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For years, I've been studying a philosopher named René Girard. He showed me how much the drive for prestige shapes our ambitions, and pushed me to ask: “What opportunities am I missing because they’re not prestigious enough?” In my experience, the lust for prestige is the strongest amongst high-status...

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David Perellvor 3 Jahren

In my experience, the lust for prestige doesn’t fully go away. It’s too deeply ingrained in our psyche and social infrastructure. But if you can recognize it, you can tame it. Better to be ruled by conscious choices instead of unconscious desires.

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Kjael // Skaling Venturesvor 1 Jahr

When I talk to SaaS Founders, they often struggle with subjectivity and bias in decision-making. The solution? An objective point of view informed via benchmarks and base rates. Here are 12x KPIs to assess any SaaS firm clearly and effectively:

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Leo Polovetsvor 3 Jahren

I'm increasingly convinced that not caring about prestige or titles is a superpower.

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David Perellvor 3 Jahren

I wish it was “snap of a finger” easy, but the kind of peace you need to not chase prestige requires some combination of incredible parenting, a rock-solid identity, spiritual rootedness, and probably a few other things too.

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Cynthia L. Havenvor 3 Jahren

Can't help but think about René Girard himself. He never thought about status or prestige or any of those categories. He thought about God a lot.

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Barry Fralickvor 3 Jahren

I like this idea. Perhaps you'll never become a world-renowned chef. But you could be a living legend within your own city. And there would be less competition. Regardless, I think there's magic in filling the tiny gaps others overlook.

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Ronak Sheth 🔥vor 3 Jahren

We released a ~1 hour videobook for Wanting by @lukeburgis you may find interesting that dives deep into mimetic desire:

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A.Esat Sönmezervor 3 Jahren

Swamp of prestige. So true. I have been thinking around it for years about the gap between very educated middle income and under educated high income. But could not frame it like this. Thank you.

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Joe Hovdevor 3 Jahren

There’s a buried assumption that financial rewards are better than prestige rewards. Is that necessarily right?

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Kahlil Corazo 🧭 Explorations.phvor 3 Jahren

Nice! My experience: I can't turn off the desire for status. I can only sit with it or play around with it like a dog with a tennis ball: I can design my environment so that status ladders are easy to climb and aligned with transcendent desires

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namevor 3 Jahren

spot on - but can't wear a barbour jacket with this message

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David Perellvor 3 Jahren

Hahahaha... not actually a Barbour jacket (maybe that's even worse though), but that's a hilarious reply

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ApaJvor 3 Jahren

@rattibha

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Max Widmer 🟪vor 3 Jahren

damn. 🎯

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Kevinvor 3 Jahren

The very pursuit of social status is cringe

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David Perellvor 3 Jahren

I just think it’s core to human nature, even if it’s not always ideal

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Rishi S Bhilawadikarvor 3 Jahren

Even when pursuing under priced opportunities, people hope of gaining prestige. Best to follow your curiosity and define your mission. Let the world be bothered about bestowing prestige upon it, or not. Very hard in practice.

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Valusvor 3 Jahren

The guy had two ideas.

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Andreas Dovlandvor 3 Jahren

Something being scarce and difficult to attain doesn't necessarily make it valuable.

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Samyakvor 3 Jahren

Prestige is like a shiny rock. It's pretty to look at, but it's not worth much. The best thing to do is focus on finding opportunities that have real value, even if they're not the most prestigious. Thanks for this video!

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Arunvor 3 Jahren

Lm

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Laura Clarkevor 3 Jahren

This is very good

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Phil Smithvor 3 Jahren

🔥

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Mohit Vishwakarmavor 3 Jahren

René Girard's insights on prestige are eye-opening. High-status individuals prioritize it over valuable opportunities, missing out on underpriced, low-status projects. Girard reminds us to challenge ambitions and value opportunities beyond prestige.

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Ameruddin Ibrahimvor 3 Jahren

May i know what apps do you use for caption? It’s auto caption using what?

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Rizwan Ahmadvor 3 Jahren

@rattibha

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Mr Bunchiepantsvor 3 Jahren

@Readwiseio save

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Arne Blomvor 3 Jahren

This presumes opportunity is all about money. Which means you are missing the point. What would you like to look back upon at the end of your life ? Amassing money or something else , like happiness, love and friendship ?

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Pankaj Singh Thakurvor 3 Jahren

Agree, though must say this is a simplified nuance. Prestige endeavours combined with a high degree of self awareness is most likely to lead to significant upside for self and surrounding.

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Property Decodedvor 3 Jahren

Very true for real estate investments when compared with prestigious investments like equity & crypto

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