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Missed one part out and that is an addition to the last part. After 'we deliver the answer' he should have said 'Then we usually find out it was still the wrong answer'

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The first part about making sure it's a question is true. Don't know about all the rest. Sometimes she doesn't really want an answer or solution. She just wants to vent and know you're on her side.

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Usually my husband is just waiting for me to shut up because I ask the question in a long roundabout way. Finally a pause, and he says, โAre you done? Can I talk now?โ

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Women think it takes men too long to answer because women have already had that conversation, in their head, several times already.

@FriFri54321 Seems reasonable. I've always wondered why the long pause. ๐

@FriFri54321 Process ๐คฃ

She doesn't think before she asks a question, so the man has to do all the thinking for both of them. It's the Circle of Life. ๐

Or, which question do I answer first....

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My grandfather told me .. when responding to your wife, say the third thing that comes to your mind. Not the first or second. Will save you a world of bs. Basically think before you speak. Thatโs why we pause.

also if you think no one could misinterpreted the meaning of that, your wrong. she can, and will

When youโre dealing with some women in the militaryโฆ YES.

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Not if youโre a real man, no. You should say what you want, the way you want, and deal with the consequencesโregardless of who youโre speaking to. Anything else is just nonsense.

This was my ex-wife to a tee. Somehow, I found a really hot woman who thinks like a dude and married her 27 years ago. The peace she brings me is priceless.

Maybe not in that order... But ๐ฏ facts!! Its pretty much like trynna walts through a minefield and get out the other side with all our limbs still intact... Most times we dont

He forgot you have to analyze the tone in which to deliver the answer ๐ซฉ

He forgot the part where you have to think about the answer you came up with possibly being twisted and defending against that twisting AND being ready to go with the defense, so it doesn't seem like you're lying.

@Nuked4Every1 Itโs true for me - and I am a woman!

Examples, "Do I look fat in these pants." "Which one of my girlfriends would you date ?" "If I died would you date any of my girlfriends." All are carefully curated verbal traps formulated to produce an argument.

Itโs like answering a question fielded by a reporter for the opposing political party at a press conference.

Donโt forget to just be quiet at the end.

If I wait long enough, sheโs moved on to another topic, no answer needed. If she waits until I answer, itโs usually a trap. Either way, staying silent works. Staying silent = staying married.

Answering questions is like walking through a minefield.

Because women are never direct. And they almost 100% of the time have a motive.

Yes. Except if it's from a women, it's always a trap.

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I donโt think I have ever came across a video as accurate as this. Women donโt bother to think at all. They just reply. And they can choose to not reply. There is that one too. And you can do nothing but blame yourself.

Dude forgot the most important step: Make sure it isn't a trap again.

True! Unless you stop caring about how the other person feels, since they can't regulate their emotions and you've spent your life regulating them for everyone else. "Does this dress make me look fat?" No, you're just fat and need to stop eating. We both know you're fat; I'm not your girlfriend, so I'm not going to lie to you.

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Factz

Too true!!

100% this is our exact thought process
