He called off the wedding 3 days before…..

All this therapy makes me people weak. All of the are destined for misery while the therapist keeps picking at the wound and cashing checks.

The fact that they’re in therapy is what ruined their relationship. Prolonged therapy is a massive net negative.

You both need some hard physical labor, preferably out in nature, too much into your own perceived trauma and tragedies

The narcissism is insane... ...the whole recording and then re-watching before posting, then posting.....just insanely narcissistic

How did women survive thousands of years before therapy an TikTok?

I couldn’t image doing all this & posting it. How in the world did we survive all these years without social media?

I’m so sorry for your pain. It will take time, and you are showing him grace. I think you may have dodged a potential divorce or a very tough marriage. I say - go to Iceland with your friends & family. It sounds wonderful & definitely don’t think it will be hot 🙂

If there are serious problems and doubts before the marriage, that should tell you all you need to know. Marriage doesn’t fix relationship issues. They typically get worse

I am so sorry for the troubles you are going through @ThendoRalph you should walk away from him. I know you care and support him but you need to walk away for your own mental health

This is very hard and I am so sorry for your pain but even if it doesn’t look like it this is a blessing in disguise. One day you will look back and understand why this happened. This too shall pass. It sucks but it will pass. Hang in there.

She said she let herself get excited for the wedding. OF COURSE she would/should be excited for a destination wedding!!!! That’s not something she should be mad at herself for.

I think she dodged a bullet.

Honestly,walk away from him.He will always have depression,it will always be about are a beautiful deserve a husband who will always put you first and you can get as excited as you like preparing for your true wedding .

Run, don’t walk. You might consider the pain you save yourself when he’s put on antidepressants and (God forbid) takes his life. We’ve lost 3 friends to suicide on the drugs. Deficiencies in nutrients can be at the root. Could be a blessing in disguise. Wishing you healing.

I wonder if we’re hearing the truth of it I’m just guessing here, but I have a feeling his family has a lot of money and he wanted a prenup and you didn’t want to sign it

Shake the guilt off, Sis. Feel your feelings for right now. Timing matters in all things.

You knew where he was mentally, still wanted to have such a monumental wedding instead of a very low key one , you contributed to his decision.

I’m so sorry. You have every right to cry and all your feelings are valid. Please don’t beat yourself up for being excited about your wedding….you should be. It would be weird if you weren’t. I hope you guys get through this together and your wedding eventually comes to fruition

I’m sorry you are going through this. Everything happens for a reason and there is always a purpose for the pain. Let go and let God, invite God into the process and it will work out better than you could have imagined.

You’re better off. I hate to say. Better this than with children involved.

Come on lady ,men are not complex creatures. He doesn't want you. Why do women never understand men .? Men talk thu actions not talk . If his talk says he is staying but his actions say he is leaving.,.he is leaving.He doesn' t want you. The only ailment he has is cold feet.

Don’t feel guilty you should be angry. It’s good that he called it off because you would’ve had a hard life with him. You’re young and you will meet someone Fabulous‼️ Move on, do yourself a favor and move on‼️

Why are you posting this shit, this is your intimacy. Should everyone know what happened to you ? It is cool for the others to see, but not for you.

If he’s was battling with all these issues it’s best to let it go. It’s not going to get better When your marriage has a therapist in the middle your domed

I don't mean to sound cruel and I feel you're pain, but I don't think this is a good time you would want to get married not with the troubles that he's having right now, but just hang in there, it will get better

We just don't care

you very rarely if ever hear women speak about losing their significant other as you would hearing from a man. You’ll never hear a woman say that they are in love with their partner how their heart howls for their loss & the pain is more than their soul can take.

Who posts this for world to see ?

You dodged a bullet. Seek some mental health help and take care of yourself.❤️

We don’t care

Thank God for unanswered prayers. Do not marry him. This is not good… very bad omen for any future. It is going to be very hard… but you need to break up. This is not the life you want. You want a life with the POTENTIAL of him being a normal happy person… but that is not who he is. Mourn the relationship and do not get with another depressed or mentally ill person.

I feel your pain. It’s a real loss. You need to work on you now. Good luck.

Something is off about her. He dodged a bullet. She referred to his opening up as diarhea of the mouth.

“You may not be depressed, you may just be surrounded by assholes.”

Jesus relieves depression and anxiety