Every hardworking man should hear this at least once in their life - especially before they turn 30.

Your ability to bounce back from a loss, heartbreak, disappointment is probably your most important tool as a man

The downfall of a man is not the end of his life. You should always be able to pick yourself back up after a fall and give it another shot.

Very relatable 💯 , never put your identity to your job or some fking Org. Life is fickle, try alot of things!, find your feet and enjoy!

2022 was the year I nearly ran mad. In summary, life was basically after my life. Nothing was working out. No job, failed businesses, debts, health issues e.t.c I was this close to going back to my parents house. I'm glad things took shape in 2023.

Remind me of a phrase in Rudyard Kiplings poem “if” “If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss.” Unfortunately, most men can’t

You too like grammar but this one enter shaaa. Na man you be

Thankyou brother I needed to hear this, I came across by chance as I realised I lost my identity yesterday after a failed exam. God bless you, you have a new follower ❤️

Retired people get this a lot, also. I feel for them.

That is why you need humility in your winning season. Because no be say na you sabi pass or sharp pass. Na God just wan do am for you. There are people better than you who are living in worse conditions . Don’t think it’s their fault

Started strong but went flat in the middle due to many digressions and inability to organize thoughts as thoughtfully as intended. The whole point was not delivered

Whether before or after you turn 30 or any age, that shit doesn’t work in Nigeria. The country is already tough to be making one feel like they’re not doing enough.

Your purpose in life shouldn't also be built on the amount of girls you can win over a week, or on giggling with friends and passing the kush, having a higher purposeful identity that isn't tied to ego freaking ideas requires having a connection with God, Mine is achieving heaven

To take it further. Identifying with anything in life is a potential source of pain. Even marriage, family, nationality, gender, race & faith. True freedom and happiness is embracing who you are without any attachment to who you are.

I came across your video by chance for the first time and since then, anytime I listen to you. Is like a father talking to a son. Thank you.

Omo I don tire to Dey listen to all these motivational speakers……Omo talk fast fast data no really Dey 7 minutes video 😂😂😂 all these motivational talk nothing to write home about Abi na me Dey do the wrong thing…. but abeg dey do fast with your video ahh 😏

This is absolutely correct. People should never forget this: "Your job is what you're paid to do. But your work(Assignment/Purpose) is what you're called to do." Never confuse the two.

Build your Identity on your purpose not on a Job.

But my father’s death has actually crushed me.

In other words kwechiri, or rather persevere. All defeat is psychological until death

Build your Identity on your purpose not on a Job. Finding your purpose is paramount in Life

@FelixObasi27 This isn’t for men only, but women as well. Life is built around purpose and that’s the driving force to go on everyday. You have to tell yourself “I cannot be a failure ooo, no I cannot”. Bounce back after every fall and bounce back better.

2025/2026 has been the worst year of my life but I will bounce back

I still no go hear sha

Build your identity around your purpose and never on your job ✨️ 👌 Well said 👏

@PapiJruee 2025 was really tuff half of 2026 is even worse dan 2025 But my confidence still dey I no fit fall ahje 2027 will be surely different

When you’ve seen light and darkness begin to crawl in, you’ll start to loose your mind, only the extremely strong can build again, do not give up.

Had to take a breather and I listened till the end. You literally spoke to me. I lost something i had built my life around with in 2024 and till date, i doubt if I've recovered FULLY yet. It's hard, but this too shall pass. You've gained a follower in me.

7mins of hearing someone else version of their reality at 30 and thinks it implies to everyone? Lol dumb

Have seen this happen, time and time again in Men's life. Powerful message 💯

Word. It’s a rather imperative you move from a place of purpose

Thanks for sharing Vic, I have seen this play out several times.

Guy... Life no get arithmetic formula you go dey, dey build one or two life will struck you with one kind genetic illness or if fit be no be genetic sef "wey no get cure but it can be manag" . Exact phrase you will here from doctor

This is deep And imperative to bear in mind

@WilliamDanladi7 I’m grateful for this information thank you for very much

My response to the first paragraph is that not everyone will make money due to how the world has been economize Secondly not everyone can manage their life for a longer period of time. People bend under pressure and misery