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Elder Maponga speaks about paying lobola for a non virgin Why should a man pay for something other men got for free? Ladies, a man marrying you when he didn't devirgin you is a man saving you from shame. He did you a favor, the least you can do... show more

𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒕 𝑶𝒇 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒉

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Norma Kay2 years ago

I will never understand why men pay lobola for women who are not virgins

𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒕 𝑶𝒇 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒉2 years ago

Because they're idiots

RemainAman2 years ago

Men, She is not a virgin. She should beg you to marry her. END. Join me to be a great man. #RemainAman

The Alpha Stoic | Mindset, Motivation, Masculinity2 years ago

The respect you want from a non-virgin woman is NEVER going to happen, unless you were her 2nd body who ABSOLUTELY imprinted her sexually and psychologically. If you weren’t her imprint, forget about her respecting you, find someone who does!!

GST Tax Break🪙2 years ago

It’s drives them crazy, but if you ask a woman if she’s willing to pay 30k for 2021 Honda Civic or 30k for a 2024 Hyundai Elantra, every person will go for the 2024 edition. Why, because it’s a new car, new seats, no mileage, new tires, new brakes, no previous history 😂😂😂

Mu Grade 72 years ago

What about if both of us are not virgins? I devirgin someone, didn't marry her.. go on to marry another and expect her to be virgin? If that is the logic then there must be a law forcing men to marry whoever they devirgined

Amigo Toots2 years ago

That's today's lesson. Broken seals taste better!

Dividends Growth Hustler2 years ago

Dating advice: Don't be foolish. Be wise, not cheap. Build yourself up. The rest will follow.

Tonde2 years ago

Paying lobola for someone who was someone’s weekend wife for a decade

Malloy🫠2 years ago

Me rushing to pay lobola for a non virgin😭😭

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