Excuse me??😭

And this kind of thinking/behavior spills over to many other things... Even to how some mothers treat their daughters compared to their sons, kuningi

These are the people who become boy moms and evil mother in laws. Just eww

True

Maybe I’m not hearing what yall are hearing in the comments but I understand what she means?😔😭

Explain how it makes sense chomi😭

@owakheee Maybe you'll understand it this way, if we are fish in a tank and then a dog opens the tank and the water comes out then we die, we might understand tht the dog probably don't understand we can't live without water but if a fish that's swimming with us does it ..well fck it🤷

@owakheee 😭😭😭😭😭idk bro I think you should sit this one out

@Mahlohonol_M @owakheee Men and analogies 🙄

@Mahlohonol_M @owakheee 😭😭it's so manipulative because no thats actually not the same thing??

Basically,so I don’t understand the comments hey😭

She said "let me give you a chance to get to know me better" about a MAN who disrespects her. Why are extend that much grace to anyone let alone a man? Would they do the same for you? Terrible people are terrible people. Has nothing to do with sex. She's male-centered qha.

@owakheee Ohhh okay I see now…you’re looking at this from a feminist perspective. Your mind is already made up and there’s no changing it unfortunately.

@owakheee Idk why you people think calling women feminists is offensive. Like yes exactly?🤣

@owakheee Your inability to see things beyond the female spectrum is not offensive, it’s just stubborn and ignorant. You don’t always have to be right you know

@owakheee Am I supposed to see things from a male's perspective to understand this?

@owakheee Isn’t that what feminism is about? Having society accommodate you guys? And how do we do that? By understanding things from your POV! You can’t be a feminist and a hypocrite at the same time

@owakheee You just said I have to see things beyond the "female spectrum" now you're saying I don't understand things from women's POV? O nyaka o lwa fela wena🤣🤚🏾

"you TREAT🫵🏾YOURSELF!!🫵🏾" 🤣🤣🤣

Bahumi saying “hectic” 😭

Hectic ngempela coz o reng??😭

& this take is stupid. If you can lash a friend , you can lash your man too.

Like sex e tsena kae? Mpya ke mpya😭

😭😭

She's listening so attentively and o mametse masepa😭🤚🏾

Why we keep babying men

They literally have brains

Unrelated , always thought the girl speaking ( black and white top ) and other one in coloyr blocking top were one person.😭

I don't even know these people😔😭

@itsreneilwemol Have some shame.

@itsreneilwemol No thanks

“That’s powerful” ya masepa cos what? 😭🚮

🤣🤣aba tlhalefa shem

Let me get this straight…is she saying she holds men less accountable than women?

Precisely

Lol yho y’all are weird af. You listened to the entire podcast, took this one piece with no context and posted it? Lol at this point having twitter gist is more important because there’s no discourse here. Men embarrass us daily, women are our sisters and literal life partners

Idk how to tell you think but you shouldn't be understanding of ANYBODY'S disrespect😬

This*

"Pick me"

@unclebhabhalazi Oh definitely

@Bahumi_Mhlongo is sooo beautiful 🥺🥺🥺

This doesn’t want emotions or else you wouldn’t understand

context matters… I think the subject matter here is forbearance so she just interchanged forgiveness with tolerance and the meaning was lost. Replace and listen

Tjo batho ba sheba matlakala shem. 😭✋🏾

😭😭burn the mics!!

I get her what she is saying and it’s both wrong and right . Like just bc he is man and cant “relate” doesn’t mean he doesn’t know the difference between a bad and a good thing. And yes,it’s very disappointing to be judged ,or treated bad by a woman on things that she can relate

Giving grace to men men you can't extend to your women is the next level pickme(sha) &stuff..

I’m hearing her shaame even Amo ,if you’re my friend you’re basically my sister that’s why im gonna be quick to cut you off bc our friendship has to be for the long run but if you’re my partner Idc mahn our fate has been written it’s gonna end soon I’ll give you two or 3 chances

Oh my goodness msangano 😩😩

Like??😭

Wig enametse mozwinki, fr.

She’s not wrong though, although moving forward we need to start extending the same grace to our sisters, we give men a million chances but are so quick to cut our friends off.

Definitely on hectic with Bahumi 😭😭😭😭🤚🏽

i want to speak 😭

Pls do😭😭

the female "urge" for lack of a better word to put men up there BORES me men literally hate us and idk what it's gonna take for my gworls to WAKE TF UP like this video BORED me 🕊️

Exactly!! Wdym you give men more grace?? Would they extend the same grace to you?? This entire episode was so male-centered coded e mbhorile😭🤚🏾

like?! yoh ai banyana baka? what's going on😭

Reposting for more audience 😭🙏

@mamiza__m 🤣🤣

Hypocrisy alert ‼️ Does she have a double standard? Sounds like a classic case of sexism… When women excuse bad behavior in men but criticize women for the same behavior, it's time to rethink our priorities.

Bahumi has a mug on her gadamn 🔥

I partly agree with her. It hurts more when a woman says or does mean to another woman. But that doesn't mean I'd give men grace for being shifty to me. I will hold both genders accountable for their nonsense.

😭😭 so she cannot extend the same grace to women who grew up under different circumstances than her, which literally alters a persons psychology and their approach to life? But just because men have a different reproductive system, it makes sense for her to give them grace? Ey

She’s basically giving a pass to man like how black people will vilify Fikile, Julius, Herman, General Holomisa etc but praise Helen or FF. It’s a flaw that a lot of black people suffer from, trying to fit in & be picked.

Always two dumb bitches telling each other “exactly “ Sometimes it’s more then two

With all due respect; all I heard was BULLSHIT! Wtf? 😭

I hate snippets- where can i watch the full episode and make judgments after...? I love Gabi by the way. Thank you