Get married first 😔

Nah this kind people go even rush home to go make the food self. Marry first we will come back to this video.

You already know this person is toxic. Cause why are you already imagining chaos in a marriage you probably may never have?

That’s why divorce full everywhere no be really serious things dey happen this days b4 divorce na all this nonsense dey happen

No man in 2026 waits for his wife to come home when he WFH to come serve him food, and no woman in 2026 leaves the house without ensuring there is food in the house. If you do the opposite of the above, your heart is evil.

There's nothing wrong with being considerate as a father and a husband. You shouldn't even be told to be considerate. However, if this is such an issue for any woman, perhaps it's best not to get married. Most men were not raised to have this inclination, and such rigid expectations will only lead to disappointment. Secondly, even many women feel insecure when their husbands start getting the kitchen gig right. They're not used to that.

Is cooking so much of a big deal for you guys now? Won’t you cook for yourself when you get home if you were living alone?😳 Anyway since na you comot, send your husband the money make he rush go market come back🤧 mad people 😁

Nah why some of them day reach 40 years before them marry

We understand, na your type Dey even cook wait then beg am to eat even after he comes by 3am from side chick house 😏 una too Dey brag online then offline cold like ice

If wetin you go do nah wetin family send you or wetin we wan benefit No wahala But you go party Nah my papa burial??

I think at this point,ladies shud start thinking of getting married at 40,dat time dem go don mature,all these ones are literally babies

You are right my sister But calm down get husband first o This theory too much on top husband wey you never get o One of my friends don dey find husband for the past 3 years, we never get any serious one,

Talk is cheap. Ironically, some of the loudest people like this will travel 20 km every weekend to cook for a boyfriend who's busy playing video games.

A good man will help his wife no big deal but if I work from home and I am providing and i no ask you to bring your salary to pay bills, aunty you go enter kitchen cook o. Make she even marry first all these story go change. But u sayin because am home so I must cook no worry

Marry someone with common sense, someone kind, someone with empathy! I saw my father do this severally and it was incorporated into us as young kids. Anytime my mum returned home from work, she heads straight into the shower and her food is served whilst watching TV. When she’s done, we pack and from there she goes to bed! This dinner we are talking about, how long does it even take to put it together? Basic meals like white rice and stew, swallow and some already made soup🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

But when it comes to paying bills you go comot neck. E reach to cook now you dey find balance😅

I know some men will support this ®ubb!sh excuses like "not a gender thing" bla bla... If i want to cook its my choice common western mentally yet you all offer nothing just $ex and u measure yourself with men.. i pity this generation like 🤦.. you still need a lot of lecture

This ladies know what is fair and unfair when it's comes to this kind of things buh when it comes to who ever is making more money should contribute more in the family that's when they know responsibility Been logical when it favors them

Most ladies these days just don't have sense again. Why would you come online and say this even if you feel so. There's a sensible and dinifying way to go about this when you're married as you woman. You don't Lord it over the man to make the food. There's a way around it. Oponu

I just Dey pity all this people , life wey no get manual, you don see that husband marry first

People wey senior you don talk more than this before. Nah when old age start to dey knock their door, dem forget all these "I don't think" talk

There are nights I’m home but working 8pm to 6am on consultancy deadlines. Barely leave my chair. My wife comes back and still cooks for us. Not because she has to. Because she understands. Marry your friend. 🙏

This one never even marry, she's already starting an imaginary fight with an imaginary spouse 😂 argument be like drug for una😂😂

I no go cook and if you come back still no cook na you and your father go Dey debate that one. If you Dey stay alone you no go cook before. Why not make preparations for food before going out. You think say husband na your younger brother Abi?

Dont worry na this type they settle for less . A woman who still love you wont even mind all this, she will even be happy too make a meal for you …

Make all of unna just dey unna papa house abeg 😮‍💨 Amen

Don't cook for him. It's not hard, but I'm sure you'd make something for yorself to eat yh? Men don't take these things to seriously like y'all portray. A quick call, "baby I'm so tired, can you kindly do ABC". Healthy relationships don't dwell on all these negativities.

Imagine a man coming online to say he won't assist his wife in nursing their baby if he went out all day to hustle and came back home to meet his wife who has been home all day. Would she marry such a man. Make do with, what you wish with that.

Is ur marriage how that one take concern me.....u will learn in in a cry full way

Madam abeg ya making noise , fist marry first then we will know . Instead of making all this noise ,it's better as a wife prepare all meals ahead and keep it in the freezer let it be that the man will just take a portion ok for him and warm it to eat

It easy to enter a problem, but to get out of the problem is another problem.

It's not black and white. You just need to be married to your friend first before 'husband', most of these ladies date upwards to men made already. So when it comes to things like this the said 'husband' would always expect you to all domestic things since in most families the function of the man has been reduced to solely providing. So if he provides he will of course expect you to do every other mundane thing including wiping his ass if he wants you to. Conclusively, if you marry your friend first, no friend won't be considerate enough to do things for you when he clearly sees that you are exhausted from your work or anything. End.

I feel that cooking doesn’t have a specific gender. If you can cook and help your wife when she is out working all day, please do it. It really helps reduce the stress she goes through. Ladies, though, shouldn't expect it every single day e get why 😂

Some people are working from home but are actually very very busy and don’t even have time to cook or eat. There are days I’m working and I don’t have time to eat a decent meal. And I work from home

No wonder frontier don chop finish for her mama house