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Engfa talking about relationships and loneliness: E: Being single is good, trust P’Fah. If you’re single, don’t complain about being lonely. Being single and lonely isn’t as bad as being in a relationship and feeling lonely, that’s way more painful. People who say ‘Ugh, I’m single and so lonely’...

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