Finally found the video that defines me:

This is what I do also but I was using the term "I focus on fundamental things" now I learn a new term "functional partner"... However, occasionally I will throw a romantic event there and there. Life is not a fairytale I don't know who sold women that nonsense

Women are entitled to bullshit

Her flabber was gasted😅

Girl probably thirsty 😂😂

This guy is makign so much sense

Like why do you need flowers? For what

True, laba they look at Instagram nonsense

And spoil their whole day

Every broke man resonate with what he's saying

You lost the plot but okay

@OmariBr92303227 why respond to a nuisance?

@OmariBr92303227 And its a guy to make it worse 😂😂😂

Bro should lead the man conference ceremony 🤔

Definitely

Did you notice the lady reaction? 🤣

Yeah brur 🤣🤣

Yoh this went viral so quick

Omg. This is so eye opening. Just found a man that's exactly like mine. 15yrs down the road and I would still choose him though. He is my dad, bro, best mate, partner. Cheerleader, professional support. Lol. Men love differently. It can be frustrating at first bt u learn 2 accept

Penuel is right ...

Very right

@Unku_Mi I don’t like flowers because what do I do with it after?

@Unku_Mi Great

You know, I used to be this guy. She caught me. And she flipped me like an hour glass. I'm still functional and logical af. But I also try to incorporate her feelings and emotions into the entire scenerio. ...and I'm absolutely looking forward to buying flowers. The right girl never catch you.

Most men are like this. The ones that buy the flowers and kneel to propose are under intense pressure to keep up with woke demands.

Because what drives a relationship 90% of the time is the functional partner. All the romance and theatrics only make up 10% or even 5% of the relationship, because they are not reality. Buying you flowers while the kids owe school fees impractical. Some1 needs to maintain order.

This is really me, I love my woman and I don’t do performative shii the internet told us to do lol most of those woman don’t even need those things but because of what the world told them they key into it.. I do voice calls tho and I talk to my woman but I’m not forced todo shi

Men are actually scaring me. You want women who compromise for you while you compromise nothing for them.

Yes

This is the definition of being a man in a relationship and such relationships lead to marriage unlike those ones you buy flowers and do content as if you are not a man

Thank God there are men out there that understand the importance of gifting and being romantic once in a while and completely put into consideration the feelings of their life partner. And that would be the only kind of man I’ll settle for.

U see that "you will feel that I love you", for me is time bound. If I'm doing all that and u still not "feeling" it cos u desire the cliche things and gestures fed to u by tv, I'll remove masef.

I love that he is sincere and owns it. You go to him knowing what's in store for u

Men need to understand this. Being a functional partner is a perfect baseline especially when she's not your wife yet. Sometimes it requires minimal financial contribution. Spent money on her where you can, yes...but don't make that the center of your relationship or else...

This is definitely the core of a relationship as a man, but we can’t sit here and say romancing your lady isn’t equally important

Haha. Peer pressure from TV is oxymoronic but bro is right nonetheless

Most women want a functional romantic man that's why they are single because most real men are more ration and offer what is worth it while fuckboys offer the romantic option just to make them babymamas

Originally that's what relationships were meant for. Building each other and helping other find God and grow spiritually. That's why in terms of religion , people were meant to marry first for them to do the above.

He’ll be romantic to the woman he loves 😂😂😂 We know men like this fam 🥱

So basically there’s no benefit of dating you? A man will come with a rose he picked from a random garden & a hand written note & he would’ve put in more effort than you? 🫠 oh sana 💀🪦

Maybr

Lmao 😂 Someone says they love flowers and his response is, that’s peer pressure. I’m trying to get in his head how he cognitively processed that. Well…as much as I’d not invalidate what a person loves, he was candid, probably might be the bare min for others & that’s okay too.

@kyamageroandrew Bunch of guys typing things here but offline they are buying the flowers, chocolates, candlelight dinners, petals on beds, begging women and simping in their DMz. Let us not be hypocrites. If your woman loves flowers, buy them, let us be true. Alpha is as alpha does 😶

Lol women will hate you for being real "

@Roza2022Raza We are together man

@Roza2022Raza Greta choice 👍👍👍👌

@mlindos_77 Straight up find someone who doesn't come with peer pressure you will be sorted 🤟