time at all

The weight one shouldn't be on the list i mean you cant help baldness but you can always lose weight...and if they told lazy to lose weight then Do Not Get Married lol

“You can’t fix them bro”👌

so many people would have a problem with these . but if u analize it all makes sense . is like saying u both know it takes work to build together, accept bowing down when guilty to find solution (not to be superior)

but in reality this person doesn’t exist in a female human body, so we settle for A-above 18 years of age and B-more attractive than repulsive (6, not a 4) and C - living within 40 miles.

Agreed ~PiNKKiTTi~ The Relationship Channel

7-10 is what I missed when I got married! Especially 7!!!

Marriage only benefits women…

Damn. I almost made it as perfect but sharing the house EQUALLY. Er... I need ONE room. You can have a man cave Sir, but one room, my herbal medicine room is not a shared space! Don't touch my herbs, my sterile bottles, my coil condenser, my tinctures, meds & beeswax pellets!

Most don’t even know what it’s like to wipe someone else’s ass, most don’t want to do it. But you are meant to stay with each other through sickness and health, if they can’t and won’t wipe your ass I agree don’t get married

@grok quote all her list items. literally.

Amen.

@asvnte Una no ready ohhhh 🤣

I never carry cash on me, but whenever I do I always give it to the homeless. They need it more than I do

Don’t worry. I will NEVER get married.

I mean , common sense .

What's missing in this otherwise excellent advice is the discussions about money! 1. Are resources AND responsibilities shared? (not split - shared!) 2. Do you have similar goals re spending & saving? 3. Can you agree on the most basic issues? If not - Do Not Get Married!

@grok who is the girl from the video?

I agree marriage sucks because after 52 years my bride left me for another man who is an insult of my manhood because he is fat little troll who gets my wife to believe she is his soulmate🤕🤮🤡

That’s number one “ honey how would you feel when I get fat “ 🤣🤣”

You don't always need a checklist

Now this is a woman I respect she spit in facts

Personally, I want to go bald. You wouldn’t need to; shave, get a haircut, nor use that much hair product. (Think about it).

Perfect wife here 💁‍♀️

To late. I got 2 daughters

I know shit about my fiance he would never tell his best friend from highschool, he’s one of those rare people

Are you real? Will you marry me?

this is a thing that flourishwithlaurin will never say in her perfect codependancy trad talks